tarababy: I have been married to my hubby for 5 years now.For the past two years anytime we have disagreement or quarrel,he would spit on my face.I have had a heart to heart discussion with him to stop this disgraceful habit and he promised to stop but still did it four days ago.

Even my mum came all the way from Nigeria to plead with him here in England to stop spitting on me. Anytime I call my mum about this matter,she would start crying saying my husband is laying a curse on me and nothing good will come out of me if he continues.

I am losing interest in this marriage because there is no hope that he would ever change.I do not think any normal man would spit on his dog,let alone his wife.
He says he sees me as a poo at that moment and that his why he does it.HE is the type that loses his temper easily and would do nasty thing,which he later regrets .He is a forty year old man,who has refused to grow up.

married and matured minds in the house, do you think am wasting my time with this man?

tarababy: I have been married to my hubby for 5 years now. For the past two years anytime we have disagreement or quarrel,he would spit on my face. I have had a heart to heart discussion with him to stop this disgraceful habit and he [size=18pt]promised to stop but still did[/size] it four days ago.

Even my mum came all the way from Nigeria to plead with him here in England to stop spitting on me. Anytime I call my mum about this matter,she would start crying saying my husband is laying a curse on me and nothing good will come out of me if he continues.

I am losing interest in this marriage because there is no hope that he would ever change.I do not think any normal man would spit on his dog,let alone his wife.
He says he sees me as a poo at that moment and that his why he does it. HE is the type that loses his temper easily and would do nasty thing,which he later regrets .He is a forty year old man,who has refused to grow up.

married and matured minds in the house, do you think am wasting my time with this man?

bunmila:
Have you tried spittin right back? Since he has refused to listen to reason, a taste of his own medicine might just be the cure

tarababy:

he is a yoruba man.full blown nigerian with niger mentality.

n_bisi: Well put everything in prayer is well

jidegirl12: hehehe..... all these for me?

Jenny bravo !..... just like I expected...

.my house is paid off too....$800k with same equity on top( $1.6M).....

Thats the biggest contract in Nigeria I've ever deal.....I don't do Fashola just so you know.... na goodluck runs I deal....go figure .......you see.... bragging not easy if you don't earn it.... if that's acting like a child then lick my behind then
As per wanting attention from NL losers you call men....I'm looking for that day to come.....I really don't care what you say..... It actually brings more freeze to my fingers

And to you ileoba .... ummmm you must have done a good job digging.... you're the only one who remembered everything about me.... babymama and David were as confused as hell where and what about my details.... see what I mean by digging ? Get a life honey and stop following me everywhere I go on NL ....gives me the creeps!

To brag more to untangle your brain cells; I own 7 homes ( 4 more in 2013) I run as a medical practitioner ( same as MD).... I'm the CEO and OWNER ! If y'all are irritated by me I will suggest go shoot yourselves in the head! It's nothing strange to happen

And for you cotton..... where do I start ? It's a lost battle to start explaining to you bout my take on racism.... everything was blown out of proportion, but like it already seem like its customary on NL of you follow follows to believe what your leaders put out there.... I don't care!

Who else?

Just when I thought it couldn't go lower
You need to figure out what pain you are trying to numb by all theses boastings and story telling
My husband and I have both practiced our professions here in the USA for over a decade and there is absolutely no way on this earth that a couple that makes about $220,000 in expendable income can have an $800,000 house fully paid for and 7 other houses
Sorry you do government runs too?
I hope you will also receive their" blessings" as karma makes his rounds

You need serious help with that which ails you

tarababy: [size=18pt]I have tried my best to save this marriage and i don't know what else to do.I separated from him for four months last year[/size], but he was calling the pastor,my mum,brother and friends to plead on his behalf.

He is a typical nigerian man who wants a wife he can walk on and dictate how she can live her life.How do you live with a man who does not agree with you before taking major steps in life.
he wants to be a leader but does not set good examples.He wants automatic respect but forgets it is earned.
Unfortunately am not one of the women,any man can boss around.I am not claiming to be perfect but i definately know what i want from life.

He believes he is the head and so i should not question his authority.This is 21st century where man and woman work together in partnership.He still lives in the old age,where he believes the husband is always right.

He is a businessman who is always home most of the time cos he has people working for him but he still expects me to come back from work to make his meal eventhough there is always stew in the fridge and he is a good cook.

he complains that i don't wake up early enough to cook and get the kids ready for school but he wakes up earlier but will not lift a finger cos he believes it is a woman's duty.

He said am not been submissive cos i have questioned why he can't cook his meal and have the kids shower since he wakes up earlier.

The only thing he is responsible for is the mortgage and i pay the rest of the bills,just to let people know that am a fair person.

[size=18pt]i have to mention that he graduated from beating me to spitting.[/size]
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I am quitting the marriage cos am fed up and not cos some people advised me to do so.[/size]

Rotmyt: A frustrated Nigerian wife on a foreign soil takes to nairaland and tries to count her "blessings". It's therapeutic for her but she has become a wealthy nuisance.

mondi_cheeks: So for the past 5yrs u have never decided to press charges against him U wld rather waste money paying flight tickets some pple find pleasure in suffering

berem: the thing tire me o! If you calculate the volume of the spit wey dem don use baptize the woman since 5years,e suppose don full 25litre jerrycan.na wa for some people o!

*Kails*:


[size=15pt]ARE YOU KIDDING MEEEEEEEE?!![/size]
Madam! im not married and depending on who you ask, I am not always the "most mature" at times...

BUT! the bolded alone is enough for YOU TO HAVE SOME DIGNITY AND SHOW YOU HAVE LOVE FOR YOURSELF by packing up and leaving this socalled "relationship" alone. Love is powerful, love is beautiful and sometimes love hurts...But that doesn't mean you have to be a fo0l for it! This man does NOT respect you! He said it himself and not only did he say it HE SPITS ON YOU!!! Are you kidding me? A man could slap me and I'd still leave him but to SPIT?!

NO WAY!!

shymexx:
Anyway, it's the family section, a play ground for single mums... Don't you lot have kids to baby sit??

baby_mama: People,the thread officially ended on page 8 when the OP made her decision






keep your advise to yourselves the woman has made her decision