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Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by chikeorji123(m): 10:29am On Jan 05, 2013 |
dopeJemi: I don't think Op is qualify to been in a rela-ship,l suspect she might not be up to 16..'no offence'.. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by ohuegbeair(m): 10:38am On Jan 05, 2013 |
ya mind is already made up . u just need people to support ya decision |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by nollywood20: 10:43am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Move on, because your life is more important than the ego of any man. For every broken heart, there is a place of comfort within the same heart. 2 Likes
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Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by obichijiokeobi: 10:48am On Jan 05, 2013 |
†ђξ sooner you ladies stopped diving into ur man's privacy,d better. U might just get ur heart broken by urself. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Flygerian1(m): 11:09am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Laffin out loud @ Dopejemi's post. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by dlinglos(f): 11:11am On Jan 05, 2013 |
My candid advice If you feel insecure about the relationship,feel free to sit him down and talk about what you've been thinking.. Listen to what he says carefully and review/compare it with what you've seen,from there you'll know the way forward either by staying or leaving him Finally @cutejay... You're still very young to be feeling this way there are a lotta people in the outside world looking to have you as a wife to be,don't waste your time on wishful thinking cos it hurts much... True dear! Move on! |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by tonte(m): 11:18am On Jan 05, 2013 |
@ OP I think u NEED 2 have sex with me |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Chazim(m): 11:24am On Jan 05, 2013 |
:oSometimes we waste too much time thinking about someone who doesn’t eventhink about us for a second. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by mu2sa2: 11:24am On Jan 05, 2013 |
luluosas:Probably the best advice so far. But chances are she wouldn't listen because she is maybe more interested in relationship (euphemism for illicit sex). Nowadays many would continue changing partners in the name of relationship forgetting that marriage is the honourable thing for any serious person instead of a life of fornication /adultery. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by ofegge73(m): 11:26am On Jan 05, 2013 |
First of all, always bear in mind that a Man who isn't honest to You,can never truly say,He loves You. 2. Be more focused on developing yourself,Academic wise,Trainings,Certifications,just build-up Ur profile. 3.Never try to change a grown Adult,it just simply doesn't work,its easier to change a child. 4.Learn to appreciate all Yourself. 5.A true -love relationship has less drama,so if Ur having multiple scenarios,then something isn't exactly right. 6.Like You said,You have dated him for bout six months,have You met any of His siblings?has He introduced You to any of them,or his old folks?what bout His friends?If He hasn't,then You can be sure,Ur not anything more than a female Friend. 7.When You meet a new Man,don't be in a hurry to sleep with Him,take Ur time to find out as much as You can,pay Him surprise visits,and explain to Him,You only thought it would be a pleasant surprise to do so and see His reaction,most Men can hold-up an act,but can't sustain it,except You are playing by their Rules;something like call Me before You come over,stuff like that. 8.Don't be desperate! 9.Don't be predictable,atleast not at the early stage of relationship. 10.Always be straight to the point with the guy,don't assume and don't procrastinate,cos assumptions ruin potentially good relationships. 11.Believe in God and tell Him evrything in Prayer. I hope this will help. Goodluck! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Singalex(m): 11:26am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Les: Young woman which other advice do you want If you wanna be bad, be bad, if you wanna be good, be good. When will you "good gals" grow up? With regards to your signature, ah dont think you can ever grow up when you tink dat age is just a number. When ppl learn not to let other ppl's attitude determine their life style for them? If you tink dis relationship has failed you, go into another one till you meet ur mr perfect, dont ask me how many relationship you've to be into, after ol, dat electric bulb you are seeing, d inventor failed 999 times b4 he succeeded. Keep trying, you know where you failed d last time and make it up in d next one till you're perfect in d game. Being single is not d solution here but abstinence till marriage. ;DPls its hust 99 times..yea thanks dnt mention.. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by andyanders: 11:32am On Jan 05, 2013 |
[b]People should understand what this lady is going through.I think an open relationship is the best devoured of any kind/form of secrecy. I think having another lady and going ahead to open another account goes to show he has something hidden. Also, I still believe any man that had a child from another woman and is not staying with that mother of that child should be thoroughly investigated before one goes into any form of relationship with him. Young lady, I think you should watch it because the taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage. I do not think you will have a healthy relationship with this man. Pathological liars are the worst people you can accommodate. In as much as he keep denying, you also keep distancing yourself from him. I think maybe you got stocked up here because of what he showers on you and please do not be blindfolded with those acts. Proves has shown that Killers are always to cool and always calm but very corny.When they display their hidden attitude, you will be amazed.[/b] |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Onyiip(f): 11:35am On Jan 05, 2013 |
@cutejay, if u no longer trust the guy then its better to call of the relationship rather than keep hurting yourself I think you'll be better of if u take a break from relationship for atleast six months. Pls dont think its too long, it would pay off. Use the time to work on yourself, discover your weaknesses and work on them while improving your strength. You'll discover great potentials in yourself and your worth |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Pritheeann(f): 11:49am On Jan 05, 2013 |
dopeJemi: Sometimes, its u gurLz dat give urseLfs heartbreakseconded... |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by nodullin(m): 11:49am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Ije004: O girl I feel your pain. But the thruth is at your age don't make the opposite sex a major priority in your life. Focus on getting a good career and a good life for yourself. The right man will come along. You won't even need to search. They will come running after you.In my very early 20's I had a string of heartbreaks and I decided to take this rule and now I'm thankful for this. And most of all, don't hate men! If you do, you will only end up painting every man with the same brush and miss out the good ones! 1 of d very reasonable advice~ focus on ur career & build a lyfe 4 urself^ Even without a guy~ u wld live~ ynot build dat perfect lyfe 4 urself 1st then watch dem all over U like a Boss-Lady^ |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
ikenna44: Lik...rily? R u kidin me? U re in ur early 20s...and u re wilin 2 put up wit all dat drama? Baby daddy! Dat kips secrets 4rm u? My dear u beta run...u re 2 young 4 all dat.Thru talk honestli |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Yobosman(m): 12:17pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
NEROSKY: farochron: Hello Cutejay, |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by morgist(m): 12:22pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
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Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by anonymous419: 12:24pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
dopeJemi: Sometimes, its u gurLz dat give urseLfs heartbreak lwkm, I love this guy. #no homo |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
chikeorji123: U too talk.....talkless of.urrg |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by drnoel: 12:40pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Pity but u dont have proof of anthing, until u get one i refuse to comment...besides is just one man that u talked about so doesnt even qualify for some... |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Nobody: 12:43pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
OP. I'm sorry about how you feel but concluding the guy is cheating on you isn't right because you don't have the proof to show for it yet. Had a similar experience too- He kept uploading a kid and a lady's picture on his facebook wall. Well, story line is that he was/is a married man. I'll just advice you to be careful on how you go about dealing with him. I mean, don't have any intimate stuff with him and try to avoid him as much as possible while investigating the matter. You never know - his wife may be lurking around looking for a girl to give an acid-bath But seriously, am serious here. Your safety first He could be a single father truely, but who knows? Its all left for you to find out and whilst doing that, be calm, play the fool and don't let him know your intentions. With time, you would be fine and know the truth. Best of Luck! |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by lawrenzoo: 1:18pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Did you hear urself? "u are a good Girl". U are so lucky that u are seeing this signs of betrayal on time because you are a good person.You are not a spirit and u don't have any supernatural power to go deep into human heart and mind to see how evil it is, the only way u can see it is through evidences with the help of nature working with ur good heart. If you were a bad person, those signs would have been hidden from you for a very long time and by the time u get to know of it, it would have been too late. You are knowing this on time because ur Angel wants you to see on time the fire u are putting ur hand into but bècareful, don't just conclude, make findings on ur own to be sure of wat u are suspecting. Never stop being good, that is the only way nature can be supporting u. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by skyflash(m): 1:47pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Cutejay: I am in a confused state right now infact am tired of getting my heart bashed this is the 2nd worst hit.you are just stupid i mean how can you believe this guy ok just tell him to show you the mother of the son. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Sagamite(m): 2:18pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Cutejay: I am in a confused state right now infact am tired of getting my heart bashed this is the 2nd worst hit. How is it in his best interest to tell you if he is seeing someone else? What good does that do for him? Don't you act in your self-interest? My advice, be a bad girl, let everyone act in their best interest and negotiate through barter to get a relationship. Don't hold on to your self-interest and then be looking for manginas to support you in castigating him doing the same. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
? seriously? this is soo simple u don't need a phd just open a new facebook account with a really cute guys pic, then let him find out accidentally about your new account then when he asks u about the guy stall and don't give him a direct answer, if h really loves you he will adjust if not at least you got back at him.. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Sagamite(m): 3:02pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
^^^^ OP, let me give you my picture to use to open the FB account. That will dry up his liver and give him complex kia kia. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Sagamite: ^^^^ OP, let me give you my picture to use to open the FB account. Are you cute? |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Sagamite(m): 3:28pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Tashamania: Very! As in stunningly cute. |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by wills03: 3:33pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
see there is something you need to know. All what you did, according to your post, you were doing it for him rather than yourself. Let me tell you! If you want to be good, don't do it for anybody else you will be disappointed,just do it for yourself and pray for God to give you someone that will appreciate that your effort else you will continue to be in this mess. I advise you check well, the man may not be cheating on you, all he may need is just for you to trust him. Shikina! |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Les: Young woman which other advice do you want If you wanna be bad, be bad, if you wanna be good, be good. When will you "good gals" grow up? With regards to your signature, ah dont think you can ever grow up when you tink dat age is just a number. When ppl learn not to let other ppl's attitude determine their life style for them? If you tink dis relationship has failed you, go into another one till you meet ur mr perfect, dont ask me how many relationship you've to be into, after ol, dat electric bulb you are seeing, d inventor failed 999 times b4 he succeeded. Keep trying, you know where you failed d last time and make it up in d next one till you're perfect in d game. Being single is not d solution here but abstinence till marriage. Do you truly live in a hotel abi you simply dey form for us here? |
Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by lafad11(m): 3:57pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Are sure ur man is not a 'Job Man'? Who uses female pix to scam on fb. Do ur findings o. Before u kill ur self wit worries. |
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