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Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 6:01pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
I have been living with my wife for over 10 years, there is no week she does not give me every reason to regret my life..regret the word marriage.....She picks up quarrel every day, she suspects me of cheating every seconds, she can just wake up one morning and start nagging over the house that i am cheating on her..At time she says i want to kill her.... |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by xynerise: 6:04pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
jeff_oja: I have been living with my wife for over 10 years, there is no week she does not give me every reason to regret my life..regret the word marriage.....She picks up quarrel every day, she suspects me of cheating every seconds, she can just wake up one morning and start nagging over the house that i am cheating on her..At time she says i want to kill her....when exactly did this start? Before or after the marriage? |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by Toktee(m): 6:07pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Guy,ask her if she made mistake making u as her choice huby she should amend it...but i want you to know that the woman is the one cheating on you,they are like that they use hostile approach to keep you from mornitoring her,watch closely you will agree with me |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by xynerise: 6:09pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Toktee: the woman is the one cheating on you,they are like that they use hostile approach to keep you from mornitoring her,watch closely you will agree with meWhat do you know about marriage? . Stop giving him bad advice. |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 6:10pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
xynerise:After the marriage |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 6:11pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Toktee: Guy,ask her if she made mistake making u as her choice huby she should amend it...but i want you to know that the woman is the one cheating on you,they are like that they use hostile approach to keep you from mornitoring her,watch closely you will agree with meShe keeps saying it is me or nobody will have me |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by xynerise: 6:12pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
jeff_oja:sorry I meant before or during marriage. There is nothing like after marriage Anyways, its a clear sign that you guys didnt date for a long time before marriage. |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 6:16pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
xynerise:we dated right from secondary school though out university, we dated for over, she changed after i said i do.... |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by xynerise: 6:20pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
jeff_oja:wow! Maybe you should talk to her and let her know you are not cheating on her. But if she keeps misbehaving, then use plan B. |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 6:36pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
xynerise:Thanks |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by xynerise: 6:41pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
jeff_oja:you are welcome. |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by omega25red(m): 6:54pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
poster most of the time people wont just start accusing you without having a reason. So answer this in all honesty, have you given her a reason to doubt your loyalty to her? doesn't even have to be that you slept with someone else. could be that you come home everyday at 7 and today you came home at 10 smelling of perfume or could be that you used to let her see your phone and recently you started hiding it from her or could be that she caught you undressing another woman with your eyes you should sit down with her the next time she starts yelling and nagging and calmly ask questions as to where her anger is coming from and what you both can do to get over it. I know this is hard especially when it comes to someone just waking up and yelling at you, but you have to be patient and be brave. if you can figure out why she suddenly changed maybe you can work it out assuming you didn't cheat and you came to NL to make yourself feel better. |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by obicentlis: 6:55pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Plan b is not actually the best solution, bro, pray and talk to her, make her feel secured abt your love. Carry her along. In my place, its sAid 'one person is the key to a good friendship' you can be the KEY to your union. Work on it and you will not regret. Peace to You! |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Maybe things are not the way it was. Maybe things are just like the same old, same old thing. So dry, very boring, what you are used to, no change, nothing. Why not try to spice things up a bit, give her a treat for a change. Take her out for a change, surprise her with gifts, make her feel special on her birthday, just give her a surprise. I bet you if u do all these right,there will be a change. Even if finances aint too good, just try! Try it! Plus prayers though! 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 11:40pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
omega25red: poster I have done every thing, i will keep to your advice and be brave |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 11:43pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
AmBeautiful: Maybe things are not the way it was. Maybe things are just like the same old, same old thing. So dry, very boring, what you are used to, no change, nothing. Thank you, I will keep trying new things, Thank you once again |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by otokx(m): 12:29am On Jan 18, 2013 |
there is more to this |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 12:40am On Jan 18, 2013 |
otokx: there is more to thisCant figure anything |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by Sijo01(f): 12:47am On Jan 18, 2013 |
Serious matter *exit thread for antelope to handle* |
Re: Please Advice Me.... by jeffoja: 1:08am On Jan 18, 2013 |
Sijo01: Serious matter *exit thread for antelope to handle*I don't understand you |
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