H$LBroker:


very true but have seen situation where by a man will call is wife and narrate all the encounter of the past and the present of the day and she will still be grumbling

well all i will say in summary sum up to understanding, respect for one another and love.

nuges...1:
Our love became a nightmare when he found solace in another woman’s arms and he changed to a wife beater”. A house wife, Mrs Olubunmi Jolaogun, disclosed this while praying an Orile-Agege Grade ‘B’ Customary Court,Lagos to put an end to  her  9-year-old marriage to her husband, Olubode, over desertion and lack of care. The 35-year-old-woman, who lives at 2, Musa Street, Ikotun, told the court that her marriage had been nothing but a nightmare.

”My husband had nothing when I met him, and I was the one taking all the responsibility at home. ”When things started getting better for him, he neglected me and, before I knew it, he had impregnated another woman and spends quality time with her. ”He lied that he was going to Abuja. I later saw the receipt of the hotel he lodged in  here in Lagos during that time,”she said.

”He always accused me of prostituting which I never did; he came to report me to my parents and, in the process, he slapped my elder sister.”

Olubunmi, a mother of two urged the court to dissolve the union and grant her custody of the children. Meanwhile, Olubode, 38, denied the allegations. He said, “I did not leave her. My business took me out of the house. I have always cared  for her and the children. ”While I am away, she doesn’t sleep in the house, and I don’t know where she normally goes. She is extremely stubborn and doesn’t listen to me.

”She has not spent  up to 30 weekends in my house for the past four years and I don’t know why”. Olabode, who lives at 9, Temidire Street, Ikola, Ipaja, Lagos also told the court that his wife had pushed him outside and could not be a caring and responsible husband again if the marriage was not dissolved.

”If the custody of the children is granted her, I want my children to be taken to my parents  every holidays, because my wife’s family contributed negatively to our fight”. The court president, Mr Joseph Adewusi, told the couple to maintain the peace and adjourned the case till Jan 28 for further hearing.

Table Leg :


Why wont some men learn for God's sake?

Sisi_Kill: The wives never gets the credit when something Good happens to them ooh, it is when they misbehave they remember they have wives.

On a slightly different note, If the woman is not the "psychological support" for when a man makes his millions, is it fair to say she ain't the "psychological support" for when things go south?

Sagamite and Dayakanu. . .I hope it is obvious that I am using style to look for y'alls trouble.

Richvkunt: I can feel this man's pain.
90% of divorce case can be traced to the fact that extended families want to influence events in a marriage and this ends up as interference.
Parents,brothers,sisters need to learn that once a couple become man and wife they MUST be given their space and be allowed to build up their home.
Take it from one who knows what he is talking about.

jp philips:


well, the treatment men get from their wives when they are poor is nothing to write home about, i don't see any reason why a sane man should keep such a woman when he has made it.
in this case the woman was having weekend nite outs when the man was down, now that he has made it, she still expect him to be his sweetheart? lol what a wish

mega360: what is d court waiting for in disolving ds marriage? both parties seems saturated.

nuges...1:
Our love became a nightmare when he found solace in another woman’s arms and he changed to a wife beater”. A house wife, Mrs Olubunmi Jolaogun, disclosed this while praying an Orile-Agege Grade ‘B’ Customary Court,Lagos to put an end to  her  9-year-old marriage to her husband, Olubode, over desertion and lack of care. The 35-year-old-woman, who lives at 2, Musa Street, Ikotun, told the court that her marriage had been nothing but a nightmare.

”My husband had nothing when I met him, and I was the one taking all the responsibility at home. ”When things started getting better for him, he neglected me and, before I knew it, he had impregnated another woman and spends quality time with her. ”He lied that he was going to Abuja. I later saw the receipt of the hotel he lodged in  here in Lagos during that time,”she said.

”He always accused me of prostituting which I never did; [size=18pt]he came to report me to my parents and, in the process, he slapped my elder sister.”[/size]

Olubunmi, a mother of two urged the court to dissolve the union and grant her custody of the children. Meanwhile, Olubode, 38, denied the allegations. He said, “I did not leave her. My business took me out of the house. I have always cared  for her and the children. ”While I am away, she doesn’t sleep in the house, and I don’t know where she normally goes. She is extremely stubborn and doesn’t listen to me.
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vislabraye: Seedord says he can't marry from his tribe evn though he's Yoruba.
I know a Yoruba doctor who says he can't marry from his tribe.
But funny thing is that I might marry from the West. Different strokes for different folks.

SELFWORTH:

People are being naive.
The success of a marriage does not depend on the tribe your spouse is from BUT depends on efforts by both parties to make it a success .

H$LBroker:
Now let me educate you base on 11years experience, a submissive woman can win back the man that is about to get lost, even the bible said so, that is why i love muslim women they act like sarah, wife of abraham, i'm not talking about career women oo because majority of them don't want to hear the word submission, any home you find submissive woman the home is always peaceful and progressing and love will be abundant in that home but any home you find a sturborn woman that is dragging the headship of that home with the man there always problem that we lead to dirvoce

SELFWORTH:

It doesn't matter how submissive, you need a man to reciprocate with love and respect.

A relationship is two ways. Read your bible very well.

ifihearam:

Learn wetin?

seedord247: I keep sayin it.... Even thou i'm 101% yoruba, i wont marry from my tribe. If you marry a yoruba woman just have it mind that you marry the entire family. A yoruba woman cant think for herself unless she invite all her families.

seedord247:

Sir/ma.

The word love and respect means a MUMU man to nigerian women insuch black women as a whole.

9ice treat his wife with love and resepect... She ends up showing him what a man can do a woman can do worst..

Black women need a man emotional strong as tiger not rabbit.

Table Leg :

This is what happens when some folks dont pay attention to detail ... They ask silly or daft questions!
Now go back and look at the post i quoted and find out about what i did to a portion of the story!

HARDDON: Oh dear! Once again, money steps in and destroys....

Reminds me of the saying : ascend a step to chose a friend, descend a step to pick a wife . This is a case of d man hanging his coat where his hands cnt ever get to. Biting more dan he can possibly chew.

Fud ƒoя tot to all dεм guys out there luking to marry a Rich gurl. She might love Ʊ @ first, but immediately she takes up d bread winning role from you, out goes love tru d window, respect is murdered and realities of life sets in.

Dis woman want out not because d man cheated but cos she feels she deserves beta and she can't just bring ha self down to seeing d guy as ha husby again no matter haw much he naw earns. And she has bin f'ing out too. Started long tym ago anyways. He cudnt do anytin cos she was d oηε feeding d house . Sad.

MONEY IS A BAITCH!

SELFWORTH:

People are being naive.

The success of a marriage does not depend on the tribe your spouse is from BUT depends on efforts by both parties to make it a success .

gbanikiti: another stewpid comment from a man who keeps abusing women on this forum.whats the difference between you and the man? are you now the judge to decide who is right or wrong? what has tribe got to do with this topic anyway? mtscheeew!

mysticgal: mr were u there?.

ifihearam:

You are a stuupid mumu
What lesson is there to learn from the false tale the woman presented?besides my question was a rhetorical one and never expected reasonable answer from a goat like you.

Baby mama:

Sorry my dear woman
Imagine jumping on okada up and down while carrying 9 month pregnancy with a slippers wearing husband , drinking garri with him and praying for a better tomorrow and as soon as God butters his bread,he leaves you for some cheap floozy.
Impregnating everything in skirt all over Lagos metropolis
Ndo my sister
Concentrate on the kids and forget the eediot
He will soon eat the fish wey go holl am for neck


The buffoon even had the guts to slap your sister in your father's house
And he escaped without serious injuries
There are no males in your family or what? Not even a loyal houseboy?
Not our portion in my family o
Who born you?

ifihearam:

You are a stuupid mumu
What lesson is there to learn from the false tale the woman presented?besides my question was a rhetorical one and never expected reasonable answer from a goat like you.

Table Leg :

Your entire lineage are fu..cking goats ... You raggedy a.s.s beeeyotch
Coming all up here to throw shade .. you must be frigging mad
Unfortunate product of an accidental mating between a donkey and a cat!
Olofo

ifihearam:

I hope it is well with and your family sha. Well because I have repented I will no longer trade words with non entities,so I forgive you,otherwise I usually call people like you fools but since am a changed man I refuse to call you a fool.

”While I am away, she doesn’t sleep in the house, and I don’t know where she normally goes.