u got 3 choice:
1. Take their advice
2. take their addvice
3. Make your own damn decisions . . . it is ur life incase u've forgotten!

choice is urs.

Why? are they doubting the lady's fertility?

Do ya own thing. . . whaeva makes u feel good!

If she get belle now, na pickin she go born. If she get belle after the wedding na pickin she go still born,

what is the big deal.

But seriously, I don't see anything in forcing anybody to get pregnant before wedding. Are they God?[/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

Give us the details or reasons why they are asking you to do so,
so that we don`t jugde amiss.Yes, there must be at least a reason.

kola oloye:

Give us the details or reasons why they are asking you to do so,
so that we don`t jugde amiss.Yes, there must be at least a reason.

Thinking same. . . at least.

@ poster

My Parent Says I Must Get Her Pregnant Before Our Wedding

This is somehow viscious , Could you please throw more light on it for proper understanding. What actually led to this?

Why if i may ask?

i,m available if you can,t _{provided she is fresh beautifull,tanterlising and succulent}

@poster
Uh,dude,is she the same one that's 5 years older than you?If its she,then i ain't too surprised at your people's request

nicenaira:

I tried my possible best to convince them but,all of it to no avail.And i did not not believe in all this fanatics of theirs.What should i do please

I wish i had your kind of parents.

@poster
dude, all i can say is. . it's your choice, do what you gotta do. . . so, what if she turns out infertile, are you going to leave her?

nicenaira:

I tried my possible best to convince them but,all of it to no avail.[b]And i did not not believe in all this fanatics of theirs.[/b]What should i do please

@poster

Most men usually have minds of their own unless. . . . . . .something is spritually and psychologically wrong.  If you are in a relationship and you let your parents dictate to you how to live your life as and adult, you may have a combination of other anti-social problems.  Frankly, I think that is what the Freudists call lack of "autonomy" in early stages of childhood.  You "do not believe in their fanatics", yet you are confused on what to do?  You must be owing them large sums of money. Most people who do not follow their hearts without concrete reasons usually end up miserable for the rest of their lives. . . . .as you can see.

Please get some help. . . . . . .wherever you can find it.

Just an observation anyway. . . .you are only 20, so not rush to imprenate any thing including yourself right now.

You neva tell us wetin u want.
U want her to get pregnant. so go ahead and stop asking us here

And what happens if things go wrong? where does that leave here?

if ur parents still dictate to u hw u should run ur life then maybe u are not ready for marriage yet.
wen u have grown a backbone then u can CONSIDER marriage.

wetin person no go hear again for nairaland

@Poster!
You are an adult and you should make quality decision that is not forcefully influenced by your parents!After all said and done its still your life and its going to be you living with the lady in question.To be sincere with you dont get her pregnate, at least to prove a point to your parents that you ve been weaned from them and you are man eough to begin to run your life!

if ur parents still dictate to u hw u should run ur life then maybe u are not ready for marriage yet.
wen u have grown a backbone then u can CONSIDER marriage.

wetin person no go hear again for nairaland