Orikinla: [size=18pt]Oh, my God!
She is just your girlfriend and not your wife![/size]

[size=18pt]I have never ever listened to or bothered about the phone or phone calls of any girlfriend and I have never even looked at the phone of any girlfriend even if I bought her the phone.
I gave a girlfriend from Kogi money for a Samsung smart phone, but I have never asked her about it. And whenever she visited, I never bothered to inspect it.
A girlfriend is not your private property until she is formally married to you and even then she deserves RESPECT even if you don't trust her. Comprendo o entiendo?[/size]

nor be frm gf dem take dey marry? Whts all dis ur talk of she's just a gf. Am finkin of marryin her u guys r here talkin of just a gf. So shud I wait afta marrying her b4 I get to check on her. If u guys dnt hv anyfin 2 say keep shut n look

@OP... I want u to know that seeking advice from a forum like this on relationship issues sometimes don't work. The best way to handle it is for you to manage it yourself. If you can't manage it on your own and succeed in it, then I doubt if you are yet a man.
But if I must say something, I will say you should stop monitoring her movements, her calls, friends she keep, her ways as a whole. Give space. If you by chance notice anything, don't wait to ask her about it and just believe anything she tells you. One thing I know is that if truely shes misbehaving and YOU ARE NOT, one day nemesis will catch up with her and she will regret it.
About the call of her sisters she receive at the same time you use to call, I'll say you let her know that you deserve some respect from her. Even if she's receiving those calls and your call enter, it will be a sign of respect to you if she just tell those ones that you are calling and she want to pick your call than for her to keep you waiting for 15min. Just talk that out with her.

toksade: @OP... I want u to know that seeking advice from a forum like this on relationship issues sometimes don't work. The best way to handle it is for you to manage it yourself. If you can't manage it on your own and succeed in it, then I doubt if you are yet a man.
But if I must say something, I will say you should stop monitoring her movements, her calls, friends she keep, her ways as a whole. Give space. If you by chance notice anything, don't wait to ask her about it and just believe anything she tells you. One thing I know is that if truely shes misbehaving and YOU ARE NOT, one day nemesis will catch up with her and she will regret it.
About the call of her sisters she receive at the same time you use to call, I'll say you let her know that you deserve some respect from her. Even if she's receiving those calls and your call enter, it will be a sign of respect to you if she just tell those ones that you are calling and she want to pick your call than for her to keep you waiting for 15min. Just talk that out with her.

sum1 sensible is speaking....fanks a lot bro,well I've discussed wit her,n she assured me nufin is goin on. I believe her now,cos she showed me her call log. So case closed

frank50fun: sum1 sensible is speaking....fanks a lot bro,well I've discussed wit her,n she assured me nufin is goin on. I believe her now,cos she showed me her call log. So case closed

Is it safe to say that you obsessed with her? please don't kill me! Just trust her that's all! You saw her call log, so what? What if she deleted some of it before showing it to you?

NnekaGirl:


Is it safe to say that you obsessed with her? please don't kill me! Just trust her that's all! You saw her call log, so what? What if she deleted some of it before showing it to you?

the time of the calls r stil there,n d caller was actually her aunt. U're right,am madly in love wif her...

frank50fun: the time of the calls r stil there,n d caller was actually her aunt. U're right,am madly in love wif her...

Good luck, take it easy don't hurt yourself too much .

NnekaGirl:

Good luck, take it easy don't hurt yourself too much .

am nt hurting myself oh,just protecting I'll say.

Kk, becos she showed u her call log u dont want a brk again?
I can save another bf's name with mum,y not check further. :x