vin4ever: Hmmmm. I dont cheat and my partner also dont cheat on me. So all this technic na wash for my way!

Ijele-igbo:
In this age of modern technology 'going through
mobile phone' has been cited as the most common
way cheating is discovered, according to a new
poll.

1. Went through mobile phone - 41 per cent

2. Went through social media account - 23 percent

3. Went through files on PC/laptop/tablet - 13 percent

4. Caught in the act (face to face) - 11 per cent

5. Told by friend - 5 per cent

6. Told by family member - 3 per cent

7. Confession - 2 per cent

8. Others - 2 per cent

So how did you discover your partner was
cheating? Any of this or the old ways of lipstick on
the collar? Scent of another woman's perfume, etc?

imperiouxx:

Bunch of crap! Become inspector gadget because of your partner. I don't give a fucck about any discovery on her and I won't take such from her too. Shineka!

Ijele-igbo:


Did you mean to say Shikena?

Orikinla: GUYS WHO FRET OVER THEIR BABES CHEATING ON THEM ARE MOSTLY INSECURE GUYS.

My current woman works and is also a student at UNILAG and she goes for evening classes. But I have never bothered about her going astray or whatever. I only focus on her work and academics.
On Val's day, she told me she received gifts from other guys and I never queried her who they were.
We just discussed the gifts from her male admirers.

I walk into her office and see a male visitor sitting beside her and we greet politely and I never query her about him.
She was nearby last night in front of my office when a female friend came to see me and sat on my laps before I brought her a chair and my woman did not fret.
We love each other and we respect each other, because we understand each other.
[size=28pt]
Only immature and insecure people cheat.
And only immature and insecure people fret over cheating.[/size]

vanstanzy: By the use of MAGUN! Most effective way, though!

Coldfeet: Before I got married the way I use to know if my Boyfriend has cheated on me is when I take his di:ck in my hand! a very old but secret method that always works! Don't ask how o!! Sometimes subconsciously I do it to my husband not that I suspect he's cheated on me o! (HE CAN'T ANYWAY) and he's never failed the test.

Oahray: Some people go just give themselves heartache for nothing. Instead of trying to make it work, some peeps work their asses off looking for signs of cheating.

If they finally find one (real or imagined), what next?

repogirl:

Then you decide whether the relationship is worth salvaging or not by talking to your partner and finding out what he/she wants especially if married. Better to know than to suddenly contact an STD or worse still HIV.

Ijele-igbo:
In this age of modern technology 'going through
mobile phone' has been cited as the most common
way cheating is discovered, according to a new
poll.

1. Went through mobile phone - 41 per cent

2. Went through social media account - 23 percent

3. Went through files on PC/laptop/tablet - 13 percent

4. Caught in the act (face to face) - 11 per cent

5. Told by friend - 5 per cent

6. Told by family member - 3 per cent

7. Confession - 2 per cent

8. Others - 2 per cent

So how did you discover your partner was
cheating? Any of this or the old ways of lipstick on
the collar? Scent of another woman's perfume, etc?

Theodosius:
To me as i c al dis as a ful tym Job

Ijele-igbo:


I swear, you're so beautiful

Olumideta: I think the best thing to do is to be yourself and trust your partner.

Nah trust is the least thing in my dictonary
You have to work to earn it

I dont give it out easily cos i trust hard

Orikinla: [size=18pt]Personally, I don't and won't do the following in relationship and marriage.

1. Go through her private phone.
2. Go through her private files without her showing them to me.
3. Go through her hand bag.
4. Spying on her.
5. Go through her social media pages.
6. Query her movements.
7. Listen to gossips on her.[/size]

In fact, the last one and she is still the only one that cheated on me for being sex starved (due to the long distance and long absence of the Koko. ), was the one reporting guys disturbing her.

My present numero uno can testify that I don't and won't do all the seven things I listed above.
Why?
She has her life to live as much as I have mine. But we must not do anything that will threaten the life and well being of the other, because I don't joke with my security and hers.

A girlfriend returned yesterday and opensed her social media account and showed me everything and then asked me to show her mine.
Another girlfriend gave me access to her email account without me asking for it and I only checked her inbox on her behalf whenever she asked for it.
Another girlfriend just gave me the password to her only email account and we co-use it for our convenience. Yet, I don't read her mails.

Moreover A GIRL IS YOURS, BECAUSE SHE CHOOSES TO BE YOURS AND SHE CAN DECIDE OTHERWISE WHENEVER SHE WISHES AS LONG AS SHE INFORMS YOU.
YOU DON'T OWN HER, EVEN IF SHE OWES YOU.

vandarsar: this one works for me: send her a gift or flower to her office or home anonymously, then u wait on her to acknowledge receiving a gift from a stranger. If she does you have a faithful girl if she doesn't , then you know what you're in for.

OR, using an anonymous sim you could persistently send her nice messages, when she calls don't pick it, after a while she must either tells you or keep it away from you....... If she does tells you, then she's worried cause she doesn't have anyone else who could be sending such messages, if she doesn't, ummmmmmm , I rest ma case

vin4ever: Hmmmm. I dont cheat and my partner also dont cheat on me. So all this technic na wash for my way!

Loveangel: What is beautiful about her?leave the small girl alone,you pervert.

kingphemy: People do cheat in relationship. Discovering it na hard work. Different strokes for different people.

When lying is involved, the probability is high. Girls lie the most, the men are just foxy.

Catch a girl with a warm rod inside her, she will tell you it is not a Joystick but a corncob..!

Coldfeet: [color=#990000][/color]Loveangel? Abeg I comment my reserve! Aka aga pugi

ejyko4aek: it's very hard to catch a lady on this issue