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Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 11:25am On Feb 23, 2013 |
991: next time, as she lifts her palms to slap you, hold her hand, look directly into her eyes and say, 'Don't You Dare!!' believe me fear go catch her. Hmm I guess am still too naive for this |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 11:27am On Feb 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012: I keep trying to act matured and all i get is more slaps. Sometimes, i wonder if its better beating me up and cutting down my allowances because believe me, am damn tired of the slaps |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 11:44am On Feb 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012: Are you the only one she slaps or is that how she slaps people around her? We need to know if she's possessed with the spirit or just trying to show you who's boss. You are a big girl and I see no reason why you should be slapped around even by your mum. Oops! I didnt even see your last sentence Wel.. the stubborn diva was because i had to write down something but am not guaranteeing you that am not stubborn though. Lol And as for the skimpy stuff, I wonder how you got to know i wear skimpy stuffs, if its cos of my profile picture, then i tell you my mum doesnt discourage me on that, besides she buys most of such for me plus i dont wear them out. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 11:47am On Feb 23, 2013 |
StateOfMind: staicey: |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 11:51am On Feb 23, 2013 |
byvan: U ve got to carryout your threat the next time she slaps you or it ll never stop.You are an adult and she has no right to be hitting you at this age.I am a mother and I can't picture myself hitting my kids when they are adults.You have to really scare her or else she might slap you even when you are someone's wife.As for the bf advice given to you by some guys here,scratch that. Awww! Finally am glad talking to a mother atlast. Please, do you really think she hates me for slapping me? I think cutting down my allowances should be enough. I learnt this new style of drawing faraway from her whenver i perceive a slap coming and most times, she would now instead of slapping, she would shout angrily but this never happens when am within her reach. Do you sincerely think she hates me despite the fact she wouldnt allow me go stay with my dad and she buys stuffs for me. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by FXKing2012(m): 11:55am On Feb 23, 2013 |
byvan:I never said she should keep a boyfriend to boost her income, it's just to help remind her mum that she (the OP) is now an adult. And if you think she's too young to have a bf at 23yrs then... 1 Like |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by ooman(m): 12:14pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
she slaps you because you are cute and pretty, probably jealous of you. Dont worry, it will all be over soon. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
ooman: she slaps you because you are cute and pretty, probably jealous of you. Dont worry, it will all be over soon. ...and prolly because i love God too ![]() well, thanks. But i took after her and she's prettier, trust me. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by greatgod2012(f): 12:42pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
@ op im a mother, and i cant think of d last time i slapped my kids, not to talk of an adult, i guess your mum is naturally aggresive, what i will advise you is that, when you are both in good mood, walk up to her and tell her you have something that is really bothering you, and since you claim she loves you, she will want to give you attention, go to her, kneel down and tell her your mind, that you dont like d way she slaps or shout on you, let her know what you will likely do if such repeat itself, say whatever you want to say with all humility as well as with all seriousness, remind her that some of your mates are already mothers, and you dont believe somebody of your age should always be slapped like that. Ask her if shes transfering d anger she has towards your dad to you, ask her if she will be happy if her own mother treat her like that at that age, ask her so many thought provoking questions, that she will know that she has actually gone beyond normal, let her know this is not d best way to correct you, even, if you err. And one more thing, make sure you always behave well. I wish you all d best. 12 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by ihedioramma: 12:50pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012:THIS DAYS FRDS ARE NOT WHAT IT IS.IF U ARE NOT HAVING SEX WITH UR FRD PEOPLE WILL TELL U THAT U ARE A FOOL.TWO PEOPLE SE IT AS BEST WAY TO GET SOME ONE AND HAV SEX WITH HIM OR HER AND CALL IT FRD.IF U ARE A GOOD FRD WILL U ASK 4SEX WHY TWO OF U ARE NOT MARRYD? |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by ihedioramma: 12:52pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012:THIS DAYS FRDS ARE NOT WHAT IT IS.IF U ARE NOT HAVING SEX WITH UR FRD PEOPLE WILL TELL U THAT U ARE A FOOL.TWO PEOPLE SE IT AS BEST WAY TO GET SOME ONE AND HAV SEX WITH HIM OR HER AND CALL IT FRD.IF U ARE A GOOD FRD WILL U ASK 4SEX WHY TWO OF U ARE NOT MARRYD? . |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 12:52pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
staicey: then speak to her, the reason why she keeps doing it over again even after apologizing is because you are too soft on your way of approach to the issue. honestly, you need to act something that will make her realize you are no longer a kid, in a well civilized country, she could get herself into legal trouble for slapping a child let alone a 23yrs old. talk to her, let her know you love and cherish her as a mother but it pains you to the heart that she slaps you at any provocative chance. let her know that you learn more easily if corrected on a mistake and not by being slapped. believe me, if you are bold enough to talk to her she will apologize and stop doing it. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by ooman(m): 12:57pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
staicey: oh, believe me, younger generations are way prettier than old, that is one reason to be jealous. Concerning you loving God, you are just wasting your time. 1 Like |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by SisiKill1: 1:01pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
Tis hard for me, an outsider, to picture someone whose mommy "still takes out and buys stuff" as an adult. I bet it's 100 times more unpicturable for the mommy who does the taking out and stuff buying....can't blame her then for thinking the old tried and true albeit uncalled for method of disciplining a kid is appropriate in this case |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by neheoteteli: 1:37pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
She slaps you because you are still acting stupid. grow up and the slaps will reduce and maybe stop ![]() |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by ihedioramma: 2:46pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
[quote author=achina boy] i guess u are not married yet,because most guys that married so called virgins will tell u that it was a mistake,because s,,e,,x,is something that is so enjoyable when u are with an experienced partner,and thats why most guys i know,,i said most guys i know that are married to virgins,ends up going back to their experienced ex,so my point is don`t advice anybody u know to save their virginity or their husband,i would`t advice my kids to do so even,,,,,,,,personal opi capitel wrong |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by FXKing2012(m): 2:47pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
greatgod2012: @ op im a mother, and i cant think of d last time i slapped my kids, not to talk of an adult, i guess your mum is naturally aggresive, what i will advise you is that, when you are both in good mood, walk up to her and tell her you have something that is really bothering you, and since you claim she loves you, she will want to give you attention, go to her, kneel down and tell her your mind, that you dont like d way she slaps or shout on you, let her know what you will likely do if such repeat itself, say whatever you want to say with all humility as well as with all seriousness, remind her that some of your mates are already mothers, and you dont believe somebody of your age should always be slapped like that.Awesome advice! There is so much wisdom in these pieces advice and I hope the OP adopts them. 2 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by FXKing2012(m): 2:49pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: Tis hard for me, an outsider, to picture someone whose mommy "still takes out and buys stuff" as an adult.Exactly why I advised her to try and depend on her less. If I'm picking all the bills then dont blame me if I treat you like a kid. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by ihedioramma: 2:58pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
ask ur mum to goback to ur father, that is what will make u happy if ur father has not marryd other woman. i think that will make ur mum more happy with and will not make u angry any more .about what u ask me yes i am. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by SugaryBelle(f): 3:03pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
I laugh in efik..mu che che che che |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by mikolam(m): 3:23pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012: because usually it is(98% of the time). It is the norm..d thinking isn't Myopic bro |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by allout: 3:54pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
991: A colleague of mine actually came crying to the office one morning that her 15 yr old son did this to her, she was simply perplexed! Guys with grown-up son started advicing her on how best to curb the boy. @ OP: Nor go try am with ya mama ooooh! Make slap nor go graduate to blows! First up your game, start serving her scalding hot cofee ![]() Start depending less on her, it might mean doing away with additional perks she gets you! 4 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by drnoel: 4:08pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
staicey: I no longer find this funny whenever it happens. u got slapped at 23 yrs and u are complaining. I just spoke to someone whose mother slapped her yesterday at 28 yrs. Its must be something nigerian... |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 4:35pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
greatgod2012: @ op im a mother, and i cant think of d last time i slapped my kids, not to talk of an adult, i guess your mum is naturally aggresive, what i will advise you is that, when you are both in good mood, walk up to her and tell her you have something that is really bothering you, and since you claim she loves you, she will want to give you attention, go to her, kneel down and tell her your mind, that you dont like d way she slaps or shout on you, let her know what you will likely do if such repeat itself, say whatever you want to say with all humility as well as with all seriousness, remind her that some of your mates are already mothers, and you dont believe somebody of your age should always be slapped like that. Thanks thanks! Best so far. I'll adopt it, most definitely. Thanks again. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 4:36pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
ooman: Lol! Anyhow. Thanks again |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 4:40pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: Tis hard for me, an outsider, to picture someone whose mommy "still takes out and buys stuff" as an adult. Wow! And since am still schooling and depending on her for stuffs, what do you expect me to do? Start doing slutty stuffs just to be a big girl and be on my own?? I guess not. And whatever is wrong with been 23 and mum takes you out and buy stuffs for you? You are making it sound like its not proper. Its not my fault am still in school and earning peanuts at work |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 4:45pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012:depend less.. depend less.. How?? I've got no option. I school, i earn peanuts on my small job. Its not even like i depend much on her. I hardly even ask her for things. She just buys them for me. So if she does, i should reject them simply because i wanna be a big girl? You are also forgetting the fact that am her only child, so buying stuffs is endless.. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 4:47pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
ihedioramma: ask ur mum to goback to ur father, that is what will make u happy if ur father has not marryd other woman. i think that will make ur mum more happy with and will not make u angry any more .about what u ask me yes i am. Hes living with another woman. I think they're married but he keeps telling me they are not. As for my mum, she doesnt wanna. Its not a "today's case" (15 years case) |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 4:53pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
all-out: staicey:Funny, but i think the bolded makes sense to me |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by Nobody: 4:55pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
drnoel: Funny enough, mum never grew up in naija. I even spent most of my years in naija than she did. Unless you are saying its something in their genes which i dont wanna believe ![]() |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by drnoel: 7:12pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
staicey:its a mentality and mostly manifests when the said daughter is unmarried and is still under the said mothers roof. |
Re: Mum Still Slaps Me At 23 Years Old by ihedioramma: 8:02pm On Feb 23, 2013 |
staicey:ASK UR MUM ONES MORE IF SHE WANT TO LIVE WITH UR DADDY 4THE LAST TIME. IN THAT CASE BE A GOOD GIRL DONT LET UR MUM TO TELL U ONE WORLD 2TIMES MAKE HER HAPPY THE WAY U LIVE.DONT LET HER TELL U SOME THING BEFOR U DO IT . |
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