I had previously told him several times that I was not interested and he knows I have a boyfriend. I thought I have made myself pretty clear with him. Anyway, I've sent him another message to make sure he understands that I am not interested. And I don't think I'll see him again before I leave in September.

As for the nasty comment about my boyfriend: keep your thoughts for yourself, you don't even know who I'm talking about and know nothing about my relationship with him!

Sounds like you are using the guy as rebound. Don't get cozy and romantic with him. It seems naive and odd to agree to go to his house without expecting any sexual/romantic advances, he's not your brother and he has made his intentions known that he would like to get in between your legs.

adconline: Sounds like you are using the guy as rebound. Don't get cozy and romantic with him. It seems naive and odd to agree to go to his house without expecting any sexual/romantic advances, he's not your brother and he has made his intentions known that he would like to get in between your legs.

I had previously told him at least 3 times that I wasn't interested! I had already cancelled at least 2 times on him because I didn't want him to get any hopes up. So, I thought I had made myself pretty clear.

If you all wanna make this kind of comment without even considering what I said, I'll let you do it without saying anything, because it's really annoying to have to explain things over and over again.

Swhrt...u said 'im really bad at sayin no'.. a sayin goes: u've really matured wen u say no to sm1 and dnt feel bad/guilty abt it....nd as 4 ur bf y is he beefing i tot he allowed to go.

You are needy and selfish to keep this guy as a "friend", but that's OK. It sounds like you are feeling guilty and lying to yourself as well as the people on this thread. You wouldn't be posing the question if you thought this situation was OK. AND you know you would not take kindly to your BF cuddling on the couch with his female friend for a whole weekend.

You need to make some new female friends where you are. You also should limit your contact with the "friend" because though you repeat yourself, he clearly isn't hearing you. If he respected your relationship, you would have only had to say it once. Why was the repetition necessary for a real friend?

Moving to a new place can be lonely, scary, and hard to handle. You should go out more. IF you do decide to continue with this guy, there is no reason the two of you need to be at anyone's house. There are plenty of public, well-lit places to be friends.

LoveAmaka88:
You are needy and selfish to keep this guy as a "friend", but that's OK. It sounds like you are feeling guilty and lying to yourself as well as the people on this thread. You wouldn't be posing the question if you thought this situation was OK. AND you know you would not take kindly to your BF cuddling on the couch with his female friend for a whole weekend.

You need to make some new female friends where you are. You also should limit your contact with the "friend" because though you repeat yourself, he clearly isn't hearing you. If he respected your relationship, you would have only had to say it once. Why was the repetition necessary for a real friend?

Moving to a new place can be lonely, scary, and hard to handle. You should go out more. IF you do decide to continue with this guy, there is no reason the two of you need to be at anyone's house. There are plenty of public, well-lit places to be friends.

1. it wasn't a whole week but just one week end
2. that guy is living more than 3 hours away from my house. i cannot just go and then come back home on the same day.
3. i don't go out simply because i don't have time and i don't want random guys hitting on me
4. you obviously don't know the whole story because you haven't read and you're not in my life, which is why i decided to stop seeking advice from strangers! = no need to further comment on that post

OP are you still on this issue since March? Girl like LoveAmaka said, you need to mingle more with other people despite your 'busy' schedule and avoid going to his place whenever the opportunity arises. Because your words and actions ain't matching up. You do not want to be more than friends with him, avoid putting yourself in situations that will suggest otherwise.
Also try and get him hitched since he can not do it himself


Cheers

fubbyy: I don't know how many times I will tell people that there's nothing like A guy and a girl being close friends, its either lovers or distance casual friends

Poster that guy is not your brother for crying out loud, when you were going for a weekend with him, what were you thinking?

this is it!