young couples who jkust got married, and the guy works from dusk to dawn, i mean from 6am-11pm everyday except sundays, wont this leave room for cheating in the marriage.
i ask cos my job takes me away from home same time criteria applied here and though my gf, claims to understand, wud it still be the same tin when we are married?
wont the pressure be too much to make her think of cheating, when sex is finally reduced to say twice a week at most, with very tired perfomances sometimes.

ladies in the house we need an honest opinion.

Then you should be thinking that she is cheating on you already.
Why wait till you get married?

Such perceptions my dear poster will not help u in anyway. . . it will rather make u grow grey hair earlier than expected. Abort it as soon as possible.

izeek:

young couples who just got married, and the guy works from dusk to dawn, i mean from 6am-11pm everyday except sundays, wont this leave room for cheating in the marriage.
i ask because my job takes me away from home same time criteria applied here and though my girlfriend, claims to understand, would it still be the same tin when we are married?
wont the pressure be too much to make her think of cheating, when sex is finally reduced to say twice a week at most, with very tired performances sometimes.

ladies in the house we need an honest opinion.

Sometimes life gets like that.  This is when you have to plan to make things happen.  Only a dog or bitch just goes out to have sex just beause something itches between the legs. Even if you have 2 days. . . .make the best of those two days.  You can only hope for the best. People just don't go out and cheat because they are "Hot". Emotional needs unmet make people cheat more than "physical" needs unmet. Pamper her on the 2 days you are together. . . .you cannot afford to be tired at all. . . .those are the days you have to make up for your absence so that anyone that comes close to her while you are away will only irritate the living daylights out of her. 

Even when you are married. . . .you will still have to find a way since there are occasions you will be apart from eachother too.  You have to find the time, means, energy and excitement to make up for you time apart.  Plan a fun filled day of events and smooching while you are together. If your job is sapping all your energy. . .you are being ripped off. You need to find a healthy balance somehow.


Fantastic sex 2 times a week is better than lousy sex. . .100 times day. We should be worrying about you as a male.  if you shower a lady with all the emotions you have in your artillery. . .it makes it difficult for her to look elsewhere because everyone she meets will DEFINITELY fall short!  It is not all about sex!

If you are tired on the only 2 days you have to give her the T.K.O treatment. . . .then you are up the creek without a paddle! May the good almighty creator help both of you then! Even area boys will be attractive to your "gal" when you are in town. You cannot make up for those kinds of lost times.


I for example have to deal with a military boyfriend spouse. . .and when he is home. . . Lord have mercy! I have to learn to walk straight first before I think of "horning" someone else for months!

He does an excellent job waking up all those dead areas!

Almond,
Must you get personal?
And explicitly personal at that

almondjoy:

I for example have to deal with a military boyfriend spouse. . .and when he is home. . . Lord have mercy! I have to learn to walk straight first before I think of "horning" someone else for months!

He does an excellent job waking up all those dead areas!

I can only imagine

advice:

take her to work with u.
who says u can't have sex while in the office

opokonwa:

Almond,
Must you get personal?
And explicitly personal at that

Of course. . . .my prerogative!   If you can't handle it, just log off!  Does Nairaland look like a "tabernacle"? Huh? This is romance section if I may remind you. . . .if you want agape spiritual love. . . .just "dress" to religious section abeg!

@poster!

As a was saying jo,

Please let me give you a tip.  Like my military man does.  He calls from the airport and tells me to strip naked as soon as I hear the garage door opening! I wait in the garage there, with bare feet and jump on him without allowing him to even unpack his things!  Everything stays where they are till the next morning! He carries me up the stairs to a jacuzzi filled bubble bath while we stare hard and long at each other without saying a word!  It is all in the eyes!

When we get into that hot tub, , , ,the world ceases to exist!

You get ma drift?

For like 6 months I have no memory of anything else!   Another man ke?  Impossible. . . even with juju!  E no go happen. . . .all I can wait for is another thrill! For like 2 months I am on pain killers morning and night!   My head is still ringing with bells six months later.

Do your job!

onyeka_ng:

I can only imagine

he he he he he he!

almondjoy:

When we get into that hot tub, , , ,the world ceases to exist!

You get ma drift?

ABSOLUTELY galfriend

@al-joy
Fantastic sex 2 times a week is better than lousy sex. . .100 times day. We should be worrying about you as a male. if you shower a lady with all the emotions you have in your artillery. . .it m[/b]akes it difficult for her to look elsewhere because everyone she meets will DEFINITELY fall short! It is not all about

@poster
1 agree with the above, a virtous woman will always remain one

@cixluv
always a joker