Hi NLNDers, i just wanted to share a situation with u guys.
Its about one of my Ex, actually my First love. U know how it is with first loves. We met will in the University, i was just about getting to my 3rd year when she came in for Diploma. She is seriously mindblowing any day. Tall, beautiful, with hips/Butt that can send any man to his early grave.
I guess i was lucky to have quickly conerned her, as her friend she stayed with then was a good girlfriend of mine. We started off fine, just like Romeo and Juliet. Heads rolled when she walks by on the road (seriously literally speaking). I honestly like her so much i was in a fools heaven.
She was one of those chicks that was not to keen about studying,just to get the certificate. She was already into modelling and stuffs, so she was abit made on her own. she was the fun, outgoing type and some of my friends wondered why i was so inlove with her. They were of the opinion that i just enjoyed myself, by both of us just fucking ourself and nothing more.
We bleeped each other at every chance we have.She taugth me more about sex and i was able to in turn practise. But i just wanted more than just sex.
We had our bad days as some of my friends told me of her escapade, some at parties outside school,etc. I once caught her with another guy, but she pleaded with me. My friends keep wondering why i'm still with her, not that i did not have my own flings (outside runs).
We were in the relationship for close to 2 and a half years when distance creeped into the relationship. I tried communicating but by this time she was so reluctant with the relationship, so she broke the ice and gave a lousy excuse to quit the relationship. It pained me alot but i had to move on. I guess all the while we were so immatured about everything. Moving along i couldn't get her off my heart, even being in different relationships after.
We later started commuincating once in a bluemoon, and gradually we started talking regularly and see once in a while.
The thing there is that i have this undying feeling for her, she is not in a relationship now and i'm not too.
I don't know if i should let her know how i feel about her, that i want her to be mine again, but i'm scared this may have a bad dent on our just closely friendship. She even got me a gift for my Bday.
Guys what should i do? I want her like a baby needs her mother!

@poster
It's very obvious you people have now tasted different waters
and probably have realised what u both miss in each other
Its good to let one fly once in a while
I guess u both are wiser now
There is nothing wrong in telling her what u feel about her,bottling it up wont help u
If eventually she is not ready and willing to commit to the r'ship again, u have nothing to lose
Take the bull by the horn guy, and goodluck as u do so

So tired. . . . .can't type
But me prayers are with you anyhow!

@poster

just do what u have to do.
follow ur heart, but use ur head

Just stay friends for a while and see how things go. you both might just end up together without you even telling her how u feel, sometimes it happens like that.

I no this is not about the topic, but my problem is i want to sent a new topic but i cant see any privision for it. How do i send a new topic pls, someone should tell me

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  My Ex! I Need your Advise?
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Guys what should i do? I want her like a baby needs her mother! 

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!  Na wah ooooooooooooh!

@poster, kpele oooooooooh! Just try let the babe know say you dey up for adoption abeg!

Singing to maself. . . . . .



_{It must have been love, both it's over now. . . . by Roxette}

@almondjoy

thats not so nice. lol

i feel ur pains sincity ! _{ur name sef full of sin !!!}

Its kind of difficult for real but, things cud be sorted out . U only have to study the game very well, open ur eyes, probe and question , know why shes here, be dispassionate about the whole things, dont let ur heart dictate the tones of the game, be focused and apply maturity and i can bet bet u will have clear picture of things and things wud become easier.

It cud be that, shes seen it all and shes trying to hook up by acting a good girl
U have a job now? it cud be that, she wanna share part of ur salary ! LOL
It cud be that, shes become a core professional that, she feels she can play anybody now as a result of the fact that, shes found out you are stillcrazy about her !
it cud be that, she found out that she has always been in love with you and shes trying to make up.

You'll need to do this " U only have to study the game very well, open ur eyes, probe and question , know why shes here, be dispassionate about the whole things, dont let ur heart dictate the tones of the game, be focused and apply maturity and i can bet bet u will have clear picture of things and things wud become easier" in order for u to find things out !!!! Dont ever rush things !

I Hope i have been able to help


Take things easy and i really do wish u best of luck.
Cheers

Thanks you guys, i really appreciate ur advise.
Sometimes when i talk or see her, i do feel insecured to some extent. Becos of her person, i feel she's just too way to be true. I love her though.
I guess i would tell her what i feel about her and whatever the outcome, a man can only die once. And i guess its the best for me so i can move on with life (back to the hunting ground for me).
Nobody knows tomorrow, i can't stay this handsome forever.