Imani:

@ JoshJosh, I have to agree with you. The religion board is something else . I feel you. How people manage to argue over and over with each other is beyond me and sometimes you will think there is a prize awaiting the winner of the "debate"

Imani:

Any religion that supports harsh rules such as the God's great law laws and honour killings in order to "punish" people is not instilling discipline in anybody but fear. The ability to have freedom of choice even if it is of a negative consequence is very important to the essence of being human.

I agree with you on this. But i am sure you will realise it is difficult not to generalise sometimes even though it is wrong. When the people being "generalised" against actually start making changes, the generalisations reduce and may eventually stop.

4Him:

1. Everyone should marry within the boundaries of their religion . . . the failure rate for those who do otherwise is dangerously high. We have a few people who got it to work and then assume we can model our own marriages after them[b] forgetting that everyone faces unique challenges.[/b]

Cassiel:

Show me a happy home where the husband goes for jihad rallies,the wife for all-night prayer meetings,the son is an alfa and the daughter is seriously taking steps to become a reverend sister.Just one,i ask of you all who say religous differences don't matter

doyin13:

Isn't the fact that each relationship faces unique challenges the very reason why generalisations about the chances of such marriages be avoided.

1. Everyone should marry within the boundaries of their religion . . . the failure rate for those who do otherwise is dangerously high. We have a few people who got it to work and then assume we can model our own marriages after them forgetting that everyone faces unique challenges.

2. Every other boundary depends on the ability of each individual to adjust to their partner. I can marry outside the boundaries of class and education . . . it all depends on the woman.

Any religion that supports harsh rules such as the God's great law laws and honour killings in order to "punish" people is not instilling discipline in anybody but fear. The ability to have freedom of choice even if it is of a negative consequence is very important to the essence of being human.

4Him:

Send a gay friend to Iran.

almondjoy:

The section of Nairaland is so disgusting it is not even funny.  Most of the people there are under one kind of spell or another.  Living corpses if you ask me!

Dem get work?

almondjoy:

HELLO MOTTO. . . . REDIALLING!

mumu religion! abi na religion for mumus.

Please this is becoming religious thread and should be removed to the dustbins of the religious section of Nairaland where thrashy elements reside! This is THE ROMANCE SECTION PLEASE! It is Friday and you guys are turning me seriously off with all your religious crappy posts!


MOVE IT!!!!!

Cassiel:

@redsun
Sure thing As a Christian,go marry an Ifa worshipper.Shey na love abi? By the time you see pots of blood under your bed,an idol that looks exactly like you in your wardrobe,and some black feathers in your work briefcase,maybe some suspicious-looking pieces of meat in your egusi soup, i hope you will remember words like 'sacrifice' and 'tolerance' and 'love transcends all things'.
Sometimes the love-transcending thing is very over-rated.

@redsun
Sure thing  As a Christian,go marry an Ifa worshipper.Shey na love abi? By the time you see pots of blood under your bed,an idol that looks exactly like you in your wardrobe,and some black feathers in your work briefcase,maybe some suspicious-looking pieces of meat in your egusi soup, i hope you will remember words like 'sacrifice' and 'tolerance' and 'love transcends all things'.
Sometimes the love-transcending thing is very over-rated.

redsun:

[b]To the wise love transcendes above all things,[/b]that is what religion is suppose to be all about,love and sacrifice,the significance of the cross,give to get.

Imani:

Can YOU have a gay friend?

Cassiel:

@redsun
Sure thing As a Christian,go marry an Ifa worshipper.Shey na love abi? By the time you see pots of blood under your bed,an idol that looks exactly like you in your wardrobe,and some black feathers in your work briefcase,maybe some suspicious-looking pieces of meat in your egusi soup, i hope you will remember words like 'sacrifice' and 'tolerance' and 'love transcends all things'.
Sometimes the love-transcending thing is very over-rated.

doyin13:

Sounds like the rituals of a christian sect to me

Cassiel:

@doyin13
The one you belong to abi? No wonder you recognize it
I was only exemplifying.Product of a rich imagination rooted in reality

The point was very simple: The Great Religion instills discipline in people than christianity.

Cassiel:

@almondjoy
If you want to marry an atheist,feel free,but let those that believe in their religions be.You don't have to make it sound like its the dumbest thing ever.Infact,there's this dude called sun god over @ the Religion thread.Something tells me you two would be purrrfect
Show me a happy home  where the husband goes for jihad rallies,the wife for all-night prayer meetings,the son is an alfa and the daughter is seriously taking steps to become a reverend sister.Just one,i ask of you all who say religous differences don't matter

And truly,this is actually turning into something from the religion thread

EccentricJ:

I can't believe the ignorance on full display on this thread. So all moslim people are Jihad fighters? May you God forgive you for judging other people. I have seen Christians and moslim coexist in the same house and nobody has yet to kill the other person. Some Christians can turn people off Christianity.
That's all, J

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@almondjoy
If you want to marry an atheist,feel free,but let those that believe in their religions be.You don't have to make it sound like its the dumbest thing ever.Infact,there's this dude called sun god over @ the Religion thread.Something tells me you two would be purrrfect   

Show me a happy home  where the husband goes for jihad rallies,the wife for all-night prayer meetings,the son is an alfa and the daughter is seriously taking steps to become a reverend sister.Just one,i ask of you all who say religous differences don't matter

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Ok we don hear   

I did'nt even know i couldnt type s.haria again without being censored. Seun must be having trouble sleeping at night because of some e-terrorists . If he can afford to please them he should please ALL religions too.

bawomolo:

of course, no wonder countries like pakistan, phillipines, indonesia or even northern nigeria are so peaceful. the truth is fundamental adherents to their religions wouldn't marry outside their religions. only the moderates or passive ones would.