U made her fil stupid. Wit all d green lite hse was givin u, smh. Instead of u 2 go buy rubber, u instead went 4 a recharge card, guy u dull ooo. Or is ur tin small or u bad 4 bed, beta tell us d truth so we can help u. U sud hv slept on d bed wit ha 1st , den hold and hug ha and act like ur sleepin nd den c ha reaction. Den ud no weda hse nids its or nt. Smh 4u

Sammiejokes: @OP you a real man a good lady searching for a man like u would fall in love with you for your self control and trust you more. That babe is a b***h and how can u trust her if you sleep with her the first night. I can't even have a serious relationship with someone I slept with on first date, for her to have deleted your contact considering the impression you guys made on eachother,then I wanna believe the babe is a b**ch or agent of hell to bring down good guys. u better move on, the lady wanted something more than sex. thank your stars. dance azonto

it's scary but I think you are right

Chimerase: Choi assumin u fuvvvcked her in bundersliga liga u for carry magun or de oda broda cus I knw say condom no de that nite

I dey laugh condom won neutralize magun. kojo men don't try dat ooooo

dick hardener: Like seriously....front page. Like some papa ajasco tabloid

beats me But at least it's entertaining

Shakslayer: Hello Nairalanders, what am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, i told a friend of mine, who then asked me to join this forum and narrate my ordeal, i might get useful answers. So here i go.

A few months back, i met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. i discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.

With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.

Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didnt argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.

Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldnt take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.

So guys, thats my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.

Many thanks

you are a learner-abi the girl no tight?

What sort of guy stays up at night with a nubile young woman in his hotel room watching SKY NEWS? LOL. Did Obama get assassinated, or what hot breaking NEWS could warrant that? That's the funniest thing I've heard this Lenten season!

Maybe you should have just gone on to ask, in same gentleman man, if she'd like for you to bleep her.

On the other hand, she's gonna call u back.
She already has ur pin saved somewhere. There'll be a re-add. Trust me.

But dats a 60% chance.
40% is she aint calling u back. She gone! Gone, gone, gone.
Don't sweat it.

my2naira

cr7lomo.:
U made her fil stupid. Wit all d green lite hse was givin u, smh. Instead of u 2 go buy rubber, u instead went 4 a recharge card, guy u dull ooo. Or is ur tin small or u bad 4 bed, beta tell us d truth so we can help u. U sud hv slept on d bed wit ha 1st , den hold and hug ha and act like ur sleepin nd den c ha reaction. Den ud no weda hse nids its or nt. Smh 4u

otu ga agwu gi Ike one day. It's not always about sex mi dear,grow up.

You should at least have cuddled and romanced her even if things won't progress to se..x. Why would she come prepared with the outfit you described if not to get closer. You are one dumb dunder-head sweetheart.You better go back and redeem yourself cos right now you're on point zero. Good luck.

Shakslayer: Hello Nairalanders, what am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, i told a friend of mine, who then asked me to join this forum and narrate my ordeal, i might get useful answers. So here i go.

A few months back, i met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. i discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.

With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.

Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didnt argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.

Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldnt take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.

So guys, thats my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.

Many thanks

And here I am searching for someone like you to no avail: the irony of life.

Did you give her any money?

Oh dear! U see, women are unpredictable. Good women or bad women, it doesn't matter if you smash and hit her on d first date. Giving you the signs (not a test) to smash her and you didn't, to her she was able to read that you are not just sensitive enough. Assuming you tried to touch her and she resisted, she would still think you are still in control. But now, she thinks you are intelligent but not good on bed in anyway.
Guy, as for me, u fu*kkk up!
I have been in such situation. D lady went nikkid with her shiney body. She started resisting and low and behold, I smashed her very well that she said welldone!!! And yet she was a good girl. You have failed.
Let me tell you, you can only know a woman completely after you have smashed her. No woman will ever tell her true color while u talk on sport, games book, trash rubbish!
U are a GOAT!

although there ar some gurls that become so happy wit u if u dont make any attempt on the first date but my statement here is that u bleeped up shaaa.u cant even read a woman's action and detect the green light as well.best of luck bro

Shakslayer: Hello Nairalanders, what am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, i told a friend of mine, who then asked me to join this forum and narrate my ordeal, i might get useful answers. So here i go.

A few months back, i met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. i discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.

With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.

Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didnt argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.

Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldnt take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.

So guys, thats my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.

Many thanks

What u did was right. Never have any regrets and be careful with such girls that can offer free s.ex without medical tests. They can be carriers of heavy growth of STDs.[color=#990000][/color]

Dude the least you could have done was to sleep on the same bed with her.
I know you were trying to resist temptation but you guys had a good date, you sleeping on the couch could have come across as you not liking something about her.

Clearly it looked like she wanted some but I feel you could have been on the same bed with her throughout the night and still not done anything(Just cuddling), that way I doubt she would have been that pissed off

pro01: What sort of guy stays up at night with a nubile young woman in his hotel room watching SKY NEWS? LOL. Did Obama get assassinated, or what hot breaking NEWS could warrant that? That's the funniest thing I've heard this Lenten season!

Double post

Guys like u give me hope honestly.
I go don plan how I go blow her before I reach her state.things come still play out like that.
Give her sometime and if she doesnt change her mind then let her be.
On a second thought if u like her to the extent of travelling to go look for her then do have a safe trip.

pro01: What sort of guy stays up at night with a nubile young woman in his hotel room watching SKY NEWS? LOL. Did Obama get assassinated, or what hot breaking NEWS could warrant that? That's the funniest thing I've heard this Lenten season!

Guy you got me ROTFL
Yeah they were both watching aljazeera and you haven't heard the latest. Obama's limo had a flat tyre in isreal

i reserve my space

pro01: What sort of guy stays up at night with a nubile young woman in his hotel room watching SKY NEWS? LOL. Did Obama get assassinated, or what hot breaking NEWS could warrant that? That's the funniest thing I've heard this Lenten season!

the kind of man that have seen and done it all and can't be easily moved.the kind of man that can't be brought down by a woman,the kind of man that will live long.

Guy,abeg forget the lady joor,she wanted to act like a saint initially but thank God she couldnt control the chemistry,alas,u re on a long thing again with her.Try to give her a text and xplain why u couldnt compromise ur principle maybe if she is decent enough,she might understand u and prove her maturity and start all over again.

@Op you are a wonderful guy,a good guy.. continue this way its good for you....but men you tried if i was the one even if i dont unzip her my Jagamu would go there on its own...

gbaky_floor:

And here I am searching for someone like you to no avail: the irony of life.

Make we hear word jare

@Op to me u did the right thing by keeping ur word. If not for anything u proved something to her. That thing which she is really afraid of. She thought u were like other guys but u were not.

My advice is that u should keep tryna contact her anyhow u wish but dnt use because of what happend and play mumu ooo. Some girls love guys that keep their word so dont panic. If afterall it doesnt work out between u guys then u move on with life.



No hurry for anything in life cos u will get tired of em one day...talking from experience

Subzero101: she lucky say no be me, she should tank her stars... my one eyed killer snake for bite am that night, i trust my arabian marchet sha!

Arabian kNight
Kolo ...

pro01: What sort of guy stays up at night with a nubile young woman in his hotel room watching SKY NEWS? LOL. Did Obama get assassinated, or what hot breaking NEWS could warrant that? That's the funniest thing I've heard this Lenten season!

Maybe the day the new Pope was elected..?

This is strange, but u shld be very careful ad thank God f saving u ,that girl has a mission.

All you should have given her was just 1 d.i.c.k per time. No dulling brother all those theories exist only for nice guys and the last time I checked there are no nice guys left around here.

okemmadu:

What u did was right. Never have any regrets and be careful with such girls that can offer free s.ex without medical tests. They can be carriers of heavy growth of STDs.[color=#990000][/color]

BIKO DREX!!!

CONJI is real !

When she acted the way she did that night, your thought must have been that she was testing you or really wanted you. What matters bro is your word and you kept it. You should be proud of yourself rather than regretting. Just give her some space for now, she would definately return

I swear to my God this is the same incidence that happened to me, whilst in schoool... There was ds girl in ma class that thought I am a beast due to the fact that am gentle and easy going, she now wanted to take the advantage of that.. Some friends of mine abuses me because I couldn't do what the girl was requestin for.,,, All in the name that I don't wanna flirt and go against Allah's command that says "la'takrabu zina" "don't engage ursef in adultery"... Later she stopped talkin to me and even avoid getting in contact with me, but sha av let it go, bcus I lik wu I am and anybody that doesn't lik the way I am means he or she doesn't love me.... So my brother I don't even knw my kind still exist, there are lot of temptation from our girls nowadays, so u better stand for u believe to be truth than falling for cheap lies.... In case u wanna be lik us, the secret is courage and patience with lot of prayer sessions....

okemmadu:

What u did was right. Never have any regrets and be careful with such girls that can offer free s.ex without medical tests. They can be carriers of heavy growth of STDs.[color=#990000][/color]

Bros leave STD make e rest abeg.opportunity once lost is also applicable to punny!

weezii: @Op to me u did the right thing by keeping ur word. If not for anything u proved something to her. That thing which she is really afraid of. She thought u were like other guys but u were not.

My advice is that u should keep tryna contact her anyhow u wish but dnt use because of what happend and play mumu ooo. Some girls love guys that keep their word so dont panic. If afterall it doesnt work out between u guys then u move on with life.



No hurry for anything in life cos u will get tired of em one day...talking from experience

They agreed no sex, this slow guy just decided to suffer in silence. Trying to contact her for what?
Abegi the guys Manhood is in contention here!