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Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by MrsChima(f): 12:53pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Oguga got her a white man. Running off thread. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 12:59pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Very true what you just have said but unfortunately for me this is not just a Nigerian thing. I think if i decided to date another african or blk man, there have similar way of thinking. So i mentioned white men because out of all the other races, i am attracted to them and have seen majority dnt have that box of a women this and that. Like for example. Lets just say we both come from work very late. I love cooking but why cant you perhaps help set the table or help wash afterwards. Or perhaps in weekend. When we have chores that we divided like for example this sat while i am cleaning bathrooms etc, he can put clothes in laundry.why should the men sit his lazy ass down and watch tv while i do everything, not even a help. If am a housewife than i can do everything alone. But if am also a working woman and contributing to the bills and yet have to do everything myself. Thats not on. Unfortunately alot of blk men will not do it, wont be happy to do it. Its not african etc. This is why i say that a white man will be more suited to me since they are used to this kind of thing shymexx: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 1:05pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
shymexx:I think I'm going to follow ShymexxLion, he had me listening to Anthony B last night. #JahRastafari.KingOfKings! There is a Jamaican man here (work) I'm gonna punch if he doesn't stop chatting about Jamaican supremacy in the Caribbean. Then he wrongly assumed the Columbian girl opposite me was from Spain because she speaks Spanish (he actually said she must be from Madrid or Barcelona kmt). Can I put a Batman call out for ShymexxLion please to educate his bredrin Mandem, before I join the OP and hate on Jamaican men 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by AtheistD(m): 1:06pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: So where are you based.... the UK? |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: And who says there aren't tons of black men out there who are also like that? Just because people say that online, that doesn't mean that's how they're in real life... Anyway, if the white man is your source of happiness and joy, go for it... If white men are the perfect creatures most of you try to tell us they're, they won't have the highest divorce rate in the world... 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by SAFO(m): 1:09pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Irony at its finest ....... I take it you didn't proofread this before posting 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by MrsChima(f): 1:13pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Safo why u cockblocking? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 1:15pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Well i can understand where the op is coming from. My sister is married to a white man because of those similar reasons of lack of compatibility and the type of person who does not take nonsence and she knew that if she married a guy with a difference in views(she held strong views) then her marriage would not last. As for me i dnt have such strong views but i blv that when you love someone so much that you will be willing to do things for them even out of your comfort zone. My current booyfriend is not the typical "african" guy steoreotype and he genuinely enjoys helping me and doing things which have not even asked him to do. So there are blk men out there who have no qualms about such issues. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by tawa89(f): 1:18pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
The OP is a confused woman who needs validation from members of a faceless forum for her choice of a life partner. We don't really care who u marry OP. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by SAFO(m): 1:18pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: Chima I missed you. How now |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by MrsChima(f): 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
SAFO: I am good suga and you? |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by MrsChima(f): 1:20pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Op I am thinking of getting me a white man too. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by SAFO(m): 1:23pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: A certain somebody has been keepin me up late at nights (check profile), other than that, been good. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by MrsChima(f): 1:24pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
SAFO: Awwwwwwwwwwww. I want it! Don't tell Chima. Congrats daddy again. Any more coming? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 1:25pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Maybe i am unlucky because i am yet to meet those tons that you are talking abt. Yeah am sure you will get some who wil say once in a blue moon i may help her. Yes there are high divorce rates but i think for me if you marry someone you truly love and both strong in faith and do things to keep marriage good and respectful then it would work. I mean i could get married to a blk guy and get a divorce. Its not abt stats. I"m not saying white men are perfect. What am saying is culturally they are different too. Alot of these white men in relationships with white women and in household its common. While in african its abt what is a girls duty vs a mans duty. shymexx: 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Idowuogbo(f): 1:26pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
shymexx:awwww... Go shy shy! |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Idowuogbo(f): 1:27pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
SAFO:awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww... too cute! Congratulobia omo odua. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 1:28pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Your baby is absolutely adorable SAFO: 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 1:30pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
But if you are honest with yourself is it not true? SAFO: |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by SAFO(m): 1:35pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Thanks guys, she's a greedy lil somebody, might have to make her get a job. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by TalkingToYaSelf: 1:37pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
sexily endowed=subomi luv= damilola_luv = untouchablebela All The Same Person All London Based IP Addressed. Get a Fuqqing Life. What A Faqqot. Smh Didn't even Waste Time Checking Igbo Barbies..... This Forum is a Joke. Males Running Around Masquerading as Women..... Bunch of Gay Weirdos....and I Put That on Allah and Jesus Blades Lmfao....... I'm Out, What a Bunch of Weirdos.........Heinous Weirdos, and Perverted Closeted Gay Men Pretending to be Women, Having Gawtdamn Conversations with Themselves!! Get a Life Fam!!!.......Damn!! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 1:47pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
You really need to stop smooking that weed you are smooking cos its fkin up your brain cells TalkingToYaSelf: sexily endowed=subomi luv= damilola_luv = untouchablebela |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:03pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
You are a joke, seeing i am not from London how can i have the same london based IP adress? You talk to much kid really you need to get a life. I remember that old thread were you not accussing shymexx of being untouchablebella? Just because you have 1 million alt accounts i have my high suspicious you are otumfour/petroldollar/abrantie and all the other idiots up in this forum. Get a job because it seems you do not have a life. You need help really. This must be abt the msdarkskin thing lol shame TalkingToYaSelf: sexily endowed=subomi luv= damilola_luv = untouchablebela 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
op e get one albino for my area wey dey look for babe to marry.if u dey interested i fit halla the guy for u ooo 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:07pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Albino. Lol albino is yellow not white. I dnt want an albino. And it is not just abt complection thing really lefulefu: op e get one albino for my area wey dey look for babe to marry.if u dey interested i fit halla the guy for u ooo |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by bukatyne(f): 2:08pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
shymexx: We all know that blacks would lead in that department if there was no stigma against divorce 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by ichidodo: 2:14pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
O.p, i am offended how can you say you cant find your type amongst we black men, maybe there must be something that meets the eye here...... Is it that you like to have mulatto kids? (so that you can them show off to people back in Nainja) or you feel inadequate as a Black African Woman as such you feel that no Black African Man would want to have you? So to play safe you seek out a white dude who has got low expectations as far as your inadequacies are concerned? or you are just the kinky type?.What about the white dude? do you think he is gonna be involved with you just because he loves you or maybe out curiosity or he has a 'fetish' for black women (kinky)? do you think a kinky white dude would make a good husband and not a serial cheat? in as much as it is your choice but the fact that you post this here and i am a Black Man, i feel aggrieved about your choice and i beseech to rescind your decision. There are many Black brothers out there who are very capable and 'durable' of loving you no matter the baggage you have....Dont do it 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:17pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Why would you say such a thing. The problem here and with the Op is that she wants to be a white woman. Black women should understand that black men, white men, asian men etc are all different and should not compare each race of men amongst the other. Black men especially African blk men have culture and what she feels about "equality and all that rubbish" is from looking at white ppl and wanting to be like them. Did your mother expect your father to do all this that you cannot find in a black man? I really do not understand some blk women of today. Why cant we embrace our culture and appreciate what we have and it is due to this culture that divorce rates especially amongst Africans is low. bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by bukatyne(f): 2:27pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Sexily Endowed: Why would you say such a thing. The problem here and with the Op is that she wants to be a white woman. Black women should understand that black men, white men, asian men etc are all different and should not compare each race of men amongst the other. Black men especially African blk men have culture and what she feels about "equality and all that rubbish" is from looking at white ppl and wanting to be like them. Did your mother expect your father to do all this that you cannot find in a black man? I really do not understand some blk women of today. Why cant we embrace our culture and appreciate what we have and it is due to this culture that divorce rates especially amongst Africans is low. I hope you saw the mail I quoted. Maybe the bolded is really what she's talking about. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:30pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
I am even speechless. So you actually think that i want mulatto kids thats why i want to marry a whyt man? Seriously if that was my intention then i do not need to even get married for that. Its not abt the kinky sex or whatever nonsence. I dnt date trash(whether white or blk) but thanks for your advice and concern :-) ichidodo: O.p, i am offended how can you say you cant find your type amongst we black men, maybe there must be something that meets the eye here...... Is it that you like to have mulatto kids? (so that you can them show off to people back in Nainja) or you feel inadequate as a Black African Woman as such you feel that no Black African Man would want to have you? So to play safe you seek out a white dude who has got low expectations as far as your inadequacies are concerned? or you are just the kinky type?.What about the white dude? do you think he is gonna be involved with you just because he loves you or maybe out curiosity or he has a 'fetish' for black women (kinky)? do you think a kinky white dude would make a good husband and not a serial cheat? in as much as it is your choice but the fact that you post this here and i am a Black Man, i feel aggrieved about your choice and i beseech to rescind your decision. There are many Black brothers out there who are very capable and 'durable' of loving you no matter the baggage you have....Dont do it |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by olaboy1: 2:31pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
I respect your preference and choice of men. Having lived in Europe for some years, I can beat my chest now and say there are no reserved categorical traits for any race be it white or black. If you really want to know about the deeper layers of any race, visit some of their discussion forums and you would be surprised at your findings. I know of several white men who will never near the kitchen, and also don't practice the customary rituals of buying flowers and presenting them on their kneels. Everyday on different forums in Europe I read about white women's complain to the white folks on similar things black women complain about black men....what does that prove to you Honestly I don't believe in racial grouping, categorization of activities and stereotypical mind boggling assertions. I would have put up several links here for you to read about what the real life looks like on the other side even with the gender equality fulcrum, but my aim on this post is not to drag you into the black net of black brothers since the prerogative of whom to date still resides with you 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by elderly: 2:32pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Another dreamer |
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