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Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:34pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
I give up. This is the thing i mean. They just don"t seem to get it. But the funny part is even the ones who say they are pro blk. If i was a blk men who posted the opposite topic the response would have been different. Oh well to each their own as they say bukatyne: |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:37pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
I was being sarcastic. Maybe i am taking it the wrong way but what i understood from her was she wants a man to help her with her domestic chores. If she is not cut up to do domestic chores than why does she not get a maid to help her do those chores she finds difficult to do on her own. Why must it involve blk men as if she thinks white men are doing chores at home. Wake up and smell the coffee woman otherwise you will end up alone because no man wants a nagging woman. bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by bukatyne(f): 2:47pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Sexily Endowed: I was being sarcastic. Maybe i am taking it the wrong way but what i understood from her was she wants a man to help her with her domestic chores. If she is not cut up to do domestic chores than why does she not get a maid to help her do those chores she finds difficult to do on her own. Why must it involve blk men as if she thinks white men are doing chores at home. Wake up and smell the coffee woman otherwise you will end up alone because no man wants a nagging woman. I wonder how you inferred she nags or who told you she is scared to end up alone. Why this inherent disrespect towards women? Is she NOT allowed to have a choice? What is wrong with a man doing chores at home? A husband and wife live in a home and the man does no chores? What does he do when she is cleaning? Must she have a maid? I think the OP is a very wise person. She has decided the kind of home she wants and the 'likely' set of men who can she can build such an home with. I believe this is far better than marrying a man and hoping, praying, fasting etc. that he changes from how she met him to who she wants him to be. My problem is her thinking that only a race can give her that. There is the good, bad and ugly everywhere. 10 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:48pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Asoebi tinz |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 2:55pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Ok you have made your point and i do agree with you on the last part. bukatyne: |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by oyinbogirl(f): 3:11pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Most white guys are happy to help out around the house, esp when both parties work and all. Go for what attracts you, you know your own feelings best....you will surely find the right one to treasure you 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 3:18pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Thanks for the unsolicited information For someone that is supposedly westernized, u want to tell me u haven't met white guys that are just like African men in believing they are the head and sh1t. Those that believe their wives should be stay-at-home mums and..... Especially the Southern religious ones There are plenty of men in our generation who do not think like the average NL guy and do not have those backward-chauvinistic mentality. Surround yourself with educated black men(ones from good school and good/comfortable family background), you can always tell by their appearance. No responsible, hard working black man gives a sh1t if u wear weaves or if ur hair is permed or not. As long as u don't look a hot mess, u're good. Most African men I know do not even care Shymexx and his kinds are tHe bottom of the barrell, stop judging young naija men by the rubbish that comes out of NL men a$$es. Most of the guys on here are touts and meat sellers in real life. 9 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by BecaciaBarbie(f): 4:06pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Subomi-luv:I loveeeeeeeeeeee white Men as well....have alwys wanted to marry one..ever since i was a lil girl, and i hope i will. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by BecaciaBarbie(f): 4:07pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
oyinbogirl: Most white guys are happy to help out around the house, esp when both parties work and all. Go for what attracts you, you know your own feelings best....you will surely find the right one to treasure you 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 4:28pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: LoL |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Idowuogbo(f): 4:33pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Becacia_Barbie:visa tinz... we understand. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 4:34pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 4:34pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
are white men now Gods ? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by nobniger: 4:36pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Posted under sexuality,I believe you're looking for more than sexx and I wish you well and I hope the Oyibo feels the same way yu do too. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Sexily Endowed: You are a joke, seeing i am not from London how can i have the same london based IP adress? You talk to much kid really you need to get a life. I remember that old thread were you not accussing shymexx of being untouchablebella? Just because you have 1 million alt accounts i have my high suspicions you are otumfour/petroldollar/abrantie and all the other idiots up in this forum. Get a job because it seems you do not have a life. You need help really. This must be abt the msdarkskin thing lol shame Lmao 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
This is interesting! .... Because a lot of my nigerian female friends have told me they can't marry white men because they are too polite and too nice. Apparently they like stubbornness of black/Nigerian men who can command them just by looking at them or telling them to "Sit Down!" even if they don't want to. Fellas just be yourself. Don't let the OP start making you "re-think" your ways. A woman will never admit to certain things (unless you are close friends), but at the end of the day, it is what their very souls respond to...whether they like it or not. I hear a lot of married white men bitching and complaining about their "old bag" at home who disrespects them and doesn't treat them like the man of the home. You think the relationship didn't start off all lovey dovey? It is because in the process of the lovey dovey many years back, the man never asserted his dominance nor did he ever use his voice and natural authoritative standing, until it became too late. The result, 5-10 years later, is then a wild woman who has little to no [size=18pt]natural [/size] respect for her HUSBAND because she grew too free and comfortable with hardly any boundaries placed on her. For a woman, respect must be on the instinct level, and not just superficial, for her to in-turn be a good wife. Imagine being married to a woman and you cannot tell her to go and do something, after you don pay bride-price finish. WTF? Granted out of my love for her, I will be ever considerate and listen to her verbally and non-verbaly and I will pamper her and help her in doing some things....but it would be to her benefit to not get it twisted. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by bukatyne(f): 5:05pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
2buff: This is interesting! .... Because a lot of my nigerian female friends have told me they can't marry white men because they are too polite and too nice. Interesting! A wife should have boundaries placed... hmmm... Marriage means different things to different people... 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by bukatyne(f): 5:05pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
2buff: This is interesting! .... Because a lot of my nigerian female friends have told me they can't marry white men because they are too polite and too nice. Interesting! A wife should have boundaries placed... hmmm... Marriage means different things to different people... |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by 50calibre(m): 5:06pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Wanting something is one thing, whether or not it is achievable by you is another and that is where reality lies. The question is not whether you want a white man, it is does a white man want you? You've manage to convince yourself of some myths regarding white men just to re-enforce your inferiority all because you saw a few black women with white men. You haven't asked yourself why you hardly see white men with black women but you see black men with white women always. Many white men got a fetish of banging a black chick, to them it's more like a slave fetish and finding the one who truly loves you is like finding a needle in a haystack and even at that you've got to be hot. Have you seen a white man with an ugly black chick? Go watch Django unchained. Enjoy yourself I'm sure it would be a fun ride. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
bukatyne: "Boundaries" is what women place on men everyday. Don't even try to deny this. Just as well, to become part of your household, she needs to understand certain things are acceptable and others are not. The result of not doing so is something funny in future, like the woman slapping the man. For her to have done that, it means there was no sense of "be careful" that comes from having active boundaries. Again, this would have to be an instinct thing, and not just "something in the air". e.g I highly doubt a man like Obasanjo would get slapped by his wife. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by kandiikane(m): 5:11pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
What kind of bullshyt is dave on about? The same negro who couple of months back was going in on black women saying how white women are better and more attractive now saying he will never put white women over black women? Get the phuck out of here, mate! Hypocrite. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 5:19pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
bukatyne: My sister, I dey tell you. Wetin man pikin no go see for this NL? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by amebopost(m): 5:27pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Good luck to you. May you find a white man who truly loves you. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by andyanders: 5:33pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
White? Ok, maybe you be from Edo state as that is passion for them. You can go and ask Kate Henshaw.She has seen it all. You think whites are better? Have you checked the divorce cases in developed countries? Can you accommodate when you are been pointed a gun and off you are gone? Hope you heard about how most celebrities end up in getting divorced? We African can endure and whites can settle differences with their gun. |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by razznaija(f): 5:34pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Good for you, honestly, i don't have any problems marrying a non Nigerian man, any good man that God gives me, i will take, but never will i marry an African man that has never lived in a western country for at least, a year because of their local mentality. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by ichidodo: 5:34pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Beware of the fetish white man!! |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 5:54pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Shollypopz: Thanks for the unsolicited information Aye, stop putting my handle in your stupid posts... Bottom of the barrel, yet still better academically and in everything whatsoever you want to use to rate a man, than all the educated illiterates that you know.. GTFOH... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 5:57pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Flytefalls: Lmao... I thought you're Jamaican, no?? We JA mandem are cocky like that, that's the blessing from Marcus Garvey, Selasse, and Jah... Gatts follow "ShymmexLion" asp, girlie... Dun noe bredrin... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: That's more reason why you need move out of where you're right now, and come to a place like London... Don't believe the hype about white men, it's just make-believe, I tell ya... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 6:03pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
bukatyne: Are you saying there aren't black people who call the West their home and lead a normal western life?? So how come the divorce rate isn't that high among this group of black people?? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by Nobody: 6:04pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
This shollypopz clown is getting too disrespectful now... Just watch what you post to me, prick... Bottom of the barrel, more like you're the scum of the earth, freaking hungry scrounger... |
Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by OkparaIgbo: 6:08pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
[b]Some African ladies are fools and have nothing but pulse in their big head that they coat with fake hairs.. If I am to make a random guess on you OP, I will say that it is either your dad got divorced from your mum which is unfortunate and no fault of yours, or that you have been brainwashed by the white man and his media to believe gibberish. Who told you that black men don't help out their wives and don't contribute to the running of the house? You see here is the thing, as a black man myself, I wouldn't in any shape or form be selfish enough not to help out my wife and all in certain activites as long as 1. it is not on compulsion that I do it 2. My wife doesn't go as far as setting it out as a routine which we must split (As in she does it monday and I do it Tuesday etc) 3. She doesn't take my input and help for granted. Yes I am a typical African man that loves his culture to the full and respect it too. (Why would the white man come and tell me to drop my culture and take up his own all in the stupid name of "westernisation or Women liberation" are you going to be worth more than some African women who have attained the apex of their career yet cherish and love their husbands like Ngozi Okonji Iweala, Mrs Obama etc. Infact OP please go and marry a white man so that we can eliminate you and people like you from the African race. Now I am not racist but I hate when people say they want to marry a white man and then go further on to insult the black man and speak rubbish.Watch this you ignorant mofo [flash=420,315] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zvGRmX2gcs[/flash] and marry who the f**k you want to and I assure you, you aint gonna be missed not even an inch..Mtcheew[/b] 3 Likes |
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