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Re: Should Broke Men Be Allowed To Date? by HisRib(f): 1:56pm On Apr 18, 2013
dmcdad:
I am not against you in any way but you should kinda review your posts or the entire thread as using the word broke might just imply a temporal blip and not as if the guy is in penury. You catch my drift? Even the so-called-rich-guys go broke sometimes. So, the fact remains that being broke or not, people should be allowed to date for whatever reason they want to.

There is one thing you need to be clear of and that is the fact that you cant date anyone who is broke. That is good and fine for you. But don't say they shouldn't be allowed to date like there is a fundamental law against such people dating. Besides, if u would date for money, there are girls that would date just for a guy's intelligence, handsomeness, wisdom, personality just to name a few.

Like I stated in one of my previous posts, money is required to fine-tune the dating experience, to add spices to it, to bring about treats and the likes. I have dated someone who doesn't like me taking her out or buying a gifts or the likes... What she ever craved for was just to be with me alone because whenever she was with me she was always happy and that was what she craved for. Please and please the bedrock of your relationship shouldn't be money... Besides, someone who is broke today might also be well to do tomorrow if he knows what he is doing. And a rich guy of today can eventually become flat-broke tomorrow.

Do u see right through me?

Where is the relationship now? That's what I thought. Listen, I am woman and I am telling you things straigjt up. No sugar coating. I am not here to stroke anyone's ego. The reaity is women will always say stuff like what your previous girlfriend said but best believe after a while all that CHANGES! A man needs to be ambitious.

If a man is "rich" and then goes broke, I have NO reason to leave him. I will stand by him and help get his feet back on track because I know he's capable.
Re: Should Broke Men Be Allowed To Date? by dmcdad: 2:06pm On Apr 18, 2013
HisRib:

Where is the relationship now? That's what I thought. Listen, I am woman and I am telling you things straigjt up. No sugar coating. I am not here to stroke anyone's ego. The reaity is women will always say stuff like what your previous girlfriend said but best believe after a while all that CHANGES! A man needs to be ambitious.

If a man is "rich" and then goes broke, I have NO reason to leave him. I will stand by him and help get his feet back on track because I know he's capable.
@bolded, don't be ridiculous.. Is there anything that is meant to stay forever if not marriage?? Even marriage of these days don't stand the test of time much less a mere relationship. Just so you know, that wasn't why we broke up, infact its far from that so don't get it twisted. Okay? Besides, the fact that she craved not for those things doesn't mean I didn't make use of my discretion to take care of those things..

But you really need to change your focal point because it aint gonna lead you well, whether you choose to accept it or not.
Re: Should Broke Men Be Allowed To Date? by HisRib(f): 2:40pm On Apr 18, 2013
dmcdad:
@bolded, don't be ridiculous.. Is there anything that is meant to stay forever if not marriage?? Even marriage of these days don't stand the test of time much less a mere relationship. Just so you know, that wasn't why we broke up, infact its far from that so don't get it twisted. Okay? Besides, the fact that she craved not for those things doesn't mean I didn't make use of my discretion to take care of those things..

But you really need to change your focal point because it aint gonna lead you well, whether you choose to accept it or not.

Look her up -- she's probably got herself a rich man. I refuse to believe you are over 20 years old. You sound very naive. This is 2013 -- you need to wake up. This generation is the most money hungry generation society has ever seen. If you think any woman in 2013 will stay with you while you are broke & refuse to do better for yourself, you are in for a VERY rude awakening.
Re: Should Broke Men Be Allowed To Date? by dmcdad: 3:00pm On Apr 18, 2013
HisRib:

Look her up -- she's probably got herself a rich man. I refuse to believe you are over 20 years old. You sound very naive. This is 2013 -- you need to wake up. This generation is the most money hungry generation society has ever seen. If you think any woman in 2013 will stay with you while you are broke & refuse to do better for yourself, you are in for a VERY rude awakening.
Lolzzz... Don't make me laugh gurly. It didn't happen in 2013 but years back. I sound naive?? Thats bizarre and startling to hear from someone who has been very illogical about her arguments. Anywayz, to analyze an issue using a broad spectrum now means someone is under twenty, right?? I don't know your age and don't care to know cause it matters less to me as I deal with people based on their level of reasoning and their ability to handle issues sanely but I am very sure I am very much older than you are, cause a girl who is older than myself cant reason the same way you do..

Anywayz, not trying to insult you or anything, just trying to be sincere with my verdict. Okay?

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