Lorretta, you do not need advice from us at all, but what i understand from your question, is an advice to people that are doing it or intend doing it.

What do you want us to tell you, that a woman is having an affair in the husband house and she want us to commend her and probably buy her 18 karat gold necklace for her achievement. you are tell us that she even cross third term & goes into fourth term on a bed bought by her husband with his hard earned money.

What she did is evil and calous. She is a disgrace to womanhood. Was she forced into the marriage? Didn't she see the man before marrying him? I think you friend is possessed and need a combined forces of Pastor Chris and TB Joshua to cast the demon on her.

Please tell her that the day of reckoning is fast approaching and she is going to reap the fruit of her evil plot againt her husband. Tell her to stop it as dooms day is around. I will pray and fast for her to be caught by her husband.

wonders shall never end they say, wht will make her to bring the man into her matrimonial bed, that is rubbish.

my daer Pls do advise her very well cos wht is jussy can also be sore.

Advice her pls

i think she really needs prayes instead of her concentrating on building her marriage she's there indirectly scattering it.i pray her husband gets to find her out and kicks her out of her matrimonial home.that would serve her right,cause she does not deserve to be married.

And were is the Loretta all of you are giving advise.

I get a kick taking such risks. If I can meet up with her for a round of rough sex in her matrimonial king size bed, that will make my day. As long as I don't know the husband, I have no problem with it. After all, what you don't know won't hurt you. Life is a bitch.

tell you r friend to be very very careful. There is a curse that comes with Adultery.
The guy will even swindle her if she's not careful

the most responsible act that you owe yourself(lorreta) is to let ur friend's husband know one way or the other what the woman is doing on their matrimonial bed.Its the worst thing that it happens on their matrimonial bed.I dont think u said anything like the guy does it on their matrimonial bed.So she is going off- bounds.The singular act of friendship she would leta appreciate is the fact that u helped her retrace her steps. I think she needs JESUS

the most responsible act that you owe yourself(lorreta) is to let your friend's husband know one way or the other what the woman is doing on their matrimonial bed.Its the worst thing that it happens on their matrimonial bed

Please do not do that .let him find out from another person.
by the way what if Loretta's friend is Muslim , what is she doing with Jesus.

this is the reason why i would never marry again

I quite agreed with what Swan said. The best thing to do is to put your friend in prayers. There's no point telling the hubby, it will only aggravate their problems by breaking their marriage.

It is not good to put assunder in another man's marriage. (What God has joined together, let no man put assunder) U wont be a home breaker. But try to advice your riend and if she turned deaf hear to you, please kindly end your relationship with her, cause birds of the same feather flock together. She might start going out with your hubby too.

abomination !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I want to say thank you to everybody that has contributed to this trend.

1. The Husband is a chronic womanizer, and he is a sailor as I said earlier on, and he is not always around, each time he comes around he doesnt come home he will either give them one excuse or the other and whenever he comes around he will tell her he is tired or and when she complains he just got angry and left.

2. The day he will manage to have fun with her he will not spend more than 30minutes with her, according to my friend he is 2minutes noddle. All he is after he is to be giving her money.

3. That's what led to the infedilty, and my friend is a very wild girl, she likes fun a lot that's why she can cope ( am not sayaing is good shaa) but that was what the man was doing with her b4 he got this is shipping job 2years ago. All of a sudden he just changed, no more going out with, he used to take to clubs, but all dat stopped. So u will see what i mean. ( he took her so high and left just like that.) And he got a 16yr old girl which is grooving around town with anytime he comes around.

4. For the issue of bringing the manfriend to her house, she has stopped that but she is still keeping the guy, which am still trying to let her stop it. according to u r advise have passed it on to her. She is really really emotional traumatized but i have told her that's not the solution, maybe she should call a family meeting when the guy is around
or keep praying to the Lord for a change.

5. The worst of the whole issue is that the guy was around during the baby's birthday and they manage to have fun, guess what after a week she was diagnosed for having STD.

I know some people will say she got from the other guy, that's not true she & the other have protected sex (Condom). u see what I mean.

Let me stop here I will continue late

wat goes around sure comes around.
Its degrading to do the done deal on her matrimonial bed tho

:odid u call her ur friend?hmmmmmmmmmm,show me ur friend ad i will tell u who u are.U beta run awy from bitch b4 she snatches ur husband or lure u in2 d CHEATN GAME

mmm, I'm begining to have separating the person Lorreta from the adulterer. You seem to have an indept knowledge of what goes on in the adulterous woman's bedroom. The husband being a 2mins man, spending less than 30mins in all, ur friend's s.e.xual appetite. People make una think am now? Anyhow sha, whoever it is, its BAD and can never be condoned. Get a vibrator instead or file for a divorce.

omg! that ur friend does she have any sense of humor at all FIFTY THOSAND NAIRA aba! plz tell her to forget bout de guy and he is sleeping with de man on her matrimonal bed! dis one is out of order! if she doesnt like her husband why did she marry him them than cheating on the guy. and de most painful part is de man doesnt know bout it. i will advise u to tell to stop that affair with her man friend or proverb:EVERY DAY FOR THE THEIF ONE DAY FOR THE OWNER. so if she contiune dat her husband will definetly catch her or u neva know neighbours might see and tell. so i will advise u to tell her to end that affair outside her marriage.

The woman something dey scratch her
U no need to blame her

The Husband is a disgrace. He cant Help matters

Women Need to be fired 24 7

That is a curse! She is going to set herself and her husband back in life. Fornicating is not enough, it has graduated to adultery even on the mtrimonial bed! its a terrible sin against God and her husband.She needs prayer and deliverance fast.

loretta biko first of all remove ur email because if ur friend comes on this website and sees it are tory will wowo.

secondly yeah ur friend is an idiot, but hey if she's having fun then that's are business.

thirdly pray for her becaues u cant stop her and advice her to leave the nonsense out of her house, its desecrating a sacred place.

fourth, is her husband cheating on her as well, because if he is then the problem is a lot worse than u thought.

last but not least, if all else fails tell her u heard tha ther new boy toy has chlamydia, u saw him coming out of an std clinic, that might freak her out enough to stop.

and if she still doesnt stop, go buy a nice out fit to wear to the divorce party, because does are always the best

Why is everybody crying over the N50,000? Is it too much a wage for a 4-round romp? As long as the girl is enjoying herself she will do anything to keep the guy on her payroll

Again, i don't understand some opinions here. It appears some people are only averse to her sleeping with the guy on their matrimonial bed. Does the bed really matter? Matrimonial bed, patrimonial bed , hotel bed, the guy's bed? All na de same adultery.

The situation is complex, both couples are apparently not interested in themselves again. That marriage can only work if they repent and become born again.

what is there to repent done is done.
I will rather forgive a Husband for sleeping with ten women in a hotel room , than almost sleeping with one on my bed in my house.
And if he gose to that born again church, I will even call police to walk him out.

@Mamaput To err is human forgiveness divine
Having said that the lady is a disgrace to the husband.She could have easiily have her romping outside the matrimonial home at least reserve some respect for the man.Even the story tyhat her husband does not satisfy her in bed does not cut any ice with me.If he does not tickle ur fancy in the sex department then you should tutor him.If he still feels non chalant about learning some new sex tricks then go buy a Love Machine and masturbate with it in his presence that will get his attention_{this one beta pass fcking another guy on ur matrimonial bed}

or you end the marrage.
The woman should have known b4 she married him that he cannot meet up her needs.

She might have known but women marry for all sorts of reason apart from love and body chemistry!Financial security is always topmost of the list.Banging can be gotten from other avenues

like you said she should have gotten a Love Machine.
if she cannot afford one there are other things to use.
But please not a bottle.

Good night.

Lol
Yeah I guess u are right

1) Firstly I can't still understand why someone would cheat on somebody she promised a life time commitment to. And it's a shame she comes narrating her immoral sexual life as if it's the best thing that could ever happen to her.
2) Why would she ever bring him into her matrimonial home? Doesn't she have a little respect for her husband? What would she do if she finds out that her husband is also having crazy sex with another woman on their matrimonial bed?
3) This man friend sounds like someone who doesn't have a financial background and looks up to the woman to provide him of his needs and I guess she has been spending her husband's money on him.
4) The guy doesn't look like someone safe to be with. Even though she has no money he insists she goes and borrow. What would he do if she can't give him the money at last? It seems to me that this guy is a typical gold digger.

@topic:that's a big risk you are taking there. the best option you have to take is to put an end to the adultrous affair.all the posters have said it all. the end is disaster thereof.

when will nigerian women learn to have affairs with strangers. biggest mistakes made is having an affair with someone that knows they are married.

finemocha:

when will nigerian women learn to have affairs with strangers. biggest mistakes made is having an affair with someone that knows they are married.

No problem there! One must learn to cover such tracks well.  No!  The biggest mistake is that she stupidly told "a friend"! YIKES! She actually told you, the poster, as a "friend"? ! Kai!  What a major "fhuck up"!   Which sane female can trust another female with such a secret biko nu?  Even my Mama?  Sorry oh!  Some things are just between me and Nairalanders and God!

But why not in a hotel for God's sake if you must!  My matrimonial bed of all places!  Believe it or not,---- _{hiccups! hiccups! hiccups!}--------there are some things that are sacred to me! Chai! _{--------------I think my matrimonial bed is more sacred than the popular confession box in the church}. Which kain marriage be that


It looks like this your friend is a born Mugu!  It looks like she is a novice in the game or something   Well she go learn the hard way.  Next time, the dude will have a camcorder recording the act for blackmail.  She will have the money by force then and pay the guy for life!  What a fool!  How she go dey "bang" boy toy when no get money for pocket?  What is the point?  If he is a male prostitute, she better pay him his money oh before he disgrace am!   Abi is it one of those "fhock for credit" peeps I have been talking about?  Na wah oh!

disgrace to womanhood

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm! :p