OMO IBO:

why should divorce be the last resort? why can't she or they work on the marriage?
in my opinion, there shouldn't be a number to it. marriage is a 'work in progress' project. personally, divorce is an easy way out.

As many times as possible till he infects you with the HIV virus or a lethal combination of the "H" factors like "Hepatitis+Herpes+HIV!!! After which both his deeek and your pussee would have disintergrated to atomic particles. Then when you both die, you can continue your sexual reconciliation in hell without a deeek and a pusseee! In the true "burn again" fashion=romance without deeeks and pusseeeeeeeeeez!

Rubbish!

I would definitely get rid of his arse with the first attempt at infidelity. . .I just cannot stomach the thought of another woman's slimy pusseeeeeeeeeee in ma bed. That deeek will forever remain contaminated in ma mind. I better not find out! The separation process will definitely begin.

Honey. . .you dey hear me so?

by Izeek,
@almondjoy,
i have seen some of your replies, some have sounded mature others just sound like everyother white trash i hear on tevee.
you're nigerian, how long u been outa this country?
i suggetsu act nigerian before your forming pass the whiteman wey u meet for yankee.

sam milla,
@needlelady
you agree with her 100%, not even 50 or 70%, all 100%, why did u post this thread here in the first place since u alreaday formed your opinion ?

uspry1:

Anyone ever watch the cable TV show, HBO called "THE GREATEST SILENCE: RAPE IN THE CONGO"? I watched it last night in the USA.

It has already explained why African men disgraced hurting African women in rape. Sad documentary story i ever watched on cable TV show! The answer is the lack of HUMAN RIGHTS in AFRICA.

Here link to know about the female documenter of that HBO documentary movie: THE GREATEST SILENCE: RAPE IN THE CONGO" at below:

http://www.hbo.com/docs/programs/thegreatestsilence/interview.html

@TOPIC
i don't have to go to america to know how we nigerians behave exspecially to our ownselves
we act like we r superior to those we left behind,
like our tots and thinking changed over night.
what took u 20yrs to master here before leavn
suddenly takes u less than a yr to change and subdue.

proo212 link=topic=126343.msg2139602#msg2139602 date=1207839118:

I definitely side with the ladies on this one, Almondjoy in particular (who would have thunk it). Yes marriage is a work in progress but that does not give both partners the free ride to be unfaithful (repeatedly). Why did you get married in the first place?

No, this is not being westernised. The guys that do not want to be kicked to the curb by their wives when they cheat, if the tables were turned, would you keep forgiving and working at it? I think not. As a man your ego would not allow that. As a Nigerian man, you and I both know the woman doesn't stand a chance of remaining in the relationship even if she never does it again.

@Izeek, effectively you're saying it's OK for the men to be unfaithful (even though you do not support promiscuity) and the woman should just accept it. Because you ask, how many baby Daddys? What I deduct from your post is that the other man the lady ends up with will be unfaithful to her! Because it is a given. So she just keeps forgiving and forgiving. The lady will eventually have no desire to be with the man since she is unhappy (God help her if she isn't tied to the man financially). The man justifies it by saying my lady doesn't want to get with me. Goes out again and the cycle continues.

TOUGH to say how many times to forgive in Nigeria where there are majority of polygamous marriage allows and lack of HUMAN RIGHTS for women.

I agreed with @izeek has said partly about you must know what kind of this person before marriage according to the following link below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

NO CHEATERS/WOMANIZER/PLAYERS you should not be in marriage in the first place!!!

But I disagreed with @izeek in other part about act Nigerian passing to Yankee! @izeek, have you been to American forum discussions before? Have you been to Yankee yourself?

Needlelady:

Ever heard Beyonce's song, irreplaceable? 'To the left to the left'

just wondering if needlelady has a partner in her life. im sure she's not married.

needlelady, the person u supported 100% is married with kids. im sure she has issues in her home she wouldnt share with u and/or most people in here. people like IYA (the agadi nwanyi u gave 100%) would do anything to keep their marriages. forget everything shes saying herejust wondering if needlelady has a partner in her life. im sure she's not married.

SAM MILLA:


@almondjoy,
Divorce is a very easy way out of marriage, and the same marriage also have 'for better or for worse ' as a clause.
So your advice for women is to instantly get rid of their husband  as soon as they caught them cheating.
I disagree, I guess you also advice men to leave their wives for the same reasons too, have you never heard of the cliche'' AN EYE FOR AN EYE MAKES THE WORLD GO BLIND'
After divorcing him, who else do u intend to marry, A Rev.Father, or the Pope himself.
I have seen somewhere where somebody was telling you to mind the kind of advice you give to people, None of them promote unity or peace or reconcilliation.
Dont take this personal, i don't simply agree with almost all your advices to Nigerian ladies. You are misleading them
@needlelady
you agree with her 100%, not even 50 or 70%, all 100%, why did u post this thread here in the first place since u already formed your opinion ?

EXPOSER:

@almond joy,
You come here everyday to decieve and abuse Nigerians,
Who do you think you are?.What makes you think your promiscous lifestyle is what people want to hear from your dirty stinking mouth.
Dont you know you are a lady, Dont you have respect for people you don't know.

I am sure your husband must be under some influence of juju from you if you are married.
How many times have you filed for divorce if your husband came back late from work because thats what you preach here. .How many times have you broken his head for not washing the dishes because i know you will probably make it his responsibilities, There is a sub-section called sexuality here ,
Thats where you practically belong.Stop posting shit here, we are not interested in your Advice miss know all, [/b]

by omoibo,
just wondering if needlelady has a partner in her life. im sure she's not married.

needlelady, the person u supported 100% is married with kids. im sure she has issues in her home she wouldnt share with u and/or most people in here. people like IYA (the agadi nwanyi u gave 100%) would do anything to keep their marriages. forget everything shes saying here

By Sam MIlla,
I knew it, It amazing how most of you ladies go to all kinds of churches to beg God for visas,fast and pray,hope and humble,listening to all kinds of Don Meon, Ron Kenoly and all others even considering wearing trousers a sin, As soon as you get your visa and get to JFK airport In New York, you turn the music in your walkman to Beyonce and Madonna,  I am not saying you don't have to play your music but how much time do you have for those gospel songs again, You are there telling me about Beyonce, Who the hell is Beyonce. Look at where you derive your inspirations and this is the way you will like your children to follow, [s]All i am saying is that we Nigerians in Nigeria have our own views of everything. So many people will be wondering what beyonce means because its not in their religious doctrine, Stick with your american perspectives there and stop decieving our people. [/s] 

NEEDLE LADY NO SAY I NO WARN You

Oh pleeeeeeze! I got my game tight. I control guys and not guys that control me.

Anu mpam, onu rebikwegi. eririfurafu!
i really do not give a toss what goes on in your home. its non of my business. waste pipe telling me i grew up in a polygamous home. onye anwuruma ka iwu. look in the mirror and ask yourself that question. fuccin fruity.