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| Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by madamkoko: 12:58am On Apr 12, 2008 |
I have an ex boyfriend, who always calls me when he is with his "flings" He'd call me, and leave messages on my voicemail while having conversations with different women, telling them he loves them and other personal info!!!! I've told him several times not to do that, I'm getting frustrated. I don't want to change my cell phone number, cause I also use it for business purposes and things are getting pretty annoying, We did have a very bad break up. At this time, I don't know else what to do  ?? |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by tRoOE(f): 1:01am On Apr 12, 2008 |
Did you not know he was crazy in the beginning of your relationship  The only thing i can tell you is to block his #, so he won't be able to get in touch with you |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by spoilt(f): 1:39am On Apr 12, 2008 |
he likes the reaction u give him. pretend you dont get those messages he'll tire. it will take a while but he will truly tire. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Nobody: 4:39am On Apr 12, 2008 |
call him back when you are making love and let him hear your moans. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Teejay07(m): 4:52am On Apr 12, 2008 |
madamkoko, though it might be difficult just ignore him. He is not worth the stress. U already said ur goodbyes. I am sure he is jsut doing this to spite you. TO make you feel like you are truly missing something. He is like a child crying for attention. Imagine he does not exist. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by almondjoy(f): 5:00am On Apr 12, 2008 |
Ceeno E vu: I think I agree with this suggestion.  Ummmmm, Annnnnnnnnh, Unnnnnnnnnnnn Aaaaaaaaaah! |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Teejay07(m): 5:04am On Apr 12, 2008 |
@ almondjoy, then when do you think the madness will stop. The two of them will just go on and on and on till someone backs down. So, why not just stop the madness right away by ignoring the guy. You do not win a battle with a madman by degenerating to his level. You keep your respectability by refraining from joining issues with such mad people. Well, thats my tupenny worth o. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by almondjoy(f): 5:12am On Apr 12, 2008 |
Teejay07: Who said so?  The best way to deal with a mad man is to prove that your own type of insanity is the "imported" kind! While his is the locally manufactured kind |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Teejay07(m): 5:22am On Apr 12, 2008 |
@almond, tell me, what if the guy be real 'kolo'. Wetin go happen that time. Moreso, as a 'Lady' madamkoko has got to show some level of decorum and decency. Dont you think your approach would be taking things too far? Almond, i know u got class and am sure u wont ever go that low to make a point. Methinks, madamkoko should just walk away from the 'maddening crowd'. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by frank316(m): 9:30am On Apr 12, 2008 |
Are you still in love with him? i have a feeling that both of you still like each other. who broke the relationship? you? he is probably still hurt by how the relationship broke up. dont you think dailogue will work? i think there are still some issues that you guy have not resolved, if not why should he do what he is doing and why should it bother you? |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Nobody: 11:04am On Apr 12, 2008 |
spoilt:great idea  |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by SweetT1: 12:57pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
@Madamkoko Your post is kind of vague. But i'm thinking, he calls you for a Booty call. If that's the case and you already broken up with him, be blunt and tell him what you are worth. tell him you are not his toys and he should stop calling you for that. Also tell him that if he does not stop, you will get a new number and he will risk ever talking to you again. But on the flip side, what kind of business are you doing that is so hard to change your numbers and notify your customers of the new number. Please don't tell me it's the kind of business i have in mind. Another option is. Next time he calls start mentioning other guys name. Or get another guy to answer the phone. But the risk of that is he might come back and choke your @ss if he's the jealous and temperamental type. Goodluck. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by madamkoko: 1:35pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
Sweet T, not just "booty calls" or whatever you'd like to call it. But the issue is when other women have answered his booty calls, then he leaves the conversations he has with them on my voicemail. like, "What would you like to do next" "ïf I show you my stick you'll never comeback again", Its quite immature and unnecessary. In case you've nenver owned a small business, you loose business when you start changing numbers, its hard to people to still keep in touch with you, , you can change everything but you can't change your business numberr but you'll loose customers, Actually OLODUs if thats what you're talking about, change numbers because they don't want to be tracked, |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by madamkoko: 1:38pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
@ Frank, it doesn't bother me that he's with other women, he disturbing me and using all my voicemail space when he leaves such messages~~~~  |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by buchio7(m): 3:01pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
@madamkoko i believe u shd ignore him totally cause trying to play his type of game will just generally bring urself down to his own level and thereby give him the impression dat u r jealous and want to get even, just ignore him,block his number get someone dat makes u happy and get on with life. Life is too short spending it tackling issues of immature ex's. enjoy ur life  |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by CrazyMan(m): 4:16pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
Breakups are usually painful especially and they become more painful when you see your ex with another person. My advice is that you avoid picking his calls; and try as much as possible to delete his image from your memory, |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Dreloaded(f): 4:21pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
He obviously still wants you else he wouldnt put so much effort in trying to hurt you I'd personally be amused that he's acting so pathetic just to get my attention and just ignore his calls(and dont respond to his pitiful voicemails). He'll get the message eventually |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by SweetT1: 5:06pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
@Madamkoko I'm sure there is a way to block his number from your phone. Either you check your phone's features or you call your service provider. I think it's obvious your still in love with him. It's not a crime, it's happened to the best of us before. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by CURIOUST(m): 5:08pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
It would be easier to just change your number and then distribute the new number to those you want to have it. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by almondjoy(f): 5:25pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
Teejay07: Ehhhhhhhhhn? I know, but this is Nairaland. . .this is not a serious topic enough to warrant too much preaching. Just for laffs only. The responses here are dry enough! Not a serious matter I say!Topics like this call for levity please! |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by SamMilla1(m): 5:33pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
almondjoy: @AJ, I dont agree with you here.i think Nairaland is not for laughs, we have a section called jokes here, You give good advices some places and give sarcastic ones on others, People learn a lot from Nairaland, |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Dreloaded(f): 5:41pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
actually service providers dont block numbers. They can only block private calls So it's either 1. ignore the voicemails and never mention to him that you received them. Infact dont even tell him anything anymore 2. Change your number 3. Get a second phone, different line 1 and 3 are more plausible seeing that you have a business |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by SweetT1: 5:46pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
@D-reloaded What kind of Bootleg service provider is that ?? Of course you can block someones number from calling your phone ! It's called "Selective call acceptance" on my phone features. *64 or something like that. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Dreloaded(f): 5:48pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
Sprint  I can only do selective on landline, not cell phone |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by SweetT1: 5:50pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
Sprint?? No wonder, a tired phone company. Even AT&T is better or Verizon ! |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by frank316(m): 6:29pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
madamkoko: |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Nobody: 6:32pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
call him back when you are making love and let him hear your moans. lol,i couldn't agree more |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by ifyalways(f): 7:30pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
simple. . .block his number. |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Riskie(f): 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2008 |
^^ what she said |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Cadet(f): 1:59pm On Apr 13, 2008 |
@post Never been in this kind of situation. But the best suggestion i have up my sleeve will be to call the police |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by almondjoy(f): 2:33pm On Apr 13, 2008 |
SAM MILLA: Only people who did not have any form of basic education(academic or social) or parents/family members who never loved them would learn anything important on Nairaland for that matter. What you learn from Nairaland is[b] "cyber survival"[/b]. . . .so you do not make the same mistakes when you go to other websites and nothing more! The rest. . .get a real life for real life lessons! Or surf the WWW or affiliates of "Wikidoodle"! Oh please! Gimme a damn |
| Re: Crazy Boyfriend Leaves Messages by Dreloaded(f): 2:36pm On Apr 13, 2008 |
Lmao AJ, it's just his way of advertising his section |
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