Sweetlemon: Wait a minute people, what's the definition of a mother?
A mother is not necessarily a woman who has gone through labour pains, a mother is ANY woman who LOVEs, PROTECTS, and NUTUREs a person or people and helps them to grow to be useful individuals in the society.
Now, just because a woman went through labour pains does not automatically qualify her to be a mother. How can a you call yourself a mother and even allow the idea of prostitution germinate in your daughters head? Does anybody have an idea what prostitution and it's effects can cause? That is the worst thing, after rape, that could ever happen to a woman! Then somebody will come her and tell me that "she is still her mother no matter what?" Hello? but if she were a real mother, she would have been the one sacrificing her own body, pride, dignity, and essence for her daughter and not the other way round!
If girls/women like kaffy do not expose such mothers, how then will the society be able to rid themselves of such mothers? (and it will surprise you to know the number of such so-called "mothers" we have around the place! I know one who brings old men to her house to sleep with and molest her daughters!)That's the annoying thing about Nigerians we just enjoy suffering and smiling all in the name of sentiments! That's why why we cannot speak against bad leaders just because they are "our sons and daughters"
Smh in disgust! Don't you just dare criticize Kaffy cos you have no idea what she went through and the pains she still remembers when she thinks about her past!
I feel like slapping some people here wallahi!

Sweetlemon: Wait a minute people, what's the definition of a mother?
A mother is not necessarily a woman who has gone through labour pains, a mother is ANY woman who LOVEs, PROTECTS, and NUTUREs a person or people and helps them to grow to be useful individuals in the society.
Now, just because a woman went through labour pains does not automatically qualify her to be a mother. How can a you call yourself a mother and even allow the idea of prostitution germinate in your daughters head? Does anybody have an idea what prostitution and it's effects can cause? That is the worst thing, after rape, that could ever happen to a woman! Then somebody will come her and tell me that "she is still her mother no matter what?" Hello? but if she were a real mother, she would have been the one sacrificing her own body, pride, dignity, and essence for her daughter and not the other way round!
If girls/women like kaffy do not expose such mothers, how then will the society be able to rid themselves of such mothers? (and it will surprise you to know the number of such so-called "mothers" we have around the place! I know one who brings old men to her house to sleep with and molest her daughters!)That's the annoying thing about Nigerians we just enjoy suffering and smiling all in the name of sentiments! That's why why we cannot speak against bad leaders just because they are "our sons and daughters"
Smh in disgust! Don't you just dare criticize Kaffy cos you have no idea what she went through and the pains she still remembers when she thinks about her past!
I feel like slapping some people here wallahi!

hayoakins: After listening to the interview, I knew it was gonna go viral

Kaffy, you are celebrated already but you don't have to long for more at the expense of ur mama even if she's a witch.

Am highly disappointed in you....some people got worse mommas yet they didn't sell them cheap like you just did .

She carried you for 9 cool months, that alone is invaluable and can't be traded

Am trying hard to fight back my tears.

I love u mama no matter what, you could have flush me off if you wanted

Billyonaire: Disclose private poverty-induced interaction with your mum to motivate others ? Someone needs to see a shrink real quick. What happens to confidentiality?

Popowaa: Is she still not her mother.Why would u disgrace your mother when she is still alive

wizkris: In ma own pioint of view,SOME GALS WERE BORN TO BE STUPID...y disgrace her mum like that even though wah she did was illegal.blood should be blood

BabeOnIdeas:

Pls what do all you guys mean by confidentiality? Everyday mothers from places like Edo State (I'm not saying Kaffy is Edo bt this is the reality)encourage their kids into prostitution just to give the family a better life. What Kaffy did is right. The more ppl speak up, the more we influence culture. You ppl are being so hypocritical this is the same ting Oprah Winfreys family said, "Why should she speak abou the fact that her cousin raped her and uncle pregnanted her at 13". Her family have fought her all their lives bt live off God's blessings on her. Oprah was so deformed she decided not to have kids. WOMEN pls speak up and change society, since these the human race doesnt understand the meaning of decency anymore.

Irritant: Everybody just dey run their mouth,better hunger never attack una ...wey una go start to even reason how to use my family member take tidy money rituals..MtweEeeeeeeeeew....

kulyie: exactly.prostitution and rape live a scar in the mentality of a woman permanently,nothing expect purification by God can remove that scene from her mind.no amount of counselling can do anything.i remember when i was doing my nysc in a female ngo,and so we were jisting and then one of my colleagues then asked that oga nko? We assumed she was married anyway and she said,mio ti marry o (meaning i am not married ) then my colleague retorted 'at your age' she was in her mid 3os so when we pressured her to know why she wasnt married,she said when she was young,her father used her as a means of entertainment to entertain guests,for example,if her fathers friends come to greet him,instead of offering coke or fanta,it is the girl that will be offered for sex,the father will literarily force her to sleep with his friends and each time she gets pregnant,her mother or father will take her for abortion.they subjected her so much mental abuse that she couldnt open up to anybody.this happened for years that she aborted several times.now the doctor said she cant get pregnant again,she was sad and she decided not to get married because if she does and her husband and people find out she has a damaged womb and cant get pregnant,they will chase her out,so instead of embarassing herself,she decided to remain single.so you can imagine so many disgusting things families bury inside their house.by the way she is just one of millions of victims

ItsModella:
Exactly. Carrying a child in your womb for 9 months doesn't make you a mother. If you like, carry the child for 9 years, if you show no love, care or support towards that child, then you're not a mother.

kulyie: why will it cause discord?did she lie against her,was that not what her mom said.if she lied against her publicly,ehen,she has all the right to fight and even disown her

BabeOnIdeas:

Pls what do all you guys mean by confidentiality? Everyday mothers from places like Edo State (I'm not saying Kaffy is Edo bt this is the reality)encourage their kids into prostitution just to give the family a better life. What Kaffy did is right. The more ppl speak up, the more we influence culture. You ppl are being so hypocritical this is the same ting Oprah Winfreys family said, "Why should she speak abou the fact that her cousin raped her and uncle pregnanted her at 13". Her family have fought her all their lives bt live off God's blessings on her. Oprah was so deformed she decided not to have kids. WOMEN pls speak up and change society, since these the human race doesnt understand the meaning of decency anymore.

basadenet:
Well i pity kaffy a lot. Even if her mum said so, does that tantamount to forcing her into prostitution biz? Sometimes when in travail or turbulent human being sometimes made some statement as a result the state of his/her mind then.

kulyie: should that even come out from her mouth even if they are living under uncompleted building? The bottomline is that mothers should be mindful of what they say to their kids because such statements hardly leave their minds especially to girls.like the old woman in the movie titanic said,a womans heart is like an ocean of secrets.if you know you dont want to be remembered for bad or made reference of in a negative way by virtue of what you say,say something edifying to your kids or keep your mouth shut

kulyie: you are really living up to your name,so i wont blame you that much

ednut1: kafayat the bible nd koran said we shud always obey our parents, see her head like say she no do both prostition nd dance togeda

karllmarxx: I just dont get it , most 9ja celeb always coming out with different sad stories ..
1)..I used to sell plantain ...
2)..I used to sell Nworkbi and peppersoup
3)..Another Artist was telling us on his record how he had one shoe and jean and he is a student of Leeds Uni

We dont know why Kaffi after several years would come out to say disturbing words about her mom ..not defending her mom but thats just so uncool ..

In a functionalist perspective we will soon find out the motives behind this ..very soon!!

olanie: Her mum was a school principal, so how come she told her daughter to go into prostitution?

Kafayat had a "reputation" then though ....