showgolee:
u deserve to b stoned to death

another caveman or aluu 4 mentality

Let he who without sin cast the first stone Kaffy please appologize to ur Mum before this statement of your go out hand

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Otunbakay: I laugh in hindu... You people never see nor hear anything. Ok 4 those of you that want to crucify her mum, what is the difference between the so-called dancing profession and prostitution? Whether u agree or not they compliment one another and belong 2 the same industry.

Are you Mental?!

Mummy, I love you no matter what! I wouldn't trade you for cheap publicity

dis girlie has jst put her mom in a very bad position. dat part wasn't all dat necessary to pazz her info

It might be true dat ha moda advised her to go into 'prostitution' as an option for survival, which is vry bad of a moda, but that doesnt not warrant her to giv her moda a national disgrace. Her dancing professional alone is never deemed ok in many homes with morals. For her to hav taken up dancin as a professional dat shws dat she do not had a decent upbringin (i might be wrong anyway).

The point here is this, only a vry few pple knw her moda, but she is a celebrity well knwn all over the country, and so she is indirectly bringin shame upon herself. I am sure no any nairalander knws her mother but kaffy.

I am vry much many mature pple would hav corrected her if actually she made the comment. No matter hw bad ur moda is, she is still ur moda. All she need do is to forgive her moda and advise the youth against prostitution in anyway and avoid draggin her moda into this issue.

This is a learning point to all wayward mothers to make a u-turn frm giving bad advise, especially to their young daughters.

Sweetlemon:
What is this one saying here? Do you even understand the topic of discussion here? We are discussing bad mothers and the need for such women to be exposed so that we can curb child abuse and not true mothers.
A true mother will rather cut off her hands or legs and sell for her daughter to survive than to tell her daughter to go into prostitution.

I don't understand, you may help by opening a new thread to explain every word.

Going by your post, I guess bad mothers should be stoned to death right? Let s(he) who is right in all be the first to call the stone.....smh

Say NO to jungle justice.

Pshwwwwww

trolling: Directly and indirectly, poverty stricken mothers tell their daughters to prostitute, it happens everywhere

That is a FACT that seems to elude some of the holier-than-thou posters here. It is a fact that is beyond argument, especially in a country like Nigeria. Although that is not a right thing for any responsible mother to do, it is clear that they do so out of desperation, not necessarily to 'abuse' their daughters. Morality is always a subjective thing, based on one's unique orientations and experiences in life.

It is easy for people to cast judgments from their comfort zones.

she did'nt sell her mom she speaks the truth.

If kaffy noh get beta way to take advice we youthz 2 kip Deir headz high........make una help me tel am make she park well

THE TRUTH SHE REVEALED ABOUT HER MUM WAS NOT BAD. It will be embarassing, senseless and foolish to reveal that fact after she followed the advice of her Mum. Although she should have waited after the demise of her mum to say something like that

utumunta: In a con3 where truth is covered so as not to ruffle some feathers, how can we develop?
Do u know what it means for a mother to set her daughter on the path of prostitution? To me such a mother shld be named & shamed. She deserves no respect and shld cower among animals.
My advice to the beautiful Kaffy is to ensure that ,that her mother does not come anywhere near her kids.

Am sure you don't understand what a mother means..... what happened mother and daughter confidential, Even if her mother had said it those it give her d right to wash her mother like that in public? Or maybe u r also not in good terms with Ur mum, I advice u pls reconcile with her if not for anything she made u who u are.

[quote author=even if she wanted to say something ,she shouldnt have disgraced her mum ,or was she just trying to prove?

karllmarxx: I just dont get it , most 9ja celeb always coming out with different sad stories ..
1)..I used to sell plantain ...
2)..I used to sell Nworkbi and peppersoup
3)..Another Artist was telling us on his record how he had one shoe and jean and he is a student of Leeds Uni

We dont know why Kaffi after several years would come out to say disturbing words about her mom ..not defending her mom but thats just so uncool ..

In a functionalist perspective we will soon find out the motives behind this ..very soon!!

They sing these to inspire and encourage peeps going through difficult situations.

Not fair to the mom at all.

Joyce Mayer told d story of how her dad slept wit ha frm ha teen age till she became of age n left home,she told her mum wen he started bt d mum confronted him n he denied,she left it at dat.the mum then caught him on top of her later n walked passed like they were invisible n did notin about it,frm then on d dad made it a routine n could even askd to like stop cleanin or studying n wait for him in d rum,just like the r married,she describe her mum as a weak woman dat could nt stand up for ha child.mind u both parents are alive n in accord wit her aftr dat,d dad askd for forgiveness n she did,she is now ministering for Christ.kaffy's story need to b told cos u all dnt knw how many gurls wil learn frm dat even for it makin front page on nairaland.

HotNaijaBabe: U can't spit on the mother until u hear her own side of the story..I know u don't believe all the news u read anyway, cos for all I care, Kaffy may come out to deny she ever said @Topic in the first place..Besides, where I come from- U do not judge a matter until u hear the two sides...So,easy on the judgement...
#Thats why its difficult for me to blame the mother (I wasn't there when she asked her daughter to prostitut'e and no investigation has been carried out)
#Typical of Nigerian Tabloids..

so you are saying kaffy will make up such stories,please tell me what she stands to gain by publicly lying against her mom.if her mom did not expressly,overtly or subtly say it,kaffy wi not have said it.meanwhile she is using herself as an example to teenage girls with the aim of learning from her experience and not to bring her mom down,however this is also a lesson to mothers.its like encouragig your son to go into armed robbery or traffic drugs because things are financially difficult.even yorubas say no matter how bad a child is,you cant expose a child to hungry lions

I agree with you its bad that she disclose that about her mum ...but 45% of girls that goes in to prostitution were advise directly or indirectly by there mum,aunties or elder sister so we need someone to pass that message out there they need to be stoped

vingi: Joyce Mayer told d story of how her dad slept wit ha frm ha teen age till she became of age n left home,she told her mum wen he started bt d mum confronted him n he denied,she left it at dat.the mum then caught him on top of her later n walked passed like they were invisible n did notin about it,frm then on d dad made it a routine n could even askd to like stop cleanin or studying n wait for him in d rum,just like the r married,she describe her mum as a weak woman dat could nt stand up for ha child.mind u both parents are alive n in accord wit her aftr dat,d dad askd for forgiveness n she did,she is now ministering for Christ.kaffy's story need to b told cos u all dnt knw how many gurls wil learn frm dat even for it makin front page on nairaland.

exactly.her father constantly abused her because the mother wasnt bold enough to protect her daughter and indirectly millions of girls around the world.there is something one of my lecturers used to say when i was in school back then.he said our actions and inactions affect not only us but others that are not even related to us.inaction itself is a decision to do nothing to an ugly situation.infact something similar happened in agboju,where a market woman came home and found her husband on top of her daughter.she screamed,raised alarm and called all the neighbours to see abomination.of course people mobbed the man immediately and were forcing him to walk around naked,singing and hurling insults at him.the irritating part of it was that the girl was a 14 year old.she had to be taken to a rehabilitation centre.thank God she didnt get pregnant.the bottomline is that her own actions protected the girl and other girls like her because other paedophiles will call themselves to order because of what they witnessed that happened to the man.he was almost lynched sef before police came and carried him away.that is her we need to rise up for kids and reduce paedophiles not covering them up and of which the woman is an illiterate,so it beats my imagination when educated women harbour depravities in their homes

Keffe if I'm correct with her name that sang Branama said same about her mum too, Kaffy's mum advised her into prostitution. Unfortunately my Mum frustrated me into becoming one too in fact she fought me severely cos I refused to have S.ex and go out with my EX Boss.I thought I was d only one who had that kinda mother. Thank God I did not live d kinda life she wants me to live and she Detest me sooo much for that

HotNaijaBabe: Lol..I am right beside u and I can feel the spittle flying around out of annoyance...Don't take issues like this too serious..what if Kaffy comes out tomorrow to deny she ever said such...Trust me, I thoroughly abhor Mothers (fathers or anyone) who abuse their children (or others)..when proven oh! Not these kinda hearsay, from Naija Tabloids, I nor deh!

ehen.are you sure?nigeria is so debased now that some people even see incest as a cool thing.i have seen to my utter amazement on nta news when they were discussing about the increasing rate of fathers sleeping with daughters and a lady of about 23 years said there is nothing bad about havin sex with my father,shebi he is my father.infact the food i was eating then hanged in my mouth.for the next 2minutes,i found it difficult swallowing it because of the shock.she even said at the moment,she is sleeping with her cousin,out of disgust,my momsi said we should change the station,so i am not suprised when i see folks here attacking kaffy and saying all sorts of crap

hayoakins: After listening to the interview, I knew it was gonna go viral

Kaffy, you are celebrated already but you don't have to long for more at the expense of ur mama even if she's a witch.

Am highly disappointed in you....some people got worse mommas yet they didn't sell them cheap like you just did .

She carried you for 9 cool months, that alone is invaluable and can't be traded

Am trying hard to fight back my tears.

I love u mama no matter what, you could have flush me off if you wanted

your action is a matter of your decision, forget about someone advising you. You either accept or reject, you arent under any obligation to accept...

and dont come online to say SHI.T about the character called "MOTHER"


why make your mother cry? am sure she must have pleaded for forgiveness severally.

Have always been one of your fans until this moment...one thing that has never been proven wrong is the law of Karma, you got kids too...all in the name of hyping yourself, you killed your momma...you just made her a living corpse...the next thing that would be trending is the search for your momma's picture.

Kaffy this person is so right, yeah, gals out there should learn from you, they should understand your story, yeah they should know who almost brought you down, but there are ways to say it, they will still understand. Now I am a mother I know and understand where my mum was coming from, Every MOTHER deserves forgiveness, why make her cry!!!! Why

It looks like a lot of the replies are coming from people whose parents pushed into the same or even worse things or why are they all so comfortable with such abysmal parenting standard and blaming the victim for calling her mum and all other parents engaged in the same evil out? I have been involved with at least three women who were victims of the same thing and I know how the lives of those ladies were derailed even with the greatest goodwill from the men in their lives. Such parents from hell should not only be called out but should be publicly paraded and jailed among the opposite sex so they can get a taste of what they pushed their kids into. If such parents felt things were so bad they had a choice of sacrificing themselves by going into prostitution or other crime themselves instead of pushing kids they brought into this dark world.

biodunid: It looks like a lot of the replies are coming from people whose parents pushed into the same or even worse things or why are they all so comfortable with such abysmal parenting standard and blaming the victim for calling her mum and all other parents engaged in the same evil out? I have been involved with at least three women who were victims of the same thing and I know how the lives of those ladies were derailed even with the greatest goodwill from the men in their lives. Such parents from hell should not only be called out but should be publicly paraded and jailed among the opposite sex so they can get a taste of what they pushed their kids into. If such parents felt things were so bad they had a choice of sacrificing themselves by going into prostitution or other crime themselves instead of pushing kids they brought into this dark world.

gbam

what did i miss? isnt she one? what do you call swaying to the beat half naked on tv?

soulfood: what did i miss? isnt she one? what do you call swaying to the beat half naked on tv?

ehen,did you see her breast or her vagina,those are costumes and she is an entertainer,please stop behaving local joor,jeez!

soulfood: what did i miss? isnt she one? what do you call swaying to the beat half naked on tv?

Ladies like that are likely to feel any other boundaries they cross are still better than the ones their 'loving' parents tried to push them over so they can transgress and still feel like saints. The sins of the parents....

Kaffy is not a saint! You didnt get to where you are today by being a saint (I know).

A lot of posters dont know her at all.

The mum and dad are divorced when she was young and I am certain the dad is not poor.

She spent her teenage years with her unlce in surulere.

Kaffy is not from a poor family.

One thing I know about her is she always wanted to be known and popular, fortunately she can dance and was daring enough when the industry was transforming.

Kaffy, you have made a success story of yourself, a lot of people know the truth. You did not grow up with your mum and she showed little interest in you. But, you were raised in a house very few Nigerians can dream off. Granting speeches to embelish the truth wont change much now.

Unless, you were quoted wrongly, YOU NEED TO APOLOGIZE TO YOUR MOTHER.

I wonder what many of you here castigating Kaffy would have said if the headlines had read "KAFFY'S STEPMUM ADVICED HER TO GO INTO PROSTITUTION". You would have probably cursed the wicked step mother out right? But now that it's her mom, it's okay and can be explained away, abi?

Let's see if you'll be so magnanimous when your wife sends your daughter down that path.

Blood should be blood??really?Nigerians and sentiments.