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Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 5:04pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
Daniel Ademinokan Dumped Ex-Wife, Doris Simeon For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life – Insider 29.04.2013, 10:41 Arts and Entertainment According to an anonymous insider who claims he has lived with Daniel and Doris Ademinokan for years, the split between the couple was ignited by boring sex life. The man who simply identified himself as JMK said Doris didn't take her romance with Daniel seriously and her ignorance of what her ex-hubby wanted sexually ended the relationship. The email below was sent to Stella Dimorkus of Encomium magazine yesterday. Read the lengthy email below; Hello, I have stood by in the last couple of days to see this drama about Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan unfold. I have read countless blogs, reviews and comments from all over the world and I have come to the conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking about. I lived with daniel and doris for over 4 years so i know the facts! Not hear say or assumptions. I will even mention names that can be verified.Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel just pulled with the party and the gift. Let us focus on the root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we will know how to direct our anger and "insults". I lived with Daniel & Doris because my sister was close friends with aunty Doris and at that time I needed accommodation in Lagos because my parents were based in the south south part of Nigeria. I lived with them when they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland, Lagos and even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele Crescent residence in Magodo GRA, Lagos. Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband to Doris and he made her feel special in every way. He always spoke to her nicely and was quick to defend her in many ways. He supported her career and was determined to make Doris rise to the top above her colleagues. He used to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the top. He would always say, "Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no fine pass you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position you at the top". He did everything in his power to put her her there. Daniel cannot come and boast to people, especially me that he single handedly financed all of Doris' films. he can't. He was responsible for getting the finances but it was not HIS money entirely that did films like Onitemi and Omo iya kan. The marketer named epsalum financed these films. I know that Daniel may have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but it was almost insignificant. The only film he did with his money for her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever claims he did those films for her….quote me or ask epsalum Doris was a good wife in her own right. She supported her husband's passion to change the industry. She encouraged him into making Yoruba films which he really didn't want to get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her colleagues, she was the one that had a steady home with a young and successful guy…ambitious man too. She was the minister of finance. That's what Daniel used to call her in the house because he always gave her all the money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it all over to her because she was efficient in money management, unlike him who was a free giver and really had no respect or regard for money! Whether he had enough or not, he never did care so much about cash. never! For the 4 years that I lived with them, not for one day did I ever hear them raise their voices at each other in arguments or quarrels. You would see them come out of their bedroom sometimes with weird expressions and we would all know they just fought but you would never hear Daniel raise his voice. never! One thing that the world never know was how much both families never wanted them to get married. Doris' parents didn't like Daniel and Daniel's mother (in particular) never liked Doris. She was against the relationship from the beginning. She is known to be a heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his mother. Now, the horrible thing about Daniel is his stubbornness and hard headed nature. He never listens to people and if he believes in something, it would take a manifestation of the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his mind. He is an extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which was one thing I hated about him. Yes he is nice, loving to his family and friends but do not think for a minute that you can convince him easily to change his mind when he has already formed an opinion or decided on what he wants to do. He went on with the marriage. His family believed that Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a big lie. I have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I respect the woman but Doris did not trap Daniel with a baby. They were already living together for 3 years before David was born. So the woman should get her facts straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as Doris did. I think along the line Uncle Daniel started to realize that in many ways he and Aunty Doris were different. Much different than he had thought. I believe Doris started to relax on several things because she felt she had her husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very expressive about his love, she was the opposite. He would run around the house and want to play love games with her but she thought that was a waste of time and energy. I personally experienced that with them on several occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how people perceived the relationship on the outside and not how sweet it really was on the inside. She always wanted pictures of them out there. Daniel was more concerned about making his marrige very "Oyinbo-ish" because that's who he has always been. At some point I started to feel that Daniel started getting tired of her excuses about being expressive with her feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly dawned on him that they were from two different worlds. Their command of English was too far apart, their ideologies were different, approach to situations, educational background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe she just stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in the house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short clothes and sexy outfits from the US. I thought they were too daring but he didn't mind. The marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know that I heard them talking in hush tones a few times about how sex was a problem in the marriage. I know for a fact that Daniel used to joke about it around the house but you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was always clowning about how he had to fill forms like an embassy to have sex with his wife. I know at some point it was so bad that for almost 6 months they didn't do anything. One thing I can tell you for a fact is that in the course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris. This was a known fact and everyone knew how crazy he was about his wife but really….is lack of sex enough to ruin a marriage? Some people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend Alex Effiong who was there when Daniel and Doris hooked up originally. I know I overheard Daniel and Alex talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in Magodo. Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in when he was in America where his friends Bukky Ebun of Nollywood View and 'Lamide Davies. You can ask them because they are on Facebook. These two people will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at some point when she visited Nigeria. She came with Kaha the singer. That's how I found out. He was desperate to save his marriage that's why he took drastic steps to talk to people. I blame Doris in some ways because she just relaxed, trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage was going to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep working to make it good. What annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his wife had a shop that he didn't even know about. He found out from outsiders and when he confronted her, she said she was trying to surprise him. That really pissed him off! He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the way he did it. He just left! While everyone was celebrating the happy lives these people shared, the marriage was already over!! They were just patching things up! They kept holding on because of "What people would say". Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could not fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and never imagined that Daniel would get frustrated and leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see it in his eyes everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it all work. Look for people like Aliu Shorinmade who was his personal assistant for 5 years. These were the people who knew Daniel very well and how he avoided women like a plague. Let them tell you facts. Let them tell you truths. Stella Damasus did not break up Doris Simeon's home. That home was scattered long before Stella came into the picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved so much at home in someone he considered a friend and sparks flew. When i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being taken care of by a woman, I laughed because the people saying this have no idea who Daniel is. He is so arrogant in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger than take a dime from any woman. he is that kind of man! He will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any woman. The dude is a workaholic….I give that to him. Films, Fashion, Documentaries, Writing, Photography, Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a master at them all. There is so much I know and if all these names I mentioned here deny anything…they are lying! I can open a big can of worms! Look for Aliu and ask him to tell you about the girl Blessing that Doris brought into their house that stayed for almost 3 years. Daniel sent her away from the house over 4 times and Doris kept bringing her back. Why? Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He never wanted the girl in the house, but she kept bringing her back. We know that at some point Daniel discovered that this girl was sexually abusing Daniel's son David! What did Doris do about it If all the parties involved think I am lying, let them confront me! Let them deny it! Daniel cannot deny it! Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They know the truth!! There is a girl called Sunmisola that used to visit the house some weekends then. She was close to Doris…find out and Ask her too! All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived everyone for a long time about how good the marriage was even when everything was bitter and sour! So those hating on Stella are really wasting their time because Stella damscus did nt ruin Doris's marriage Daniel and Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce in 2011. If any of them claim I'm lying, let them challenge me. END OF EMAIL With all of the above allegations, hopefully Doris Simeon will come open to defend herself. The above email speaks volume about Stella Damasus' involvement in the whole marriage problem saga. What would have happened if Daniel Ademinokan didn't meet Stella at that critical moment of his life… May be he would have worked things out with his wife. http://m.naij.com/news/32502.html http://m.naij.com/news/32502.html 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 5:10pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
So Stella Damasus is now a s.ex doctor to treat men who are s.exxually starved abi? If all Daniel wants is sexxual satisfaction, am sorry to say that his marriage with Stella will hit the rocks soon! Rubbish! |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 5:19pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
berem: So Stella Damasus is now a s.ex doctor to treat men who are s.exxually starved abi? If all Daniel wants is sexxual satisfaction, am sorry to say that his marriage with Stella will hit the rocks soon! Rubbish! Na wa. S.ex is not the only ingredient of a stable marriage. The man in question isn't really interested in having a 'complete' relationship. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 5:34pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
CFCfan:Don't mind the stewpid man. He and his ex wife and son use to host a reality show on Silverbird TV sometime ago but i don't think it's been aired now. They looked like a perfect family . Beautiful son, pretty wife and a handsome husband. I never imagined that the marriage was gonna end on a sad note. smh |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by slimyem: 5:39pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
Who is the eediot that leaked this story?If this is how to pay back people who housed and fed you for four years then one should really be wary of people they invite into their homes. Too much unnecessary information. I wonder who he or she has to gain from this.. That said,this whole story is just sad.Too sad.I hope Doris respects herself and never comes out to say anything! |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by texaco1: 5:40pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
berem: So Stella Damasus is now a s.ex doctor to treat men who are s.exxually starved abi? If all Daniel wants is sexxual satisfaction, am sorry to say that his marriage with Stella will hit the rocks soon! Rubbish!did u bother to read the whole story?if u did u will notice that sex was the least of all the factors listed that caused the breakup,i think this is thread and story is one that all women should read and learn from,never take ur man for granted,pls kindly read the story again an learn not just the heading or topic 2 Likes |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by slimyem: 5:45pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
texaco1:What makes you so sure the story's the truth? It sounds too much like something meant to exonerate Stella of the home-breaker tag/accusations. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by freecocoa(f): 6:00pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
slimyem: Who is the eediot that leaked this story?If this is how to pay back people who housed and fed you for four years then one should really be wary of people they invite into their homes.You beat me to it walai, I'm just wondering what manner of shediot and gossip the writer is. All what she wrote is even prolly a lie, mscheew. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 6:06pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
slimyem: Who is the eediot that leaked this story?If this is how to pay back people who housed and fed you for four years then one should really be wary of people they invite into their homes.Doris will definitely come out and say her own version of the story. Infact her own version of the story is already on the internet. You don't expect her to be quiet and watch Stella take her man. We have heard stories of how Actresses end up snatching husbands or their husbands impregnating actresses and their wives react. Some have lost the battle and some won. But Stella Damasus no try o! |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Idowuogbo(f): 6:10pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
And who d fevk is dis man-biatch? Poverty na bast@rd o! All dis fabricated Bullshyte to make quick change? Smh! Some mothers do have them. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by freecocoa(f): 6:11pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
Berem, What do you people even mean by "snatching someone's husband"? Just how do you "snatch" a grown man for feck's sakes? This said man left his wife and here y'all are blaming it on Stella. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Idowuogbo(f): 6:12pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
berem: Doris will definitely come out and say her own version of the story. Infact her own version of the story is already on the internet. You don't expect her to be quiet and watch Stella take her man. We have heard stories of how Actresses end up snatching husbands or their husbands impregnating actresses and their wives react. Some have lost the battle and some won. But Stella Damasus no try o!Watch Stella take which fevking man?!dem jazz d heddiot wey comot for house go look elsewhere? Babe, engage ur brain Biko! |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by freecocoa(f): 6:14pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:I no just understand these people o, man leave him wife go meet another babe, people come dey blame the babe instead of the man, na wa o. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by texaco1: 6:16pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
women will never learn ,instead of u to look out for points and learn from this story,u are still feeling arrogant,this is the same sort of attitude that cost doris her marriage .read the story and from the story u can see as the writer pointed out doris was or is a good woman but she did 3 things that destroyed her marriage 1 Like |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by slimyem: 6:17pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
berem: Doris will definitely come out and say her own version of the story. Infact her own version of the story is already on the internet. You don't expect her to be quiet and watch Stella take her man. We have heard stories of how Actresses end up snatching husbands or their husbands impregnating actresses and their wives react. Some have lost the battle and some won. But Stella Damasus no try o!@bolded... So if she speaks up, Stella automatically gives her husband back? |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Idowuogbo(f): 6:18pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
texaco1: women will never learn ,instead of u to look out for points and learn from this story,u are still feeling arrogant,this is the same sort of attitude that cost doris her marriage .read the story and from the story u can see as the writer pointed out doris was or is a good woman but she did 3 things that destroyed her marriageSon of a preacher man, u don preaching? |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Idowuogbo(f): 6:19pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
slimyem: @bolded...I wonder! |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by texaco1: 6:19pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
slimyem: @bolded...i wonder oooo,help me ask them.she has lost a wonderful man to another woman who knows how to take care of him .period |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by freecocoa(f): 6:20pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
texaco1: women will never learn ,instead of u to look out for points and learn from this story,u are still feeling arrogant,this is the same sort of attitude that cost doris her marriage .read the story and from the story u can see as the writer pointed out doris was or is a good woman but she did 3 things that destroyed her marriageWe are actually just supposed to believe everything we read on the internet abi? That's quite intelligent of you. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 6:22pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
freecocoa: Berem, What do you people even mean by "snatching someone's husband"? Just how do you "snatch" a grown man for feck's sakes?My dear, the thing dey pain me die! If you had watched their reality TV show before probably it would have hurt you the way it's hurting me. What a lovely couple and beautiful son. If another pesin marry the man e for no pain me but Stella? haba na. God no go let another woman snatch our husband. 1 Like |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Idowuogbo(f): 6:25pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
berem: My dear, the thing dey pain me die! If you had watched their reality TV show before probably it would have hurt you the way it's hurting me. What a lovely couple and beautiful son. If another pesin marry the man e for no pain me but Stella? haba na. God no go let another woman snatch our husband.So u dey beef Stella wey u no no on a personal level? Dats smart! |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by freecocoa(f): 6:33pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
berem: My dear, the thing dey pain me die! If you had watched their reality TV show before probably it would have hurt you the way it's hurting me. What a lovely couple and beautiful son. If another pesin marry the man e for no pain me but Stella? haba na. God no go let another woman snatch our husband.You still don't even get it, Stella did not snatch anybody's husband, the dude got tired and left. Stella shouldn't have married him maybe because he was still married to the other woman(I'm not really up to date on what really happened) but my own is that, no one should blame Stella for the man leaving Doris. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by kingingkinging: 6:43pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
texaco1: women will never learn ,instead of u to look out for points and learn from this story,u are still feeling arrogant,this is the same sort of attitude that cost doris her marriage .read the story and from the story u can see as the writer pointed out doris was or is a good woman but she did 3 things that destroyed her marriage Thank you sir. I wonder what they are all saying. It has been a while I read an unbiased report like this. Very balanced. I have picked some moral lessons from his story. Instead of them to learn they are busy supporting Doris. Nobody is saying Doris is bad but she did not do enough. 1 Like |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by texaco1: 6:43pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
freecocoa: You still don't even get it, Stella did not snatch anybody's husband, the dude got tired and left.according to reports they are not even married .i hope he does marry her anyway if she wil give him joy and happiness |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 7:48pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
Jmk or whatever you call yourself, you are very s.tupid. So Daniel didn't know she was boring when they were dating abi ? There is no excuse for adultery and we can all see you are taking sides from this ur writeup. Wetin concern fish with raincoat ? We are not going to ask all those pple you listed what happened. Cos u and all those pple don't have sen.se. I will ask Stella this : is Daniel the only man out there ? Infact,JMk or whatever you are called, a man will NEVER leave his wife if he doesn't see an option outside! So get that in your skull. So it is now Daniel knows Doris is boring ? Abi ? I laugh in Spanish. By Gods Grace, we will all see how they will both end if truly they are innocent like u claim! 2 Likes |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by texaco1: 8:01pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
Wunmi10: Jmk or whatever you call yourself, you are very s.tupid. So Daniel didn't know she was boring when they were dating abi ? There is no excuse for adultery and we can all see you are taking sides from this ur writeup. Wetin concern fish with raincoat ? We are not going to ask all those pple you listed what happened. Cos u and all those pple don't have sen.se. I will ask Stella this : is Daniel the only man out there ?i sincerely believe what u wrote here is just for nairaland and not the way you are or u see things because if this is the way u look at matters in a marriage , i pray God be with u in ur marriage |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
berem: Doris will definitely come out and say her own version of the story. Infact her own version of the story is already on the internet. You don't expect her to be quiet and watch Stella take her man. We have heard stories of how Actresses end up snatching husbands or their husbands impregnating actresses and their wives react. Some have lost the battle and some won. But Stella Damasus no try o! I weep for some men |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 8:04pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
I hope his mother is now happy with his choice. If she has another shop that's her business and they helped ur sorr.y ass and all you do is open ur big mout.h ! This is the very same reason some pple don't like having friends or family stay with them for too long. You go dey do aproko up and down. By all this story u wrote, am very sure you are not married. And God is watching you and Daniel and all you cheating slu.ts !!! This is a lesson to married Couples whose hubby or wife has a close female or male business associate ! I pray Doris Simeon gets a better man than Daniel who will love and cherish her like a queen. I will put her in my prayers. 1 Like |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 29, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:I dey beef her o! she no try at all! whether she snatched Daniel or not, na God go judge her. I don't support divorce and marrying a divorcee. With Stella's beauty, you can't tell me she can't have a brand new husband or a widower to marry her. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nobody: 7:35am On Apr 30, 2013 |
texaco1: Thank you for the prayer. I was addressing jmk and I don't know how I made it your business on how I see marriage issues. Make your comments concerning the issue and not me. |
Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nuzo1(m): 10:36am On Apr 30, 2013 |
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Re: Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex Wife For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life by Nuzo1(m): 10:43am On Apr 30, 2013 |
Looks like a story carefully put together by Daniel and his relatives to save face. And to achieve this, the writer was made to sound nuetral. However, there are some incriminating points against Doris. The question now comes down to: why did Doris soft pedal on her love expressions after marriage? Did she really notice the extra-matrimonial affairs? |
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