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Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by yoddy01: 1:43pm On May 10, 2013 |
Mboi:Please go and sit down jare.If a woman is in for doom, what is a man in for? Elevation ? Go and watch the Jodi Arias trial. That is what happens to men who want to eat their cake and have it. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by WhyMe222(m): 1:56pm On May 10, 2013 |
Toks2008: I knew it. I wish it is possible to detach her from her elder sister. I don't know why I have this conviction that her elder sister is part of the negative influence affecting your wife. She must in her ignorance and little understanding and ignorance told your wife that the reason she is not getting pregnant is because of the incompatibility of you two. May I also add that you are a rare breed. It usually is very easy for women to jump ship because they work on emotional level and lack deep-rooted thinking. I wish you all the best. What a life? To think that these women at one time or the other professes undying love. Phew! |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by biolabee(m): 2:01pm On May 10, 2013 |
gbokukueba: @OP, May you obtain grace in your time of need Hmmph,,,na wa o 1 Like |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Toks2008(m): 2:01pm On May 10, 2013 |
baby_123: What is your idea of moving on? Leaving your home for months yet still having all your stuffs in tere? Knowing you are legally married yet no divorce process initiated. You see why i say she is confused. Why i decide to give her time is because she is worth waiting for irrespective of what is going on. She has been loyal, decent and very caring all these years i have known her, we have lived in great happiness despite all she is complaining of now. But you see, anyone can get carried away without any cogent reason, we are all human. And when we get carried away, we tend to attach a reason to it. I still respect her far more than any other lady i have known for her good virtues but this sudden change is too sudden to judge her so as i wrote before, irrespective of all that went down, i will wait just a little more. If she comes back, fine and if she doesn't all well and good. This is what i have been asking the OP to do, weigh the past and judge her based on that and not on the recent mistake she made. And this may sound stupid but i will advice the OP to mostly follow advice from married people on this thread. It is not just about writing grammar but really understanding the institution called marriage and only the married ones can truly understand whats all about. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by emiye(m): 2:06pm On May 10, 2013 |
WhyMe222:This is the more reason why i see your wife as callous and so self centered, why is she giving you conditions, she ought to have stayed neutral and keep mute about that, when you suggested you want to take such a step, "she cant afford to share you" is not a statement of love, it is a self centered position from her ...... . A truly remorseful wife could make a statement such as "right now, all i care about is keeping our marriage and making it work again and regaining your trust, i know you have the final decision". 3 Likes |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by gbokukueba(m): 2:09pm On May 10, 2013 |
biolabee: Thanks man... I had forgotten about totally until i saw this topic yesterday all of a sudden i just started suspecting her again... i know am paranoid as we are both far away from the character... |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by biolabee(m): 2:20pm On May 10, 2013 |
gbokukueba: It is well sir I respect you guys that have come forth with your experiences |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Zemhen1: 2:27pm On May 10, 2013 |
chymystique: My dear wah ever decision u make now think thoroughly abt et.. I wnt advise u to seperate or divorce her..buh Why dnt u seek d face of God in dis matter for Direction... #mythoughts Hmmmm...... Am really short of words.......why do the good guys fall for the bad girls...... I really feel your pain but I will advice you relax and take your time to think things through.......anger might push you to make rash decisions......and divorce......hmmmm .... This should be your last card for your daughter sake and your emotional well being ........try and patch and renew things with your wife .......it's all about communication, from my point of view she didn't just wake and started cheating on you .....there has to be something you overlooked or a need of her's you ignored or took for granted ...... If God can forgive man for everything we did, you can find it in your heart to forgive her ........ Think about the ups and downs ..... The good days you both shared. 1 Like |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Asiwaju9ja(m): 2:46pm On May 10, 2013 |
yoddy01:Leave Jordi Arias matter @mboi spoke d truth. Have u heard Betty Wright's original "Girls u can't do what d guy's do" The full sentence goes like this. Girls u can't do what d guys do and still be A LADY. Now think of all d bad things guys do. Its just d way it is love. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by moneyhungry(m): 2:53pm On May 10, 2013 |
shagaman: No comment....i cant imagine,its not easy ,somebody robberbastin your wife,just imagine its someone you know and the guy get Extra terestrial Jagumo....This is so crazy.....^^^ EXTRA-TERESTIAL-JAGUMO. wow! *clapping heavily* you sound like a very intelligent boy with a vast knowledge of complex vocabularies. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Toks2008(m): 3:01pm On May 10, 2013 |
money-hungry : forget story, a woman does not need any extra jagumo to enjoy intimacy. before i met my wife i have had vast experience with many ladies and i can tell you this fact. Many of them feel more pain than pleasure and GOD in his infinite wisdom has made it possible that even a man with 5inc can make a woman happy in bed. I dont want to go back into the bedmatics of how to please a woman but believe me, its not about the size as believed by some men or women, its all psychology. There are even more important things that turn a lady on than the guns in between men's legs. 1 Like |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Idowuogbo(f): 3:04pm On May 10, 2013 |
^eh sir, we are learners o! Preach! *grabs pen and paper* 1 Like |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by baby124: 3:07pm On May 10, 2013 |
Toks2008: You are clearly in your own world and make up things as you go. Learn this today, size matters and women love the PLEASURE of sex. Not PAIN. When they MOAN, they are not in PAIN. They are experiencing PLEASURE! Women love and want se*x just as much as men. A hole that can pass out a baby can take any size. . As long as there are no health issues, the sex is not terrible or pretense is not involved. Are you truly married 2 Likes |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Nobody: 3:08pm On May 10, 2013 |
Sighs.found out that majority don't really know what marriage is before they rushed in.its a pity.our pastors and iman r not doin their works very well either.problems every where. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by coogar: 3:15pm On May 10, 2013 |
baby_123: size does not matter, jare.....it's all in the head! the performance matters more. what's the point of a large girth if he cannot last a minute? 3 Likes |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Toks2008(m): 3:15pm On May 10, 2013 |
baby_123: Young man or woman, size does matter don't get me wrong please but a man of 5inch can satisfy a woman even better than a 12 inch man if he knows what to do and how to stimulate her erogenous zones.. You seem not to understand my standpoint as shown by the way you respond to my posts asking me if im married and explaining poo to me about a woman moaning. Sorry , i taught the moan was a laughter. A lady does not value extra jagumo over matters of the heart so try and be matured to get the angle am coming from. How many ladies see the size of a man's gun before flowing with him? 4 Likes |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by biolabee(m): 3:17pm On May 10, 2013 |
Toks2008: Learning Mode loading |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Nobody: 3:18pm On May 10, 2013 |
Toks2008:No, u can never be in pain while making lv unless there is an infection or ur gun's head very crooked (really bent)in which case u r hittin d wall of d v but its not that painful either. Size do matter to women o! It has destroyed a lot of marriage bro,take it from me |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by biolabee(m): 3:20pm On May 10, 2013 |
Toks2008: Welcome to baby123 don't worry her twin jidegirl will soon step in |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by baby124: 3:21pm On May 10, 2013 |
Toks2008: coogar: You know you are ignorant when you are arguing with a woman on intimacy matters. yellowpawpaw: Gbam my sister! Except the woman has an infection, she will experience pain or the thing is crooked. Our thing can take anything abeg. And size does matter. As long as it is below average. Average is 6inches by the way. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Toks2008(m): 3:21pm On May 10, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: Im surprised this is coming from a lady. You definitely can feel serious pain if you don't choose the right position with a real endowed man. For the records, size matters i know but it seems many men dont realise that even with a 12 inch, a woman may not get satisfaction as she does with a 5inch if the later understands where what to do. Plain English |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by biolabee(m): 3:22pm On May 10, 2013 |
He shall be referred to as a half minute man coogar: |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by baby124: 3:22pm On May 10, 2013 |
biolabee: You really need to get a life. You have issues. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by yoddy01: 3:22pm On May 10, 2013 |
baby_123:It is obvious some one missed biology class. The extra long and big things poke women in all the wrong places. If you took your biology class you would realize that the percentage of women who orgas#m from v#aginal sex only is very slim, because the female organ is dead inside, all the nerve endings are in the clitori#S. Most men do not even touch it, they think its by poking. It is only if your woman's G-spo t is prominent that she can enjoy just poking. Men enjoy s*ex more because of the way the male organ is made. If you had a lot of experience, you would know women fake moans most of the time. 3 Likes |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by coogar: 3:23pm On May 10, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: size did not destroy those marriages - the poor performance did. why do people carry this myth of size matters? which yeye size? the average length of a woman's vägina is 5 inches. anything beyond that is just a waste of sausage..... it's not about the size of the dog in the fight, it's about the size of the fight in the dog. baby_123: because men don't partake in this same sëxual matters? be deceiving yourself that size matters. the human eye cannot even tell the difference between 7 inches and 8 inches so it's all in your head that size matters..... performance is the koko...... 4 Likes |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by baby124: 3:24pm On May 10, 2013 |
yoddy01: You can never fake a good thing, so the sex must be terrible if they fake. You obviously dont know what you are talking about. Are you a woman? How can you use theory to define sex? i dont think you are a woman. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by yoddy01: 3:26pm On May 10, 2013 |
baby_123:LOL. Ask your close female friends. You do not need extra long stuff to pleasure your woman. It is all about experience |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by moneyhungry(m): 3:26pm On May 10, 2013 |
Danfo: OP,This is the part that everybody seems to be missing: she didnt just feel remorse, repent and CONFESS, he CAUGHT her! Even when he caught her, she was still trying to be economical with the details (which is a huge sign of deceitfulness)!. @op: i heard u mention beauty and brains as some of her qualities. i presume her beauty/brains made you overlook the most essential quality ANY woman/wife should possess: GOOD MORALS. I must say that i Cherish marriage, but i'd rather remain single than have an infidel as a wife. my opinion is a DIVORCE, cuz things will NEVER remain thesame. Don't fool your heart, you know its a fact. I hope that i find a woman like my mother, if i don't,.... i shall have two kids (praying for boys) outside wedlock i won't have any regrets... none whatsoever. you only live once, live it right. 1 Like |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Toks2008(m): 3:27pm On May 10, 2013 |
yoddy01: Please educate some people here and evn the ladies tat believe they get carried away with large guns definitely know nada about their physiology. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by yoddy01: 3:27pm On May 10, 2013 |
coogar:Pls tell them. Children of nowadays think they know it all. They get all their education from adult movies |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by baby124: 3:28pm On May 10, 2013 |
yoddy01: I should ask my female friends as a woman LOL, dude, the vagina is not the penis. You are mistaking organs. The vjayjay has feelings all the way to the G-s*pot. This is why size matters. Get it? All the walls are action packed. |
Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Nobody: 3:28pm On May 10, 2013 |
coogar:No psychology here.it matters a lot.can u answer this for me. Why do most men run around yuonger gals citing tighter v when d wife's own must hv expanded from givin birth? Why r drugs for p extension sellin in millions? Leave matter pls. I can't imagine marryin a man whose d is not compatible with my v.na misery abeg 1 Like |
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