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Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by jjoro79(m): 7:17am On May 11, 2013 |
she has7 may be the 8th could be HIV, you better think positively. someone somewhere was made for you,just take your time. |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Nobody: 8:06am On May 11, 2013 |
Am not here to say who's at fault, or contribute to any battle of the sexes, however it often intrigues me when people will sacrifice a union for the "Exes". yeah my Ex and I are friends, but i won't ever sacrifice such, because there's too much to lose. It didn't work out with the ex so why allow the Ex ruin your present relationship. anyway that being said. I'd like to remind pple that cheating is not tied to women but also to men also, however i can't help not notice, women still get easily attached to exes. anyway sha sorry OP. the ball is in your court. |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by mecussey(m): 8:27am On May 11, 2013 |
its22078: Of course you will find someone who wont cheat. Not everyone cheats despite what you think. Get out of the relationship and take some time out for yourself. Be prayerful the next time you enter into a relationship konji go finish my man now, I think he should let her know, that things are no longer the same by acting it. |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by mckenzie125: 9:11am On May 11, 2013 |
MRbrownJAY: @OP@ Mr Brown......I just love wat u wrote here.....which is just d truth. |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by mckenzie125: 9:12am On May 11, 2013 |
MRbrownJAY: @OP@ Mr Brown......I just love wat u wrote here.....which is just d truth. |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by dBard: 9:18am On May 11, 2013 |
HARDDON: U don't commit ur heart cos u don't wanna get hurt again, they cheat wit d excuse, like some ve stated here, that they ain't getting d attention... the Vicious Cycle continues. It's a terrible situation. Guys have become disillusioned, n d berems c nothing wrong wit that.. |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Nobody: 9:36am On May 11, 2013 |
slightlyMad: hmm. Thanks all for your contribution. Why is everyone ignoring the fact that he said every girl he has dated cheated on him? Op, there is no practical reason for any one to cheat (boy or girl), but if every girl u have dated ended up cheating on u, there might just be a problem somewhere. Girls cheat, yes, but I don't believe all girls do. I feel there is somewhere u are getting it wrong. Please, do a proper analyses of yourself. Cos the truth is, if u don't handle whatever drives these ladies to cheat, the next girl will still cheat on u. Your wife will cheat, but that time u will not find out. U might end up fathering another man's child. Do u spend quality time with these ladies? Do u connect with them emotionally? Do u listen to them and not feel they are being petty? Do u fill their emotional needs? Are u romantic in your own little way? U know, men always have that idea dat once they they can satisfy their lady's physical and financial needs, then they have nothing to complain about. But to ladies, its different, we want those little things u guys feel donot matter. Most girsl do not just up and cheat. It starts with them being "friends" with one guy. They feel they can always talk to the said guy. They feel the guy will listens to them without being judgemental. At first, its just a harmless friendship until they get to that stage where they can't stay without each other. It is most times, not love, its just that the other does and says those little things that the BF/fiance/husband doesn't do or say. This is not by anyway saying u should continue with this relationship. Just saying u should change your approach towards d next lady so u don't end up marrying a serial cheat. Donot leave any "gap" for someone to fill in. Be your lady's best friend. Let her be able to tell u anything under the sun. Listen to her and not feel she's being petty. That is why men feel ladies like bad guys. Cos d said good guys ignore these lil things. Goodluck bro! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by pavorikoko: 9:45am On May 11, 2013 |
however i can't help not notice, women still get easily attached to exes.[/quote] ...And who are these 'exes' are they not men, this invariably means such men to are very much attached to their exes LOBATAN! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by pavorikoko: 9:47am On May 11, 2013 |
pc guru: Am not here to say who's at fault, or contribute to any battle of the sexes, however it often intrigues me when people will sacrifice a union for the "Exes". yeah my Ex and I are friends, but i won't ever sacrifice such, because there's too much to lose. It didn't work out with the ex so why allow the Ex ruin your present relationship. anyway that being said. I'd like to remind pple that cheating is not tied to women but also to men also, however i can't help not notice, women still get easily attached to exes. anyway sha sorry OP. the ball is in your court. ...And who are these 'exes' are they not men, this invariably means such men to are very much attached to their exes LOBATAN! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Nobody: 10:05am On May 11, 2013 |
pavorikoko:Wow i love the way you comprehend things, i carefully constructed that sentence not to sound sexist, how you managed to deduce it was "men". |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by kimelass: 10:18am On May 11, 2013 |
OP Even the bible say's by there fruit u shall no dem, come did u tnk she can ever change? No pity in marrage. And d trut is she lvs d guy more dan u. So tnk Very fast about it. |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Nobody: 10:19am On May 11, 2013 |
alutacontinua: whether man or woman, my advice would be the same. the sad fact is that, in the name of love, more women accept such behavior than men, but it doesnt change the fact that such action is wrong on so many levels. dnawah: i beg u be elder 4 ur church? church?! i wouldnt be seen dead in such places, even if they gave a million bucks to whoever joined! the only place i am an elder is the "church" of common sense and open mindedness. wanna join?! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Nobody: 10:27am On May 11, 2013 |
Jokes aside...u might need to consider penis enlargement |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Bolsnow(m): 11:55am On May 11, 2013 |
Them gals are al d same........TRUST no 1 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Nobody: 12:18pm On May 11, 2013 |
Dyt: Opwell d fact is if she feels he's lacking in sumtin , then let her WALK outta d relationship other than cheating....no b prison she dey so there's freedom of movement....there's no justification 4 anyone 2 cheat |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Ezemmuo1: 12:39pm On May 11, 2013 |
slightlyMad: I always believe women cheat as much as men do but i dont want to imagine my woman doing this.continue with her and wait patiently for her to catch something and pass it on to you I.e HIV! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by femmytohsure(m): 12:56pm On May 11, 2013 |
A leopard neva changes spot! Y should yu stay wt som1 yu cnt trust? I m sure yu don't want to af a high bp wen yu eventually marry her. Don't b too desperate! Do yu think yu can change her? Nah! Change comes frm within! There re beta gals out dre who possess all dos features she has nd re faithful. D fact dt yu v bn wt a no of gals who cheat dosnt mean dey r all doin it, xcpt if ur not faithful too. Bottom line: a chance is enuf to proove dat d first ws a mistke. Be wyse! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by godunia(m): 1:05pm On May 11, 2013 |
bettymafy:Thank u so much for your contribution.u hit d nail straight.Op needs to re-examine his approach to relationship.if something happens to u 6 times repeatedly,it cld mean that the problem is with u and not the gals.have u ever asked yrself why they have cheated on u.accept the advice above.the next good gal wld become bad gal if u don't change yr approach to relationship.the problem is not out there,it's in there.goodluck |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by logica(m): 1:18pm On May 11, 2013 |
bettymafy:Right. If it was a woman who keeps getting cheated on, all those men are assholes right? |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Beync(f): 1:59pm On May 11, 2013 |
she is a smart cheat unrepentant one be prepare to be dealing with such issues when u get married to her |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Brilliance9000: 2:01pm On May 11, 2013 |
pavorikoko: I would be curious to know. Which one be "southy" my brother? |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by pavorikoko: 2:10pm On May 11, 2013 |
pc guru:Lol...my 6th sense works per Second and I read to understand this well before interpreting! I |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by pavorikoko: 2:11pm On May 11, 2013 |
Brilliance9000:South African Ladies |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by aforebby: 3:05pm On May 11, 2013 |
cunny man die cunny man bury am,if u are an ardent christian,what is she doing in your house when you ve nt marry her,,if you are froward eith God God wil be froward with you.bible says,keep the bed pure,,,na your cross,carry her... |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Chynx(m): 4:01pm On May 11, 2013 |
Dyt: Yen yen yen yen ...because their "so called babes/wives/gfs" have not yet been caught in the act! Don't be biased here! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by fagin1982(m): 4:36pm On May 11, 2013 |
Dearest OP ...You should count yourself lucky that her real identity has been revealed to you..My brother unless you want die early..Leave an Adulterous woman , It kills....go and ask ..Just forgive her and move on ...na some of the things person dey see..Stand you ground and try not to be weak in your decisions... |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by Decryptor(m): 5:24pm On May 11, 2013 |
@OP, you really need to get a reality check! About 98% of ladies cheat nowadays. That's why i choose to remain unmarried and have children with a baby-mama. I was stuepidly in love and trusted my ex not knowing she was bringing in another guy into my own house whenever i go to work, since then..i threw love into the trash can and now i phuckk different girls anytime i want all in the name of believing i am in love with them! And you know the interesting part? all the 18 gfs/phuckk mates i have curently do have fiances or BFs they are decieving. Do the same and spare yourself the agony of heartbreak! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by pavorikoko: 5:45pm On May 11, 2013 |
Decryptor: @OP, you really need to get a reality check! About 98% of ladies cheat nowadays. That's why i choose to remain unmarried and have children with a baby-mama. I was stuepidly in love and trusted my ex not knowing she was bringing in another guy into my own house whenever i go to work, since then..i threw love into the trash can and now i phuckk different girls anytime i want all in the name of believing i am in love with them! And you know the interesting part? all the 18 gfs/phuckk mates i have curently do have fiances or BFs they are decieving. Do the same and spare yourself the agony of heartbreak!Ummmmmmmm |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by BecaciaBarbie(f): 5:49pm On May 11, 2013 |
money-hungry :Get lost! |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by chukstel(m): 6:41pm On May 11, 2013 |
Dyt: If OP anit doing his job well, a serious girl as fiancee not ready to cheat should be able to tell het Husband to be that the job os not well done. Talking out of experience |
Re: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by NaijaDoWell: 6:51pm On May 11, 2013 |
OP this is an interesting thread! I have learnt so much from the contributions. But I have a question.... .. ... .... ..... ...... What if you meet a 'good' girl who has not been so emotionally exposed, then after dating for a while you agree to marry. You later discover that after her meeting you she is something else. That is she even tells her prospects she wants to sleep with them before she gets married. What would you guys do? Note: You people have agreed to marry but she wants to have 'quickies' before she settles down in marriage. |
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