We were coleagues in the office,I liked her and when she showed me green light,I went for it and expectedly she accepted me but with the condition that I should know that she had someone before me,after a brief hesitation I gave in and that marked the beginning of a relationship that today I regret

i fink u shud throw more light on ur story,
tell us wat exactly happened,

Firstly, i don't subscribe to guys who like dipping their pen in the company ink. hahahaha women plenty everywhere, to now make matters more complicated, she wants to make u an assitant boyfriend, wel sha some pipple wuld tak anytin in d name of beauty or love

In my opinion, I don't think it is a good idea of dating a co-worker at the same department in your work. Check out few existing threads here at below:

Is Dating A Co-worker Good or Bad?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-101839.0.html

Office Dating For or Against?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99597.0.html

Office Romance: Would you date your colleague?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-206.0.html

Office, Club, Church, Internet, School for Dating?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3988.0.html

How Healthy Is Office Romance?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19867.0.html

Realy never had plans to stick to her for I never want to play a second fiddle when in the actual sense I can be d main guy.But I noticed I got more of her attention than even the other guy but she is not realy commited cuz she will not just decide on who she wants to stay with.

U know what to do.

Why would you in the first place get involve with someone who has a boyfriend?
Expecting her to leave her boyfriend for you?
Ever heard of “KARMA”.
Leave her before its too late and find urself someone else who ain’t got no strings.

@poster
D regret was ur choice, so

u wud have just made it clear wen u guys met, simple chop nothing else.
afterall she get guy

That is the koko now, I realy just don,t want to get hooked up for too long,but after a couple of bangings,she seems to get addicted to it that she keeps coming back,guess it is more of a sweetest taboo.

Now the other guy got to know something is fishing and gosh the whole thing is getting heat up and I just do not like it.

Your story does not sound convincing. Well if its true anyway you are the MAN you should know what to do. Simply stop seeing her. That will make her decide if she really wants to be with you or the other. Good luck!

You went into a relationship and now you regret it? So what is stopping you from leaving?

Yes, I would have gone into it if I felt like it and would gladly leave if it ceases to please me anymore. I really hate to waste my time on ANYTHING that does not give me happiness.

Are you under some kind of oath or blood covenant?

uspry1:

In my opinion, I don't think it is a good idea of dating a co-worker at the same department in your work. Check out few existing threads here at below:

Is Dating A Co-worker Good or Bad?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-101839.0.html

Office Dating For or Against?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99597.0.html

Office Romance: Would you date your colleague?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-206.0.html

Office, Club, Church, Internet, School for Dating?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3988.0.html

How Healthy Is Office Romance?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19867.0.html

Thank you Uspry1. . . please always remember you are dealing with Nigerians. . .who have eyes but cannot read, ears but cannot hear and so on and so forth. Please accept them how God created them.