submissiveness is the major factor behind women not getting married.

it's a different world and i don't know what tomorrow will be with the alarming rate of unmarried women and baby mommas.

women would never admit that they have their faults and are major contributor to failed marriages and relationships

Orikinla:


No real woman wants to remain single for life.

and no real man ll like 2 remain single,have a broken home or marry a troublesome wife!
these things go either way

@ opsydudu

opsydudu:

submissiveness is the major factor behind women not getting married.

it's a different world and i don't know what tomorrow will be with the alarming rate of unmarried women and baby mommas.

women would never admit that they have their faults and are major contributor to failed marriages and relationships

I so agree wiv u. So many a women are very hard-headed and are not ready to be submissive.

so what is the solution? what do ladies think about polygamy?

if a man is ok and he is capable of managing two or more wives , why cant he marry more as was done by our grand parent, i think this is one of the way out, half a bread is better than none!

Its becos of the economic situation. With all the massive number of youths without jobs. Do u tink marriage would be d best option. Nobody wants liablity.

almondjoy: Because marriage is no longer a "saving grace" for most illiterate, depressed and desparate women.  More women are more financially stable than most men. . . so why the wahala of hooking up with a liability?

I wouldn't.  I go just siddon for ma house deey born je je! No need for all that rubbish.  It is better to be unmarried and happy than to be married and unhappy.

In most cases, the kinds of men available from the rat pack. . . are not very encouraging.  So why bother?  It is God's own way of solving the shortage crisis.  Glad about that.  Women are learning to live their lives without the headache of trifling men in them. I will rather remain single than be divorced like 12 times or find myself in a polygamous set up.

Being unmarried as a female is not a crime! I am sure no single lady will see a nice man suitable for marriage and pass him by. If the ladies are single. . . there is a reason and that reason should be respected no matter how unacceptable. It is their lives!

We have many men roaming around too. . . with no hope in sight!

gbam.you have said it all

forbidden5: Almond Joy,
So sorry this one caught up with you. Your defences show that you are in this category.
Please, where are your facts to show that more women are financially stable than most men? I have more hungry girls asking me for money now and then.

If your option is to go siddon de born, please note that I am available for that at no cost to you.

Rat pack you said? Please what shortage crisis do you refer here? I see you are good looking, if you are well behaved, why worry about divorce?

AlmondJoy,

Please I dont mean to be picky here but I thought to pick out a few tips that is common to women-mostly working class.

From my experience, women do not love anymore.
They only want you to be their means to an end. All the good women I know have men already fighting to marry them.

If women learn to love and respect their man, they will attract more men that they expect.

All the same, thanks for your reply.

all that one you are saying is tales by moon light.there are a hundred and one women that are out there who love and respect their spouses and dont get it in return.by the way i fall among the school of thought that dont believe in the over hyped institution because after all been said and done,after wighing the pros and cons,the cons are more than the pros and money can even buy the benefits of marriage without entering the insttution,so what are we talking about.money can buy female impregnators,social security,emotional security etc.so whats the buhaha of marriage about.abegiii spare me

Bible already predicted it...it will eventually become worse sef

I don't believe in women being independent and satisfied because all of them{unmarried and successful women} envy those that are married.they all wish they had a man to call their husband.

the population of men is rapidly reducing and time will come when women will start begging men openly to marry them..it's all written!

Ema prince: Bible already predicted it...it will eventually become worse sef

I don't believe in women being independent and satisfied because all of them{unmarried and successful women} envy those that are married.they all wish they had a man to call their husband.

the population of men is rapidly reducing and time will come when women will start begging men openly to marry them..it's all written!

sterotype,highly influenced by african magic yoruba

How will they be married when they have refused to pay tithes at church.

IS IT A CURSE TO BE SINGLE??

A lady said she dosnt need any man as husband, cos she has money, dat wat she only want is a man hu' ll imperenate her, after her child bearing she'l divorce him n train her husband train her children. ..