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If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by DAMIGHT(m): 8:15am On May 21, 2013 |
A 40-year-old man, Mr. Maxwell Madu, has told the Agege Grade 'A' Customary Court that if his wife, Grace Oguche, 24, divorces him, she may die. Madu said on Monday that his wife had taken an oath of kolanut and water with him in her village. He explained that the oath demanded total loyalty to him. He added that if the woman defaulted, she might lose her life. He told the court that Oguche took the oath in the presence of her family members in the village. He said, "I did not know that my wife was having an extra-marital affair, and she was already pregnant for her boyfriend although, she had a miscarriage. "She cheated even though she had taken an oath that she would never leave me. She took the oath in the presence of her people because she had run away from me in the past. "She had gone to the village to find a way to break the oath, but they told her it could not be broken except I was present. "She is playing with her life." Oguche had earlier pleaded with the court to dissolve her union with her husband, because he could no longer perform in bed. She added that Madu had failed in his responsibilities as a man in terms of providing for the home and their six- year-old son since he lost his job two years back. Oguche, on Monday, insisted on ending the marriage since she was no longer interested in her husband who could no longer meet her sexual needs. She claimed that Madu could not impregnate a woman because they had tried a couple of times, but to no avail. Oguche also requested custody of her male child. She said, "Ever since my husband lost his job, I take care of the responsibilities in the home alone, and he does not appreciate my efforts. "He also does not perform well in bed. I cannot continue in this marriage and I do not want to leave my son with him." Madu, however, said his wife was never satisfied whenever they had sex, adding that he had begun taking medication to make him more effective. He also stressed that he did not want their son, Bright, to be in his mother's custody for fear of being neglected. He said, "My son is the reason I did not send her packing when her boyfriend impregnated her. I do not want her to take the child because she would not take care of him. "Even she warned me never to leave my child with her." |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by Jaideyone(m): 8:50am On May 21, 2013 |
Love by force she cheated and got pregnant for someone else. Yet she didn't die. The oath is fake |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by slimyem: 8:59am On May 21, 2013 |
Instead of him to confess he doesn't want her to leave,he's selling nonsense. Oath kor,sacrifice ni.. |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by Valto(m): 9:18am On May 21, 2013 |
that oath is defective... too many water have passed under the bridge! how is the man even sure the son is his, let them perform a DNA test first. then anullment! |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by sandylee123(f): 10:35am On May 21, 2013 |
Love, loyalty and resposibility are important in keeping a marriage. If you don't love each other, why not end the relationship. |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by degurl(f): 12:48pm On May 21, 2013 |
Valto: that oath is defective... too many water have passed under the bridge! how is the man even sure the son is his, let them perform a DNA test first. then anullment! DNA? What for? The man already knows the child is not his. |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by degurl(f): 12:50pm On May 21, 2013 |
Valto: that oath is defective... too many water have passed under the bridge! how is the man even sure the son is his, let them perform a DNA test first. then anullment! DNA? What for? The man already knows the child is not his. |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by baby124: 2:22pm On May 21, 2013 |
Anyone that forces you to swear an oath, has something to hide. Emotional instability, mental illness, or just a very diabolical individual who most likely is possesive and should the need arise where you leave such a marriage/relationship, you may not leave unscathed. Not necessarily by juju, but by the other party harming you. Everyone will die one day, so taking her chances, the odds may not be so against her. 2 Likes |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by MMotimo: 11:14pm On May 21, 2013 |
@ Post Ordinary kolanut and water? That's it? The movies always show blood as a requirement |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by slimyem: 11:35pm On May 21, 2013 |
MMotimo: @ Postplus some incantations probably.. |
Re: If My Wife Leave Me,she May Die by Valto(m): 8:40am On May 22, 2013 |
degurl:if he knows, he wouldnt be dragging custody of the child with her. |
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