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Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Roliks09: 6:30am On May 22, 2013 |
val_dee: So we have to give ourselves guarantees like lawyers?Yelz. Marriage is a contract. If you cant stick to an MoU, dont bother. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Kosigift(f): 6:44am On May 22, 2013 |
Brilliance9000: [b]You would only have to discuss all these, particularly number 2( MONEY) if you are looking to marry a Nigerian woman(most in my judgment love money more than their husbands, children and themselves...very sickening)....very arrogant, selfish, coterie of people. Do yourself a huge favor and marry yourself a white or other women besides Nigerian women. Most of these women besides Nigerian, already know all these and know how to treat their men. Don't start up debate with me, because I have been there; married a sister(Nigerian); was unhappy for years as with most of my friends(educated...doctors, engineers, lawyers) until we all set to try something different...non Nigerian women. WE ALL FOUND HAPPINESS AND HAVE WONDERFUL FAMILY. The common denominator is that these women have a different upbringing and approach to life.Money is never an issue with them...NEVER, even if you have it in abundance. It means virtually nothing to them.Dis post reeks of ARROGANCE in capitals. I cud sense d venom from here and I can assure u, ur wife will be better off without u. U sound abusive ( no pun intended) I think, bulk of d work lies on U! Oga, work on urself and stop expecting people to dash u happiness wen u don't sound happy on d inside. 6 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by dartsidius7(m): 6:57am On May 22, 2013 |
SELFWORTH: All these unrealistic expectations about marriage will only lead to the divorce court. A million questions like these cannot prepare you for it. Nice. Well said. on another note, Its funny how guys tend to complain about naija girls, but i have this funny feeling that most of those guys wont even date themselves if they were women. 5 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Raiyo: 7:00am On May 22, 2013 |
Whew You can't look at two posts here before one about marriage hits you in the face *panting* I once told my Mom i wouldn't marry until am forty... To cut a long story short, the slap was epic! 3 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:01am On May 22, 2013 |
Marry a naija girl at your own risks |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:07am On May 22, 2013 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: Marry a naija girl at your own risksfallacy! We have numerous good girls, just that the bad ones seem to be more visible and giving people the wrong impression about our women, we still rock, nothing can be compared to a well bred Nigerian lady! If you doubt me, ask Song 2 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:10am On May 22, 2013 |
DailyNews: fallacy! We have numerous good girls, just that the bad ones seem to be more visible and giving people the wrong impression about our women, we still rock, nothing can be compared to a well bred Nigerian lady! If you doubt me, ask Songwhich song is married with a naija babe* beside i was only joking oo we all have good and bad Apples... H |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:13am On May 22, 2013 |
dartsidius7:honestly, Nigerian guys love their women so much and that I think, is one of the reason they keep preaching for them to change and possibly turn to Monalisa On a more serious note, marrying a well trained and disciplined Nigerian lady is the best thing that can happen to any man! Our women rock, the guys are crying because of the over influence of some destructive western civilisation and cultures, without most of them, all Nigerian women would have been angels! And we still have uncountable angels though they are not easily seen 3 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by SELFWORTH: 7:14am On May 22, 2013 |
50calibre: There are over 55million people in Nigeria alone and anyone who says they are all the same man or woman because of their experiences with just one is not only a fool but needs mental examination. All those who agreed are just as bad if not worse including yourself. I take it you are one of the 18million undiagnosed mentality ill people passing through NL....Otherwise why the unnecessary abuse? 5 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:17am On May 22, 2013 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: which song is married with a naija babe* beside i was only joking oo we all have good and bad Apples...I was also kidding Cameroonp, but seriously, when Nigerian guys complain about their women being this n that, it shows they don't play with them; we all love and cherish our women more than any other...so don't misinterprete our complaints for hatred cos it isn't you know We love em all |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by SELFWORTH: 7:17am On May 22, 2013 |
Kosigift: Thank u. How can anyone call this one a man? His brain is in his pride. No wonder he was dumped. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:21am On May 22, 2013 |
SELFWORTH:hello Selfworth, calm down dear, Nigerian guys love all their women, so don't let their complaints here deceive u cos they love them o, lol. In fact, complaining is part of their own way of showing love to their lovely sisters online, or haven't you thought of that? So take it easy and have fun cos our women rock any day, any time and we all will still marry them by the day |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by UncleJJ(m): 7:27am On May 22, 2013 |
Ha ha, only broke men complain about name gerian girls. You buy iphone,iPad, expensive wristwatch and suit. European cars and live in a good neighborhood. You will definitely want an expensive beautiful Nigerian girl to compliment, the lifestyle. All these nigerian men that claim to marry white chicks. Can never I repeat , never marry a standard white girl, from a well to do home and a good college degree. Only few Nigerian guys have quality white wives and these men are high respected in their fields. Come here telling is white girls are mot materialistic. Do you think this is some dumb Hollywood movie. Marry, or ugly trailer trash white girls. While the real naija boys marry ... Exclusive babes from respectable homes. EFF love, marriage is contract! 6 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by toprealman: 7:59am On May 22, 2013 |
Re:#7 Secret So dressing as a clown to entertain the kids is now a 'horrible' thing to do. What a sad thing to say....pity your kids. Well, I know for sure that most of the so called marriage counsellors are nothing compared to the saint they make us believe they are. |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by pweetymama(f): 8:01am On May 22, 2013 |
SELFWORTH:my bro,dnt mind d imbe..le joor.he is only contradicting himself.Proudly Nigerian!Mr Brillance,if u got any issues wt ya Nigerian wife,dats ur biz nd stop generalizing cos u dnt live wt odas in their homes. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:09am On May 22, 2013 |
UncleJJ: Ha ha, only broke men complain about name gerian girls.harsh, funny, but bitter truth 2 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by beordune(m): 8:18am On May 22, 2013 |
All these questions will only scare him away; the only question should be: will i want to wake up in 50 yrs time and see this man by my side..just go with the flow and be sure you want to settle down with him.... |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by successking: 8:19am On May 22, 2013 |
Op, your write up has shown that man has really advanced in knowledge of Marital affairs, with low rate of successful marriages. Note this, there is no modernization in marriage, it is still the old way. Ask your mother, whether she discussed all these with Your father before they got married, yet has a successful marriage. Successful marriage has a prize and anyone who desires it must pay for it. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Brilliance9000: 8:36am On May 22, 2013 |
Kosigift: Gentlemen, please stay off women like this. They will take you to your grave faster than a rocket ship. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by kpozite(m): 8:41am On May 22, 2013 |
Sanboy25:Better scare him away than to live looking for a way out of the marriage in the future. 2 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Decryptor(m): 8:48am On May 22, 2013 |
Kosigift:Will you please shut ur mouth and be reasonable! Instead of tryin to exclude yourself from what he said, you are spewing gibberish. This below is proof of what he said babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Decryptor(m): 8:52am On May 22, 2013 |
UncleJJ: Ha ha, only broke men complain about name gerian girls.You should have taken tea this morning instead of Alomo. SMH! |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by nikkyshyne(f): 9:01am On May 22, 2013 |
Brilliance9000: [b]You would only have to discuss all these, particularly number 2( MONEY) if you are looking to marry a Nigerian woman(most in my judgment love money more than their husbands, children and themselves...very sickening)....very arrogant, selfish, coterie of people. Do yourself a huge favor and marry yourself a white or other women besides Nigerian women. Most of these women besides Nigerian, already know all these and know how to treat their men. Don't start up debate with me, because I have been there; married a sister(Nigerian); was unhappy for years as with most of my friends(educated...doctors, engineers, lawyers) until we all set to try something different...non Nigerian women. WE ALL FOUND HAPPINESS AND HAVE WONDERFUL FAMILY. The common denominator is that these women have a different upbringing and approach to life.Money is never an issue with them...NEVER, even if you have it in abundance. It means virtually nothing to them.What are you saying Mr.? That love of money is the only reason for failed marriage 1 Like |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Princesszoe: 9:11am On May 22, 2013 |
@op your write up is full of wisdom. Meanwhile one thing is missing, which is the major character a woman or man should look out for in a partner before saying i do. FEAR OF GOD. Before marriage can work , before marriage can be enjoyed and not endured, before marriage will be geniuely celebrated and shamefully managed, the two partners MUST have fear of God. When there is fear of God, cheating/adultery, selfishness, hatred, intolerant, will be a no-no in the marriage. There will be confident and trust. The bible says "in the fear of the lord is strong confidence". The bible also said that "the fear of God is a fountain of life". The bible equally told us that "he that walketh in his uprightness feareth the lord". Fear of God is the basic thing meanwhile the write up should not be neglected. There is wisdom in it. 3 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by AdeniyiA(m): 9:11am On May 22, 2013 |
SELFWORTH: All these unrealistic expectations about marriage will only lead to the divorce court. A million questions like these cannot prepare you for it.absolutely fantastic n realistic! u're lifted 1 Like |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:22am On May 22, 2013 |
Roliks09: Yelz. Marriage is a contract. If you cant stick to an MoU, dont bother. Nothing is written in stone. |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Kosigift(f): 9:28am On May 22, 2013 |
Brilliance9000: Oga dats not d issue, its obvious my assertions were right! Now run along and don't forget u treat people d way u want them to treat u. Decryptor: Will you please shut ur mouth and be reasonable! Instead of tryin to exclude yourself from what he said, you are spewing gibberish. This below is proof of what he said If at dis age, I'll have to teach u manners then I might as well teach my grand dad how to sleep with his wife... My reply to him wasn't abt excluding myslf u gerrit? Now, also run along and remember to always avoid d fallacy of hasty generalisation ok? 3 Likes |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by anytaij: 9:29am On May 22, 2013 |
HARDEYLEKE:I taya ooo abeg help me ask am ova sabi houswife some peeps with beefing and they know nothing. person post now e begin pain you rubbish. |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by MostSoughtAfte(f): 9:50am On May 22, 2013 |
Hmmmm dis is wonderful, i love no. 11 so much i'l make sure i dnt jump dat question wen its tym..... |
Re: Things To Discuss With Him Before Marriage by Marven: 10:13am On May 22, 2013 |
YOU MUST DISCUSS ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR WIFE TO BE OR YOUR WIFE! DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE. 1 Like |
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