Marven: YOU MUST DISCUSS ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR WIFE TO BE OR YOUR WIFE! DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE.

Subomi-luv:
Dnt mind him. The problem with some Naija men is that they think they are the be all and end all. Some Nigerian women are fed up with all the bs and dictatorship attutide and behavior some men display. This is why some nigerian women are branching out as there are other options such as other african blk men, white, asian etc who will appreciate us more. Let him go for his and we are also going for ours.

babyosisi: Some people actually took my list seriously

Can't believe it

UncleJJ: Ha ha, only broke men complain about name gerian girls.

You buy iphone,iPad, expensive wristwatch and suit. European cars and live in a good neighborhood. You will definitely want an expensive beautiful Nigerian girl to compliment, the lifestyle.

All these nigerian men that claim to marry white chicks. Can never I repeat , never marry a standard white girl, from a well to do home and a good college degree. Only few Nigerian guys have quality white wives and these men are high respected in their fields.

Come here telling is white girls are mot materialistic. Do you think this is some dumb Hollywood movie.

Marry, or ugly trailer trash white girls.

While the real naija boys marry ... Exclusive babes from respectable homes.

EFF love, marriage is contract!

This is actually the problem 'naija' women have. You hear your mothers,gfs,sisters talk about dictatorship and hence men are dictators. Actually the matter is deeper than you think and you look at it. Ask yourself this question....what thought dominates your mind?
For me I'm constantly(obsessively) thinking on ways to make it financially,get into positions of authority and same goes for a lot of guys my age....you hardly see this in girls of same age.
I ask myself why a lot of girls even the ones who swore they can never date a 'Yahoo boy' 2years ago are now comfortable in the passenger seats,go through the harshest of emotional traumas all for peanuts. Why don't they do the 'yahoo' themselves and save themselves the stress(emotionally and sexually).
The truth is God designed man and woman to coexist in love,dependent on each other but fact is God also designed man to be in charge. Women who understand this will find peace instead of constantly fighting with an imaginary 'Adolf hitler'. I won't make any comparisons but the fact is a lot of Nigerian women lack this understanding due to over exposure to American culture(which is dirty and without moral foundations). Do you want a husband who splits all the bills equally with you i.e from school fees to gas money(in the name of gender equality). Right from a young age girls are sheltered from a lot of things and the boys pushed forward(carrying heavy objects,receiving lesser pocket money). Fact is guys do or are made to do a lot of things to please the woman;right from courting and even going into marriage take up a lot of responsibilities without complain. In this light I think massaging our egos isn't too much to do on the woman's part. Women have a privileged role in a home and that's why even though I have a wonderful Dad I still get along more and adore my mum a whole lot which is the same almost everywhere,so I wonder if not for selfishness why you still try to rub shoulders with a man all in the name of not being dictated to-paranoia! There's nothing equal about the genders;anatomically,naturally and even morally.

PREMISE

What you have to understand is that gold diggers are usually from poor families, girls with good backgrounds and from average or rich families aren't gold diggers because they tend to have seen it all.

Brilliance9000:

Such comment that come no where to the vicinity of reason explains you have no ignominy. I know my friends and got 6 likes already for this comment. Can someone please point to this neiscent being where I wrote " ALL Nigerian women". I would be stupid to say that. I said "MOST" and stand by it.This is how you fail SSCE, JAMB AND WEAC, you refuse to read and comprehend. Those that liked my comment, have a sound understanding of what I talking about. Asinine!

Dolly-Parton:


I know right!!!
The fact that they were unfortunate enough to attract the bad ones, makes them think they have earned the right to stereotyping.

You might have had a bad ordeal with a nigerian lady, but there are so many people getting married to nigerian ladies each saturday, and are happy in their union...

UncleJJ: .
Marry, or ugly trailer trash white girls.
While the real naija boys marry ... Exclusive babes from respectable homes.
EFF love, marriage is contract!

SELFWORTH:

Very ignorant post. How can you say ALL Nigerian women?

I guess these name calling includes all the women in your family and any daughters you have. ....

I hasten to add that you don't know tomorrow and you don't know what anyone can do to you tomorrow including your current spouse. You haven't learnt anything from the experience.

Its true common sense is NOT common. All those who agree with you also invariably agree that all the women in their lives including their MOTHER is as you have described above.

I tell you NL is full of kindergarten 'adults'.

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future

Brilliance9000: [b]You would only have to discuss all these, particularly number 2( MONEY) if you are looking to marry a Nigerian woman(most in my judgment love money more than their husbands, children and themselves...very sickening)....very arrogant, selfish, coterie of people. Do yourself a huge favor and marry yourself a white or other women besides Nigerian women. Most of these women besides Nigerian, already know all these and know how to treat their men. Don't start up debate with me, because I have been there; married a sister(Nigerian); was unhappy for years as with most of my friends(educated...doctors, engineers, lawyers) until we all set to try something different...non Nigerian women. WE ALL FOUND HAPPINESS AND HAVE WONDERFUL FAMILY. The common denominator is that these women have a different upbringing and approach to life.Money is never an issue with them...NEVER, even if you have it in abundance. It means virtually nothing to them.

THIS TREND WILL CONTINUE UNTIL NIGERIAN WOMEN LEARN TO STOP BEING ARROGANT AND MONEY HUNGRY. You can never win arrogance with a man...never except he is a weak man. He will rather, win it, leave you/divorce, or kill you. He is a man for a reason. The best you can do is to bring your demure, womanly, soft-spoken side....believe me, 99% of guys will listen and have a dialogue with you like a princess.

Rexxie:
If u are a lady wit this kinda venom then Briliance is right in sayin som brothers are in for it for real! its damm psycho n a pure contradiction of tha supposedly virteous id of urs 4 u to ascribe abuse and cast aspertion on not only ur addressee but da folks and families of those who judged his post wise which is non of damm biz! n i don't care if u spew venom to this cos u da obvious faish brain.savvy

Brilliance9000: [b]You would only have to discuss all these, particularly number 2( MONEY) if you are looking to marry a Nigerian woman(most in my judgment love money more than their husbands, children and themselves...very sickening)....very arrogant, selfish, coterie of people. Do yourself a huge favor and marry yourself a white or other women besides Nigerian women. Most of these women besides Nigerian, already know all these and know how to treat their men. Don't start up debate with me, because I have been there; married a sister(Nigerian); was unhappy for years as with most of my friends(educated...doctors, engineers, lawyers) until we all set to try something different...non Nigerian women. WE ALL FOUND HAPPINESS AND HAVE WONDERFUL FAMILY. The common denominator is that these women have a different upbringing and approach to life.Money is never an issue with them...NEVER, even if you have it in abundance. It means virtually nothing to them.

THIS TREND WILL CONTINUE UNTIL NIGERIAN WOMEN LEARN TO STOP BEING ARROGANT AND MONEY HUNGRY. You can never win arrogance with a man...never except he is a weak man. He will rather, win it, leave you/divorce, or kill you. He is a man for a reason. The best you can do is to bring your demure, womanly, soft-spoken side....believe me, 99% of guys will listen and have a dialogue with you like a princess. [/b]

pcguru1:
4,8,17 are a big deal to me, as for Religion, we all met Religion in this world, a friend of mine (Muslim) married her husband (Christian) and they have a good marriage. The awesomeness in this post is too EPIC