I think she should search herself b/c some salient issues might probably exist here.

I think she should search herself because some salient issues might probably exist here.

I can forgive anything but it will def take a while to totally forgive & forget

Its good to forgive if you can.We are all guilty of unforgiven at one time or the other in our lives

PrettySpicey: Forgiveness is most often a tough call. Yet it is a necessity and a healing process.
N believe me, forgiveness is more for you, the victim, than for the offender.
Being able to forgive makes you feel free and then heals you of the pain/hurt from the offence.
Most often though it is real hard and this where we need God.
Ask God for the grace to forgive. Speak to God concerning your pain and ask Him to teach you to forgive and forget too.

thanks. Dis is wht i'm doin right now but she is incorrigible n unrepentant fellow.

Sweetapple007: Since accordg to ur statement the offender has pleaded she shld forgive abi she no dey offend other people!

she pleaded but stil doin it behind.

Forgive? easier said than done

Revenge? Takes up too much energy & time. eats u up from inside

Karma? the ultimate! requires nothing on your part & usually a Sure banker

ophilly: Infidelity is one sin I can never forgive.

But if you are a Christian,you should forgive even infidelity becos Christ said we should forgive !
God help us all

There are things u cannot forgive,for instance if you trust someone with all u have and you've been faithful to the person but all he/she can do better is to betray you,plan to scatter your relationship with other friends and people that loves you and still forming to be a friend whenever and my people said "ohun semi ohun gbami bawo lase ma dupe lowo eni to n seni to tun gbani".

what if someone who wrongs you refuses to apologize? seeing that we ourselves ask God for forgiveness, how wrong or right are we to not forgive?

I will never forget the fact that I am whoever I am today because some people gave me a second chance in the most impossible situations. For me, nothing and nobody is beyond forgiveness.
That I forgive a sin doesn't mean I haven't learned my lesson from the experience.

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Forgive people, not because they deserve it but because you deserve peace!! Though, it is not easy.. Just pray to God to help you and ask for forgiveness for yourself too because as long as you don't forgive that person, it's a sin on your part too!!

INFIDELITY

oyeladeomoniyi: There are things u cannot forgive,for instance if you trust someone with all u have and you've been faithful to the person but all he/she can do better is to betray you,plan to scatter your relationship with other friends and people that loves you and still forming to be a friend whenever and my people said "ohun semi ohun gbami bawo lase ma dupe lowo eni to n seni to tun gbani".

and that is exactly wht's happenin 2me.

Yomieluv: nothing i cant forgive,though it may hurt,but time is the greatest healer of pain.

its good to forgive,and let go,it promotes friendship,and also frees the mind.

You have to forgive no matter how it hurt, If Jesus Christ could die for our sins and he still loves us despite the pain he went through on the cross, so why can't you forgive. Unforgiveness is an hindrance to a person's progress in life, release your spirit from the person so that you can have peace, cos if you don't forgive you can't have peace of the mind cos you will always be battling with the issue in your mind

There are things u cannot forgive,for instance if you trust someone with all u have and you've been faithful to the person but all he/she can do better is to betray you,plan to scatter your relationship with other friends and people that loves you and still forming to be a friend whenever and my people said "ohun semi ohun gbami bawo lase ma dupe lowo eni to n seni to tun gbani".

wow, this is deep.

i would think sometimes we expect from people things they are unable to give, doesnt make us bad per se, just unrealistic.

but, its important to assess people for who they are, not always who we want them to be.

"ohun semi ohun gbami bawo lase ma dupe lowo eni to n seni to tun gbani".

i think this means "how do you thank a frenemy".

ie the person who is flogging you with one hand and consoling (ie patting) you with the other.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4URKHvdky8g&t=14s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxiOheZe4ks&t=28s