D-reloaded:

why the Abbey?

Jackal.:


Babes, u will take every shit that comes your way especially when your spouse has the same qualities or more. . . .

Blimey. . . . .what has being British, self-educated, young or whatever has to do with this. . . . .
If u are hoping to go to Nigeria to choose a dude, then expect your toes to be kissed and your spouse to wash your undies.
However, if u are hoping to date a Brit/Nigerian in the UK. . . . .You are just anutha chic around the corner.
There are 66 million Brit citizens in the UK and about 2.2 Brit Nigerian gals that are single. . .so what makes u special. . .

Expect to cook, wash, pound yam in a mortar. . . . . I will even make u grind pepper on a stone and balance a tray on your head to test your Nigerianity.
Take care of the kids with the anticipation of remaining a full house wife and putting your certificates in the bin.
Whats more? Be submissive, respectful and act like a proper well brought up Nigerian woman.
It means kneeling down when u meet me parents and elders of the family. . .

If u can't live with that. . . . .go to the ABBEY.   Better still, marry a white DUDE.

LadyT:

D-reloaded she don't want to talk about that   leave it alone

The fact she was soliciting sex on here has nothing to do with the current topic.

as a self educated young nigerian/british woman how much shit do i have to take from a nigerian man.? my blood boils over when the price for sticking to nigerian men includes
cooking when u feel or don't feel like
making sure the house is clean 24/7
pleasing his family and friends
learning not to have an opinion
trying to control your temper
having to hear this all the time " am a nigerain man so i can ,

@poster
I think you are the one with the issue here not the Naija guys like you claimed
Do you need to make announcement that you are mix nigerian/british , or do you need a microphone because I get one right here
So you are self educated who cares and who isn't
Empty barren makes the loudest noise, not surprise
What is wrong in cleaning, wouldn't you clean your own house if happens to leave alone
So what is wrong in cooking for your man
Someone with a hot temper can be in a relationship, because it won't last
Who said you can't have your own opinion when dating a Naija man
If you have problem with Naija men then stop dating them abi na by force

D-reloaded:

since when do virgins engage in 4-somes?

vivaladiva:

constructive suggestions not retarded insinuations
it makes a lot of difference where i come from b/because i am trying to understand a particular mindset of some nigerian men
i am not taring every one with the same brush so chill out

D-reloaded:

only Yorubas kneel

how much shit do i have to take from a nigerian man

Busta:

talk about metamorphosis

vivaladiva:

the thing they pain u because na dagbo u dey use take work
oboy me no send u oo
don't take it personal
u can have a chip on your shoulder tis free

D-reloaded:

more like bipolar. Thankfully England and its free healthcare can cater to her madness 

Busta:

talk about metamorphosis

aloib
adesodgi, what it do, long time :p

The Sly:

As much as possible. . . . . if u aint cool with it. . . u can go and get yourself a smelly Chinese dude. . .
Or better still. . . .Get yourself an Indian dude. . . But they smells like garlic though. . .

Jackal.:

What a heap of applesauce from a spastic hilly nanny!!!