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Opinions On Sex During Marriage by mizzkizzes08(f): 11:29am On Jun 27, 2013 |
Ok, I want to know the opinions about the following: Just because a couple is married should a woman please her husbands needs whenever he feels like she should also, should it be alright for the husband to force his wife to pleasure him if she refuses... (I'm not married I'm happily single just want to know the worlds opinions) |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by carzola(m): 12:23pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Lets get married so i could wisper the ans in ur ear while i strok u softly from behind. |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by IJI777: 12:27pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
pls, i want to ask. is the tot of sex scaring u away fom marriage[quote author=mizzkizzes08]Ok, I want to know the opinions about the following: Just because a couple is married should a woman please her husbands needs whenever he feels like she should also, should it be alright for the husband to force his wife to pleasure him if she refuses... (I'm not married I'm happily single just want to know the worlds opinions)[/quote] |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by peclint: 1:12pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Am not married, but one thing i do know is that the top 2 causes of breakdown in marriages are sex and finance. i don't think a man or woman should deny his/her other half of sex. Some might argue that what if you don't feel like it? don't forget that we all have different levels of sex drive, imagine what would happen if a man of high sex drive marries one of low sex drive or vice versa, i just think it is a quick way of driving the other to another arm. If you are tired or don't feel like it, just allow the other partner do the work or you form ' I am aSLEEP ' ( you could get caught out) |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by MrsChima(f): 1:57pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Sex isn't everything and doesn't fix nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by dasparrow: 2:07pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
peclint: Am not married, but one thing i do know is that the top 2 causes of breakdown in marriages are sex and finance. That is why people with low sex drives should avoid people with high sex drives at all cost. 1 Like |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by gst101: 2:42pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
@op I am a man and I donot think it is ok for a woman to always give in to her man's desires not even in marriage. She should make compromises sometimes though. The woman also should know that it will be very selfish of her to only want to have it at her time. BTW, let's us reverse the question. Should a man deny his wife any time she wants it? Believe it or not, we have women with stronger s...ex drive than some men. As for the second question, it is absolutely wrong for a man to force his wife to have se...x with him. Such men misrepresent us and give us a bad name. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by clemz85(m): 3:33pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
I'm not good in qouting but am sure this question has a place in the Holy book |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Les: 4:58pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
clemz85: I'm not good in qouting but am sure this question has a place in the Holy bookyou are right, it's in the book of corinthians. There, The bible clearly states that sex is one of the reasons to get married. To me, i feel dat for no reason should my woman deny me sex cos to me dat's d no1reason am getting married, weirdo?? I noticed something in me and I goggled it, doctor health said if it's not STD, then I simply have a very high sexual appetite which is true, noting this, it'll be wickedness on my own part to marry a lady with low libido. Op, if you get married to someone dat understands u and ur body system, this wouldn't be a problem. ALL IT TAKES IS UNDERSTANDING, but just incase ur spouse dont understand, simply give in just to avoid shouting infidelity.. |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by kreamidiva(f): 5:12pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Well,i think it all depends on the peeps in d marriage.i know dat some men feel slighted when denied and i also know that tension may arise due to that.i know of a fact that good sexual relations between a man and a woman strengthens their love.ft |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by mizzkizzes08(f): 12:32am On Jun 28, 2013 |
IJI777: pls, i want to ask. is the tot of sex scaring u away fom marriage lol no.. its just that some married people think so and some don't 1 Like |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by mizzkizzes08(f): 12:33am On Jun 28, 2013 |
carzola: Lets get married so i could wisper the ans in ur ear while i strok u softly from behind. lmaoo wow |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by mizzkizzes08(f): 12:41am On Jun 28, 2013 |
ok everyone is it bad for the woman/man to simply say no not today.. I do know many men do have sex with other women when their partner denies them sex and vice versa... i think both partners should respect each others opinions about not havin sex or havin sex.. if someone doesn't want to that day, they should not be forced to because that then turns to rape.. just because ur married doesn't mean it's ok to just climb on top of someone and force sex on them when they are not willing |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:17am On Jun 28, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: Is the statement in red a typo? Because all I can see from that sentence is a contradiction. @Topic: Force? That one no sound right at all, but I think couples shouldn't allow themselves get to that level na. ![]() Personally I no go allow my wifey and I to degenerate to the level wey we go dey disagree when konji matters arise. ![]() We gatz plan everything na from the start e.g what dayz of the week? How many timez per week? ![]() Force = Rape, whether its from the man or the woman( ![]() |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:18am On Jun 28, 2013 |
Nigerians just aren't freaky enough when it comes to sexy.... Everything is scandalous to you guys........very boring people ![]() |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:19am On Jun 28, 2013 |
Ekwah, my suga potatoe, how far na? ![]() |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:19am On Jun 28, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: Ewuuuuuu it fixes a stressful day. Sex during finals and midterm na the ish.....thank you. |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:21am On Jun 28, 2013 |
Texas.Cowgirl: lol I dey fine o. How ya side jor!! ![]() |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:23am On Jun 28, 2013 |
ekwah: Classified info. Hope you and shola don tie the knot. My baby girl must marry rich o ![]() |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:25am On Jun 28, 2013 |
Texas.Cowgirl: lol, we go cross that bridge when the time comez. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 4:28am On Jun 28, 2013 |
ekwah: No lose my invitation for post office o. |
Re: Opinions On Sex During Marriage by Nobody: 5:12am On Jun 28, 2013 |
mizzkizzes08: ok everyone is it bad for the woman/man to simply say no not today.. I do know many men do have sex with other women when their partner denies them sex and vice versa... i think both partners should respect each others opinions about not havin sex or havin sex.. if someone doesn't want to that day, they should not be forced to because that then turns to r-ape.. just because ur married doesn't mean it's ok to just climb on top of someone and force sex on them when they are not willing And rape is rape, married or not. |
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