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Re: My Home Is Breaking by pickabeau1: 3:50pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Endorsed You are right with your postulation.. Faith is individual and should not be forced.. soul_glo: This is my problem with Nigerian Christians. At best y'all are weekend christians and if no one is watching you'd probably sacrifice an animal to solve your problems. What does the Bible say about being married to an unbeliever. No where does it say that you should force your spouse to convert. In fact it clearly says that you should not divorce your spouse if they are not saved. They are covered and so are your children.If the unbelieving spouse decides to leave then that's their issue. No where at all does it say that if he or she does not convert then they are a bad husband or wife. You guys should not mix your personal beliefs or your traditional beliefs with scripture. OP if you want a purely scripture based solution then you have come to the wrong place. Everybody has issues in their marriage and the whole idea is to work on that marriage and not leave no place for divorce. If your husband chooses to divorce you over this just know that it is not about his faith but about his selfish reasons. Should you convert to Christianity it should be 100% your choice. Not threat of divorce or pressure from people who do not even read their Bible should make you convert. I'm a Christian so of course it would bring me joy to hear that you chose to convert. Keep being a good person and if one day you are touched to convert then I will also be happy for you. Keep talking to your husband. Ask him to search the scriptures and see how he should approach this situation. It is clear in the scripture what role he should play. Good luck because I know it will not be easy. Make the right choice but make sure it is your choice 1 Like |
Re: My Home Is Breaking by simpleseyi: 8:29pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
slimyem: Good question!! Cure your short sightedness, Fashola is a muslim while his wife is a christian (a Dame). Tinubu is a muslim while his wife is a RCCG pastor. I am a muslim, my wife is a christian. I and my wife are happier than Many muslim/muslim couples have divorced and many christian/christian couples have also divorced. 3 Likes |
Re: My Home Is Breaking by bellong: 8:46pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
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Re: My Home Is Breaking by egopersonified(f): 5:49pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
simpleseyi: d demon part really got me laughing with tears in my eyes, bros u are too much. |
Re: My Home Is Breaking by delpee(f): 11:33pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
@simpleseyi Wise guy! Can't help laughing though . ![]() ![]() ![]() @Op Be calm and pray hard to weather the storm. Its not easy to get over an issue like this in these trying times viz BH et al. He's probably just scared. Reassure him of being liberal if you choose to remain a Muslim. If he perceives extremism in anyway, it will create trouble. Also let him bring up his child as a Christian. Remember the child has the power to make a choice later in life. So many successful inter religion marriages that you can use as examples to make him see reason. Best wishes for a HML. |
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