Dovahkiin:

that makes no damn sense

ok

U're not looking as big as u painted it. Ur shape actually looks nice, just dress to fit it and you're good to go. Be SMART and confident, believe you are beautiful because you actually are. Carry yourself the way you want to be addressed, open your mind to guys-don't be too paranoid. Don't believe any guy is too good for you or go for less than you deserve.

Babe, rock those endowments and have a wonderful life.

Also, ain't nothing bad in watching d weight...too much of it is bad for your health.

@op, after seeing the picture you uploaded, that's called using your head.. You edited your face out of it... I will go with Idowu's advice... Hit the gym or if you want to follow Aluta's advice don't... But know that there is a big difference from being a big girl and a fat girl..

May I suggest you also look in the health section on how to lose fat?

Matter of fact, that should be your primary focus, no? I cant be changing my shock absorbers every 3 months because of my babe. Life is hard enough already, cheers

nbright: @op, after seeing the picture you uploaded, that's called using your head.. You edited your face out of it... I will go with Idowu's advice... Hit the gym or if you want to follow Aluta's advice don't... But know that there is a big difference from being a big girl and a fat girl..

Lolz...badt guy!

biggirloya2: this is me.

Gawd! Look em Babylonia and hips!!!

Gal, u just need to shed a few pounds, work on ur confidence and wear the right clothes.

I want ur boooooooooooobs!

Idowuogbo:

I want ur boooooooooooobs!

me too , the a$$ looks fat too

26 and 29 wts d diff, fooool!, u berra juz park well anumpama

U look thick but could look nicer wit nice wears. Be conscious of how u dress and look gud. Beware of NA Goldd***ers also.
Get busy with school cos relationshp wise, it'll be hard to get someone dat really digs u unless u've got a really nice dress sense and personality. Plus size gals are always depressed (in my own opinion) and ends up stressing out even d BFs. Be free with urself, be proud of urself and shine bright like a diamond.

johnstar: 26 and 29 wts d diff, fooool!, u berra juz park well anumpama

And who is dis sexually frustrated kangaroo? Park go zoo mehn! Nansense!!

nbright: That's the irony of life... When you were there age you might have looked down on them.. Now they are just returning the favours... Take it like a big babe..

what is this one saying

I repeat, my colleague is bigger than you are, Op. Not slightly, as in, BIGGER.
Relax and stop freting.
Hit the gym though. Nyc shape btw.

Please stop this self pity stuff and ugliness. It's your carriage and the confidence you have in yourself that defines you. Don't believe the 'genetic thing'. I know of someone whose simblings are on the big side, but she controlled hers, she already has 3 kids but still looking good and trim. Watch what you eat and hit the gym. All the best.

Poster,i
feel ur pain.Honestly most of d advice given were on point. Do
not allow any man treat u less than u wil want to b treated.
Having a nice dress sense wil make a total difference.
U aint dat big as u feel ohhh.used to b lyk u,today i am happily
married.it was after i got married i decided to lose weight for health
reasons
I hit d gym n modified my diet seriously today am a size 14.
dere r men dat like em big,just dress right,eat right n believe in urself.have seen ur mail addy,wil mail u more tips

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Try gowns. Dose flowered skimpy knee lenght ones. U got nice calves nt elephant legs which is a big plus for u. Flaunt it. Wear near jeans pants wit flat moccasins and a bit bulgy tops to hide d belly. Nicely colored tops. Have an eye catchy hair styles. Walk confidently. My ex, a kenyan, was a bit like u. Bak in SA we went shoppin and gadged her up. Though it was nt easy in d beginning cos i too got depressed cos of her mood swings but i stuck with her cos frankly, she's d best personality i've ever seen/dated. Strong willed, smart but always depressed about her looks. Social life was zero etc. We tried, nice wears, pride, and she was able to pik herself up. Bak home nw and d hottest in her estate. Sees her and friends on FB n stil feels d loss. Long distance relationshps neva works out.

Wait o. why are you complaining? You have a nice, curvey shape as far as I can see. Your waist is defined, the 'girls' look really nice and your thick thighs are on point.


Better wake up and see your potential and stop wasting your time with a boy who deems you good enough to sleep with but not good enough to take to the folks.

You can always lose weight if you really want to, but he'll always be a shiity boyfriend.

I have a colleague who comes to my unit to say hello and ogle the big girls. He is so full of admiration for them.
So never allow anyone make you feel you are not good enough because there are men out there salivating for your type...

Dreamflyin: Try gowns. Dose flowered skimpy knee lenght ones. U got nice calves nt elephant legs which is a big plus for u. Flaunt it. Wear near jeans pants wit flat moccasins and a bit bulgy tops to hide d belly. Nicely colored tops. Have an eye catchy hair styles. Walk confidently. My ex, a kenyan, was a bit like u. Bak in SA we went shoppin and gadged her up. Though it was nt easy in d beginning cos i too got depressed cos of her mood swings but i stuck with her cos frankly, she's d best personality i've ever seen/dated. Strong willed, smart but always depressed about her looks. Social life was zero etc. We tried, nice wears, pride, and she was able to pik herself up. Bak home nw and d hottest in her estate. Sees her and friends on FB n stil feels d loss. Long distance relationshps neva works out.

Awwww... Ndo bros! All is well...

hi angel be proud of yourself am even happy for you
Dnt tink bad.just still be yourself.love urself first befor odas.u ar perfetly endownd,,,,
I even wish to bbe ur friend.jst to encourage you i feel your pain dearie.
Just be happy 081694463190"caall me i share some of my old friends stories to you.

Idowuogbo:
Awww..how sweet!

is this truly Idowu? I meaan the idowu i know? Have been seeing her posts recently and they r complete opposite of the Idowu i used to know....wow...we all should enjoy this while it lasts.


/op being fat isnt a crime...dump the guy and find someone who is gonna love u for u! And i''d advise u loose some punds as well...excess fat 'obesity' aint good for the health.

@op, honestly your bosoms are well poited and shaped,you just need to shed more weight and dress very well.

Starve yourself by eating once daily with a lot of exercise. Do this and see the result in less than two months.

And don't forget,your food should not contain fat or excessive water.

D sage: @op, honestly your bosoms are well poited and shaped,you just need to shed more weight and dress very well.

Starve yourself by eating once daily with a lot of exercise. Do this and see the result in less than two months.

And don't forget,your food should not contain fat or excessive water.

Helz no! U wan kill d babe? Haba! She go faint na! Oga dis ya own advice na for size zero models. We no do! Tenk u!

SpicyMimi:
is this truly Idowu? I meaan the idowu i know? Have been seeing her posts recently and they r complete opposite of the Idowu i used to know....wow...we all should enjoy this while it lasts.


/op being fat isnt a crime...dump the guy and find someone who is gonna love u for u! And i''d advise u loose some punds as well...excess fat 'obesity' aint good for the health.

Lmao! I don repent joor! Jesus is Lord.

Idowuogbo:
Awwww... Ndo bros! All is well...

God works in mysterious ways. Sent her a FB mail apologising for my insecurities (dis OP post made me recall memories) and pronto, she accepted. Waiting for my message all these while. Happiest dude on earth at d moment.
Miss Biggalorya be bold, ur guy is out there somewhere!!!!!!!

Idowuogbo:
Lmao! I don repent joor! Jesus is Lord.

hahahahaha....thank God ooo!! For the salvation of our Sister's life! Sis Idowu... Yaaay!

Dreamflyin:

God works in mysterious ways. Sent her a FB mail apologising for my insecurities (dis OP post made me recall memories) and pronto, she accepted. Waiting for my message all these while. Happiest dude on earth at d moment.
Miss Biggalorya be bold, ur guy is out there somewhere!!!!!!!

Eyah... Oya make we celebrate na!

Make I order E-schnapps?

Idowuogbo:
Eyah... Oya make we celebrate na!

Make I order E-schnapps?

Bottle ole ka ichoro? I'm buying for everyone inthe house. Booze freely in my name.

biggirloya2:


i wana. but how? please give me tips

Hit d gym dear!

Here's my babe. She used to be like u, now is how she looks in casuals. She has also gone on to achieve her life dream; gotten her Private Pilot License and now training for her Commercial Pilot License(we met at Flight school).