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Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 9:21pm On May 23, 2008 |
Of course the feelings are there but they are harmless. . . . Blimey. . . .If u have a pet(dog, cat or a black mamba), after a while u must develop feelings for it. . . . If the pet dies, u may cry. Men have feelings for gadgets(PS3, iPod, Smart fones). . . . does it mean men fall in love with objects? |
Re: Is This An Affair? by eldee(m): 9:24pm On May 23, 2008 |
Xerxes.:Hmmn, here you go again with you all-out debate tactics You can't possibly compare feelings for PS3's to human relationships Oi, should I predict what you'll say next? |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 9:25pm On May 23, 2008 |
who told u d feelings are harmless?when d man hardly mentions his family in their conversation?d same feelings that might leave d poster emotionally naked and frustrated because of like of control,c'mon this babe has feelings my dear,and if she doesnt control it now,it will wreck her emotions if she doesnt keep this relationship platonic and slow d pace a little,don't be surprised if she starts stealing kisses ,even though she wont tell nairalanders DONT compare emotional feelings wt ps3 or ipods,dis feeling is more matured dan ps3 or ipods,or even pets |
Re: Is This An Affair? by tpia: 9:27pm On May 23, 2008 |
@ topic: it may be harder on you than on him at the end of the day. Women are the ones who tend to get burned the most by these kinds of things. A man will find it easier to dust himself off and walk away. He can easily do the same thing with countless other women and still have no intention of letting it interfere with his married life. its not yet a physical affair but its gearing towards an emotional affair. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 9:29pm On May 23, 2008 |
@ topic: nice one tpia,but in dis case its not gearing into,its already an emotional affair |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 9:32pm On May 23, 2008 |
Gearing towards an emotional affair? PRICELESS!!!!!! Can u also predict the weather next week, predict who wld win the USA elections and predict when Jesus is coming back? eldee: I used to know a dude who begged cultists to rape his gurlfriend and spare his shoes. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 23, 2008 |
Gearing towards an emotional affair? PRICELESS!!!!!! oh my gawd,honestly i think i now agree wt eldee,all dis ur points cant carry water,wats emotions gat to do wt USA AND JESUS? politics,love and religion(bible)are three different things so dont mix them up,or go off point the issue here is a single girl who communicates wt a married man every single day,not USA or JESUS and as for ur word prediction,yes emotions cant be predicted,cos we all can fall at anytime,just d way dis poster has already fallen |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 9:40pm On May 23, 2008 |
jennykadry: U are missing the point!!!! All i am saying is none of us is 100% sure this can lead to any serious relationship. As this is the case, give the poster a benefit of doubt. Innocent until proven guilty. . . . .huh? |
Re: Is This An Affair? by eldee(m): 9:42pm On May 23, 2008 |
Xerxes.:Hehehe, you need to like study hard to predict 'em ones Your cultist dude had sumn more than just a feeling, it's an obsession If he had that kind of thing for a girl, it'll lead to madness My point is, human feelings don't need to go extreme Just like what people call 'Love at first sight', it might be shallow, but it's a relatively strong feeling |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 9:46pm On May 23, 2008 |
eldee: I agree with the last sentence. Love at first sight? I have heard of Love at NO SIGHT!!!! |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 9:47pm On May 23, 2008 |
You are missing the point!!!! u r d one missing d point,im not saying it will lead to any relationship,all im trying to say here is there is no doubt dat d poster does not have feelings for dis guy?she might not date him,but mennnnnnnn sometimes emotions have a way of controlling pple's lives,its already controlling d posters own,and dis same poster knows dat it is wrong and dats y she came here for advise |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 10:19pm On May 23, 2008 |
jennykadry: Negative!!!! Y'all gurls said the poster was in LOVE and that was why she came here. Feelings can be negative or postive. Of course, feelings musta been generated but it could be anything. . . . No one is certain so letz be patient and see what pans out!!! |
Re: Is This An Affair? by annamaria: 11:56pm On May 23, 2008 |
Can someone stop picking on Xerxes(Jackal )? What has the guy done to you? Thanks everyone for your contributions. Really appreciate all the advise, both good and bad. I'm taking the necessary precautions and I know for certain nothing will develop between me and this guy. Truth, it's always been easy for me to get along with guys because of the nature of my private business and now the job that I do. When I was in a relationship, it was not really a big deal, my ex and I used to discuss our friends openly. It's the first time in a long time that I'm being really emotionally close to a guy without being in a relationship, and the fact he's married got me a bit worried that it may just be a bit too much. No need to say more. Please let the thread die. If anything new comes up will say here. I'm too old to play hide and seek feelings for those who think I'm hiding something. Nothing to hide, ok. Thanks again. |
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