Cheating on your spouse for 'ANY' reason will not bring that joy, peace, happiness, achievement or accomplishment you so much desire.

For you to love someone is to agree and allow the special part of you to live with him/her, and that part of you that lives with your spouse is like a container with a cover, it is what we called love, in it is where your peace, joy, happiness, fulfillment, and rest of mind is.

No matter what the 'strange' man or woman will be giving you, they will only last for few hours or probably few days or months, but they can not last forever.

That is why people cheating still hold on to their spouses despite the 'silly act' because one of the special and sensitive part of them is still with their spouse and that is why we need to understand the fact that marriage is not a child's play, even, it is not an adult's play for an immature adult.

What are you looking for in another man or woman that make you cheat on your spouce? Sex, money, attention, contacts, contracts, connections, wealth, fulfillments and so on.

The fact remains, you are just being 'Selfish', 'Self centred' and 'ingrate'.

No matter what the offence of your spouse is, must you go as far as ridiculing yourself and your image (if you have)? Must you trade your dignity and pride for material things? Must you drag the name of your parents, the future of your child/ren and that of your spouse into the mud because of your own special dirty ambition and interest? Must you disgrace yourself and tarnish your image because of 'things' that will perish?

Always remember that cheating on your spouse is not a yardstick to have joy, peace, payback, rest of mind or attention, it is the beginning of shame, guilt, ridicule, agony and sorrow.

If you are a married man or woman, you must understand the fact that your spouse can never be complete and perfect and for you to have agreed to marry him/her in the presence of God and man, that means, you have agreed and decided to take him/her for who s/he is, the strength and weakness.

Marriage is not a joke, it is a 'REALITY' and you must face it with all seriousness, attention, focus and love. It is an institution where you must learn how to 'pray for him/her', 'pray with him/her' and determine to make it 'work'.
Marriage will NOT work if the two in it never put in their strength and zeal.

Instead of going so low to the extent of cheating on your spouse, why not be of help by working on his/her weaknesses and pray towards it, believe in God who created him/her and who was a witness on the day of your wedding ceremony.

Cheating on your spouse will NEVER give you joy, it will never give you peace, it will never give you the attention you want, it will never make you fulfill, it will not help you to be focus, rather, it will make you hate yourself the more, it will make you suffer from guilt and make you sick emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.

Help your spouse so as to help yourself. God be with you.

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