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Re: Is This Not Infidelity by bukatyne(f): 7:33pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
Let me indulge you It's is best you read my posts and understand what I am trying to say. It is very obvious there is lack of communication. You are reading my posts but you are not listening to what ia saying. The issue is that you have a preconceived notion about feminists and that is all you are hearing even when I am saying something else. Learning The art of listening is not easy but very benefial. You keep hammering on my implying that white marriages are better even when I was not the one that added white into the mix. You cannot wrap your head round me been a Christian or nice because I believe that men and women are equal. If guess this same belief is what makes women sleep around, splendid! So what do the men that sleep around believe in? That men and women are equal? Stop mixing issues here. I can be a medical doctor, a choister in Church and a cook. I can be a professor and still be very lousy. I am bukatyne consisting of different parts or segments. I am a christian therefore I strive to develops the fruits of the Holy Spirit. I believe men and women are equal and strive to treat them as I want them to treat me. I am a fiancee and I strive to be the best lover. I have siblings and I try to be there for them. I have parents and I try to make them proud and happy. I am a neighbour to people and I try to have good relations with them. I am an employee and I try to give my employer my best. One aspect of my life doesn't define me; I define all the aspects of my life. biolabee: |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by biolabee(m): 7:40pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
Ive read ur posts I asked u a real q If by age or experience or any other factor, ur man always has the better points, would you not feel resentful after a while |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by bukatyne(f): 7:47pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
biolabee: Ive read ur posts And why should I feel resentful if he does it with love? He has an idea, I bring my input and after discussion as lovers, his own is better. Is it not for our good? I have an idea, he sees through it and polishes it or brings a better one, is it to our good? It takes a confident person to learn from others... I do not have a victim mentality and see shadows where there are none. |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by biolabee(m): 7:53pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
Ok..am sure this issue will be revisited post nuptials... Your feminism with your religion #siddonlookmode |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by TV01(m): 8:23pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
GOD'S WORD® Translation (©1995) Philippians 2:6 - Although he was in the form of God and equal with God, he did not take advantage of this equality. The above is Christian equality in a nutshell. And no philosophy or ideology can - or is required to - embellish Christianity. Attempting to do so will give you "another gospel". Let no one be deceived by reasoning and smooth words. I speak to those who may be unwittingly taken in by them. TV 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by Pataki: 8:26am On Jul 26, 2013 |
bukatyne: Sorry to refer you back from page 3 with your conversation with Aluta, but is this your own definition of equality? |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by biolabee(m): 8:36am On Jul 26, 2013 |
Hmmm... |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by maclatunji: 9:01am On Jul 26, 2013 |
jidegirl12: The lack of trust did not start before the marriage. It was caused by the wife's suspicious activities. It is ridiculous to suggest that this husband should trust a wife that behaves suspiciously without raising concern. |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by maclatunji: 9:11am On Jul 26, 2013 |
Daresh: She could be stupid, naive or careless. Some acts are so brazen they beggar belief. |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by bukatyne(f): 2:08pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
TV01: GOD'S WORD® Translation (©1995) I don not think your posts are in sync with the subject matter You first said there is nothing like equality in Christianity now you are talking of Christian equality? I think it's best everyone run their homes as they deem fit. |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by bukatyne(f): 2:11pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
Pataki: That was not a definition of equality; I was stating the 'roles' in marriage if you want to call them roles. I believe Aluta was referring to marriage that's why I added that line. |
Re: Is This Not Infidelity by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
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