acidrop:

do u like her, moreover u can just marry her jst to help her and she will stick with u/ Nigeria girls can be so unpredictable

Siena:

It's a tricky one.

But, I admire her honesty.
At least, she's laid her cards on the table, rather than her telling you she's in love with you.
You could marry her, just to help her out, who knows?
Obviously, you really like her, she could grow to like and love you in return.

Good luck whatever you do decide.

amber_ella:

Do you have low self-esteem or something? Don't let yourself be treated like this. This woman could destroy your life in so many ways.

NubianQ:

we have to understand that the lady needs help. marrying her wont destroy his life, maybe hurt him emotionally if he falls for her and she doesnt return it. but atleast she told him the truth. personally, i can agree with you when you say the woman could destroy his life but i can only say the only way might me in an emotional sense but in a financial sense he can have lawyers draw up a pre-nup if need be.

nellyholmz:

HELLO IF YOU GOT ANYONE WHO NEEDS ASSITANCE WITH GETTING A VISA PLEASE ASK THEM TO CONTACT ME,,,THAT IS MY FIELD OKAY,,,,MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS nelsonobi@yahoo.com

SourSex:

nigerians fraudsters

Wow acid, i am so impress with your honest response. It is highly unusual to hear a blunt assessment of Naija sistas from another Naija sistas. They usually go on blind defense of each other.

LAKANYE~:

Mulato,
I was born in Croydon, England; My parents are Nigerians. I am a United States Citizen. I have worked for the US Immigrations in the past.
Please do not let her get deported back to Africa. I am sure it must have been a great hurdle for her to have come down to this level. God does not come down from Heaven to help us anymore, He sends humanistic angels in forms of relationships to help one another. If you would not assist her desires, you may regret it later in life.
I CAN ACTUALLY HELP HER TO LEGALLY STAY IN THE STATES WITHOUT HAVING TO BE MARRIED TO ANYONE. AS LONG AS SHE IS ACTUALLY FROM NIGERIA, AND NOT THE FAKE SO-CALLED NIGERIANS in the STATES. and I don't need a dime from her.

It's a tricky one.

But, I admire her honesty.
At least, she's laid her cards on the table, rather than her telling you she's in love with you.
You could marry her, just to help her out, who knows?
Obviously, you really like her, she could grow to like and love you in return.

Good luck whatever you do decide.

NubianQ:


i don't trust you! abi u sure say no be BEDMATE u dey find?

you are in this thread again yarning.

on the other hand, if can help the lady, that would be good. like u said the lord sends humanistic angels and if anyone can help the lady, it would be very nice!

NUBIANQ,

HOW COME YOU THEY FOLLOW ME AROUND THE WORLD LIKE MY SHADOW?

YOU SURE SAY YOU NO GET INTEREST IN THIS BRITISH/NIGERIAN/AMERICAN DIGNIFIED INTERNATIONAL MAN

LAKANYE~:


NUBIANQ,

HOW COME YOU THEY FOLLOW ME AROUND THE WORLD LIKE MY SHADOW?

YOU SURE SAY YOU NO GET INTEREST IN THIS BRITISH/NIGERIAN/AMERICAN DIGNIFIED INTERNATIONAL MAN

Mulatto:

Hi,  I have a big, big decision and I need your help.
I met this beautiful Nigerian women a few weeks ago. I am an American male. We went out on a date a couple weeks ago and things seemed ok but I had no true indication of whether or not we were making a connection. I personally thought that she was gorgeous and very sweet and lovable. She actually made us dinner that night before the date. Having talked a few times in b/w on the phone everything was going slow,  suddenly today she asks me to meet her because she has something very important to ask me. It turns out she filed twice for a visa, cancelled the first, and went through with the second. Unfortunately immigration is looking at the first as a violation and they are threatening deportation. The only reason she came to the USA was to go to FAA school, which she is currently attending and she showed me paperwork to prove it as well as lawyer's documentation being used to fight immigration. Long-story short she asked me if I would help her by marrying her. I told her that I view the institution of marriage as a sacred one and I only planned to have one marriage. She agreed and was sympathetic with my reasoning. My solution was to do a speed-dating session, where we go out everyday and talk as much as possible until she had no alternative but to get married,  that's a week or two for us to make a solid decision. Am I crazy? Am I doing the right thing? do you think she will drop me as soon as possible?
I personally think she is a sweet, honest, caring person and absolutely gorgeous in my eyes. I have always believed in the Indian tradition of quick marriages and learn/enjoy on the go, so that is not a problem. I just want to make sure that I am not setting myself up for heartbreak. Any wisdom/help is very much appreciated.

NubianQ:

I said something nice to you now so stop hating. anyway, i am not interested in you!

I no belief you NubianQ. But, we go leave am like that for now.