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Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 1:56pm On Aug 08, 2013
^^^ God forgive y'all oh

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Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by coogar: 2:02pm On Aug 08, 2013
Fhemmmy: ^^^ God forgive y'all oh

ok.....
do you think that woman would ever tell the congregation that part of her spiritual deliverance in her testimony? the whole process is a fraud!
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by slimyem: 2:14pm On Aug 08, 2013
Fhemmmy: ^^^ God forgive y'all oh
My brother,its no lie o. "Oro buruku tohun terin ni".
In the course of trying to conceive, so many women have fallen to heartbreaking tricks and scams engineered in the name of the Lord.
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 2:24pm On Aug 08, 2013
slimyem: My brother,its no lie o. "Oro buruku tohun terin ni".
In the course of trying to conceive, so many women have fallen to heartbreaking tricks and scams engineered in the name of the Lord.

Well, if this kinda description happened, then, it means the problem is the man, wont you say? Cos if the woman could conceive for another man (Though, with tricks and scam) but at least the woman is able to make baby, but it means that the man has been shooting blanks.
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 2:29pm On Aug 08, 2013
bamboke: What do I do when my mother-in-law invites me to a church that most people who need children go to?

I have no issue yet and we have been married close to 2 years.

I need your thoughts, please no insults.



I dont understand anymore


Do our opinion on the matter really counts

99% of people here are children who still eat bread from their parents table.

what advice can they possibly give you ..

undecided undecided

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Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 2:32pm On Aug 08, 2013
free2ryhme:



I dont understand anymore


Do our opinion on the matter really counts

99% of people here are children who still eat bread from their parents table.

what advice can they give you ..


undecided undecided

You will be surprised that even kids have brain and could give you good ideas
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 2:45pm On Aug 08, 2013
Fhemmmy:

You will be surprised that even kids have brain and could give you good ideas


yes kids on marriage ... hahahahahaha


wetin dem sabi for marriage .. Abi you think say marriage na beans na im the kids never marry .. make we hear word jor
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by coogar: 2:45pm On Aug 08, 2013
Fhemmmy:
Well, if this kinda description happened, then, it means the problem is the man, wont you say? Cos if the woman could conceive for another man (Though, with tricks and scam) but at least the woman is able to make baby, but it means that the man has been shooting blanks.


but how do we know the woman got pregnant after getting rammed by the pastor? damage done already - whether she got pregnant or not is irrelevant....
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by slimyem: 2:54pm On Aug 08, 2013
Fhemmmy:

Well, if this kinda description happened, then, it means the problem is the man, wont you say? Cos if the woman could conceive for another man (Though, with tricks and scam) but at least the woman is able to make baby, but it means that the man has been shooting blanks.

You don't get it. The women are deceived by making them believe the only way out of their barrenness is by sleeping with they "the men of God" so they can transfer the holy ghost to them.
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 2:57pm On Aug 08, 2013
free2ryhme:
yes kids on marriage ... hahahahahaha
wetin dem sabi for marriage .. Abi you think say marriage na beans na im the kids never marry .. make we hear word jor

Depends on your definition of kids, cos a kid that could be on NL could have brain to contribute . . . While some married might not be able to
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 2:58pm On Aug 08, 2013
coogar:

but how do we know the woman got pregnant after getting rammed by the pastor? damage done already - whether she got pregnant or not is irrelevant....

I think this thread might not be the best to use to explain all these, cos not all that calls themselves men of God are truly one . . . and i blv that is why most have advised her to be on guard.
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 2:59pm On Aug 08, 2013
slimyem: You don't get it. The women are deceived by making them believe the only way out of their barrenness is by sleeping with they "the men of God" so they can transfer the holy ghost to them.

Ok, so she just have to be on guard . . . .
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 3:09pm On Aug 08, 2013
Fhemmmy:

Depends on your definition of kids, cos a kid that could be on NL could have brain to contribute . . . While some married might not be able to


there are certain things only age and time can teach you
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 3:11pm On Aug 08, 2013
free2ryhme:


there are certain things only age and time can teach you



Wont wanna derail this thread . . . So i will agree with you if that makes the purpose of the thread stay same
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 3:15pm On Aug 08, 2013
Fhemmmy:

Wont wanna derail this thread . . . So i will agree with you if that makes the purpose of the thread stay same

i nvr intend for an arguement to ensue ..

i go no further than dis
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Fhemmmy: 3:20pm On Aug 08, 2013
^^^^ Lol
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 3:27pm On Aug 08, 2013
bamboke: What do I do when my mother-in-law invites me to a church that most people who need children go to?

I have no issue yet and we have been married close to 2 years.

I need your thoughts, please no insults.


my advise for you ..


if you are indeed a sincere xtian wait on God ...


let me share a real life testimony


I know of a couple that waited for a year plus, she tested positive for being pregnant and also the test and scan show she had fibroid... Doctors discovered that though she was pregnant there was no baby in the womb but all they could see was the fibroid... it took series of test to come to the conclusion that the womb had to be flushed and operated for fibroid .. She was told to wait for a while before she could try again


Few months later miraculously she got pregnant but to the doctors it was unusual she went for test this time the doctor told her to go pray that her child developed... Little did she no that at the time the doctor performed the scan operation there was no child in the womb yet she was pregnant. 3 months later she went back performed a second scan she was told the baby is fine and developing well. If the doctor had disclosed the true sate of things to the woman i am sure she would have ran mad.

To cut the long story short she gave birth through through CS ...

The nurses that performed the fibroid operation were the ones who did the CS. To their amazement there was no trace of fibroid operation.. She gave birth to a bouncing baby girl



Jesus Christ is still in the business of doing miracles if only you can patiently wait ...


let this matter rest btw you and God not with Nairalanders and your mother pls
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 3:33pm On Aug 08, 2013
pray simple prayers .. it is your heart that matters. no need to go to any mountain even in your house He will hear you ... Dont restrict Him to location why is He called the Omnipresence God
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Aug 08, 2013
Most pastors are fraud. A pastor isn't a saint neither am I. If God can answer the prayers of one who isn't a saint he can also answer mine.
God has done so much miracle in my life. I've never met any pastor. Speak to him urself, He hears. U dnt need anybody to pray for u to conceive. Pray with u husband and u will receive ur miracle.
These charlatans ain't better than u people.
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Aug 08, 2013
free2ryhme:


my advise for you ..


if you are indeed a sincere xtian wait on God ...


let me share a real life testimony


I know of a couple that waited for a year plus, she tested positive for being pregnant and also the test and scan show she had fibroid... Doctors discovered that though she was pregnant there was no baby in the womb but the could she the fibrod but not the baby.. it took series to test to come to the conclusion that the womb had to be flushed..

She was told to wait for a while before she could try again


Few months later miraculously she got pregnant but to the doctors it was unusual she went for test this time the doctor told her to go pray that her child developed... Little did she no that at the time the doctor performed the scan operation there was no child in the womb yet she was pregnant. 3 months later she went back performed a second scan she was told the baby is fine and developing well. If the doctor had disclosed the true sate of things to the woman i am sure she would have ran mad.

To cut the long story short she gave birth through through CS ...

The nurses that performed the fibroid operation were the ones who did the CS. To their amazement there was no trace of fibroid operation.. She gave birth to a bouncing baby girl



Jesus Christ is still in the business of doing miracles if only you can patiently wait ...


let this matter rest btw you and God not with Nairalanders and your mother pls
I don't understand the testimony, you mean fibroid was never there or what.
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 3:53pm On Aug 08, 2013
honey86:
I don't understand the testimony, you mean fibroid was never there or what.

i have correct the errors you can reread again cheesy
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 08, 2013
free2ryhme:


my advise for you ..


if you are indeed a sincere xtian wait on God ...


let me share a real life testimony


I know of a couple that waited for a year plus, she tested positive for being pregnant and also the test and scan show she had fibroid... Doctors discovered that though she was pregnant there was no baby in the womb but all they could see was the fibroid... it took series of test to come to the conclusion that the womb had to be flushed and operated for fibroid .. She was told to wait for a while before she could try again


Few months later miraculously she got pregnant but to the doctors it was unusual she went for test this time the doctor told her to go pray that her child developed... Little did she no that at the time the doctor performed the scan operation there was no child in the womb yet she was pregnant. 3 months later she went back performed a second scan she was told the baby is fine and developing well. If the doctor had disclosed the true sate of things to the woman i am sure she would have ran mad.

To cut the long story short she gave birth through through CS ...

The nurses that performed the fibroid operation were the ones who did the CS. To their amazement there was no trace of fibroid operation.. She gave birth to a bouncing baby girl



Jesus Christ is still in the business of doing miracles if only you can patiently wait ...


let this matter rest btw you and God not with Nairalanders and your mother pls

Ha, if I talk now them go say I be Athiest, any Doctor that does that would have his licence revoked, its a huge lie abeg.
Why would a Doctor tell you there is a baby when the scan shows none?
These are the kind of "Testimonies" they sell to gullible minds and when rational people like us raise clear issues them go say we no know God.

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Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by EfemenaXY: 4:03pm On Aug 08, 2013
See as religious freaks full ground for here. sad

*** Disclaimer: This post isn't intended to slight anyone here. I'm merely stating an observation. ***
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by ladygogo: 4:27pm On Aug 08, 2013
Efemena_xy: See as religious freaks full ground for here. sad

*** Disclaimer: This post isn't intended to slight anyone here. I'm merely stating an observation. ***



grin grin grin
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by free2ryhme: 4:28pm On Aug 08, 2013
debrief08:

Ha, if I talk now them go say I be Athiest, any Doctor that does that would have his licence revoked, its a huge lie abeg.
Why would a Doctor tell you there is a baby when the scan shows none?
These are the kind of "Testimonies" they sell to gullible minds and when rational people like us raise clear issues them go say we no know God.

na waooo

some people over read sha
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Aug 08, 2013
This thread has been derailed long ago.
Op asked for help only.
Op,why I said u should go with ur MIL is simply bc u r in a sensitive position.we all know what DIL that r yet to born pass tru in the hands of their MIL. Since ur MIL is yet to attack u but is looking for a soln, pls and pls indulge her even if u don't like it. U r still standing in that family.They r yet to give u seat. This is Nigeria. Going with her to her prayer house will not stop u from seein a specialist.
It will endear u to her and once ur MIL is on ur side,u r a kind of covered.
Pple here can say whatever they like but this is ur family and ur marriage. Whether d fault is from ur hubby or not is not what the nebor next door will want to know the day she decides to yab u.
I wish u baby dust very soon.
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by armyofone(m): 8:00pm On Aug 08, 2013
OP
Don't go if you don't want!! Going to churches to seek the fruit of the womb is a waste of time. Go to church to pray and hear preaching is enough. You go to God yourself not through sinning pastors or Italian olive oil.
Tell mama you BOTH did family planning in order to prep financially for the children.

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Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by TV01(m): 8:30pm On Aug 08, 2013
Efemena_xy: See as religious freaks full ground for here. sad

*** Disclaimer: This post isn't intended to slight anyone here. I'm merely stating an observation. ***

Slight ke? Is it not you? Busy pointing out hypocrites, when you wear that particular crown unchallenged.

Efemena_xy:

I stand firmly for what I believe in: Justice, Fairness AND Equality for all, irrespective of gender, creed, disability, religious affiliation or sex.ua.lity.


@OP,

If you believe, pray with your spouse. Alone if you will, but feel free to invite MIL, other relatives or friends. You don't need to go anywhere, pay anyone or undertake any rituals.

God hears, God answers.

Enjoy your marriage and may God fill your quiver with arrows.


TV
Re: Should I Follow Her To The Church? by EfemenaXY: 8:35pm On Aug 08, 2013
^^ Awww...of all the posters here, you just had to quote my post and respond, abi?

Why? Did I hit a raw nerve?

Anyway, keep on quoting me from thread to thread - I'm honoured. Nonetheless, I'm done with responding to you and your fanaticism.

Feel free to give a ten-paragraphed, ten-paged response to this. The dance floor's all yours mate.

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