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Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Truckpusher(m): 10:12pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Feed me more:Bring it on ,I'll be waiting patiently |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Feedmemore(f): 10:18pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Truckpusher: Bring it on ,I'll be waiting patiently Hmmm.... The fact of the matter is, I'll never ask a typical Nigerian guy out, and i have my reasons. Don't ask me why? |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Unitedabby(m): 10:20pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
patrkq:dont mind them jare!they are all the same !! |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Truckpusher(m): 10:27pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Feed me more:Like i said before ,bring it on and get the shock of your life ....btw what do you mean by a 'typical Nigerian' .....These are just stereotypes. Why don't you give it a shot? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
fankasibe:fortunately,there's no lack of princes charming. They abound everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Mannylex(m): 10:31pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Creative mind: I have a stand-point on this topic of discussion. I am a typical African boy and i'm well vast in culture and tradition. In fact, our cultures and traditions are great. Nonetheless, permit me to say it unequivocally and in plain language that the restriction placed on ladies or women based on their gender is not only too much but also like searching for an honest man with a stolen lantern. Permit me to use this analogy. Let's say our law gave us the right to life and yet we are not allowed to eat, drink or even move about. Is that not a right to miserable life? Isn't that laughable and ridiculous? Exactly my point! I'm a law student, yet I know scientists are wonderful and engineers are great but despite the erudition of the duo, they are yet to invent a machine that will fight the feeling of love and sincere emotion and i have my honourable doubt whether such will ever witness the light of the day. Placing this fact in our minds, i have taken an intellectual excursion through the bible and several books, there is no where the emotion of ladies have been regulated to ensure they don't feel for men and that it's only men that must feel for them. If this is so, invariably the same way Henry can have feelings and affections of love for Sandra, so also Asake can feel for Akanni and Mariam for Danjuma. To this effect, i think it is an emotional punishment and a misguiding fact which may appear culturally stimulating but emotionally misleading to see a lady asking a guy out as a shame to either womanhood, human generation and our culture. It is a divine feeling which no culture should alter, our social status shouldn't condemn it and our sentiment shouldn't cloud good judgements. If a lady should ask you out, that is not to say she's cheap. Infact, i commend such ladies for being themselves and shunning pretence and silent emotional death. Love and affection knows no class, age, religion, status or even gender. I humbly submit Mehn! Guy are you writing a term paper? Even an English lecturer would give up reading that. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Feed me more:exactly babe. Don't mind them. Just smile at them even.just a smile. And u get the reputaion of a slut |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Iaz93: 10:33pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Entertaining thread! @Harbosede and collynxo, you guys should give up pls. Feed_me_more, me likey you. |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by jayblinx(m): 10:34pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
segzi cres:seriously...never say never....cus u cud 1day go back to ur vomit |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Truckpusher(m): 10:34pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
lorretta u: exactly babe. Don't mind them.Lmao....apparently you've been running with the wrong crowd and you actually generalizing that?.......c'mon! stop painting us like the devil 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by eluquenson(m): 10:35pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Baybe: I've never asked a guy out, not with the attitude of Nigerian guys....If i'm really really into a guy and the guy is responsible I can ask him out...I still dey wait for that day Na oyinbo man say "make hay yle d sun shines" no be shereshere oh, av experienced it before bt, I turned d request down just because she's nt my taste. |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by inspbado(m): 10:42pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
I was asked out by three ladies at different times some years back. I eventually went out with the one I most shared common interests with, While I diplomatically let off the other two ladies. And I'm happy to say the two ladies are still my good friends till this very day. So ladies I'll advice u to always relate with mature guys and not immature and insecure boys who will treat you shabbily so as to feel hip and fly amongst their peers 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Feedmemore(f): 10:43pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
lorretta u: exactly babe. Don't mind them. Exactly where i was driving to when i said 'typical Nigerian' lol |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Unitedabby(m): 10:45pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
lorretta u: Most guys would like a lady to ask them out so that they can brag to their friends how one slutty girl is throwing herself all over him.o wait a sec!did you just mention the word DIGNITY?i bet 99.9% of you girls have long lost it so wake up gal!!! |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Feedmemore(f): 10:45pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Iaz93: Entertaining thread! @Harbosede and collynxo, you guys should give up pls. Really? Me likey you too |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by eluquenson(m): 10:49pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
ngozievergreen: I have not done it bfr and it doesnt look like sth i will ever do My piece of advice for u...it doesn't make a difference if u ask a guy out or a guy ask u out, d most important tin is INTENTION. Oyinbo man says "a stitch in time saves nine" Dats my 2kobo |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by BlackPikiN(m): 10:50pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Feed me more: Thanks for liking me. |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Okay. Thanks, point noted, taken and thrown in the waste bin. |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by eluquenson(m): 11:02pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Adexchelsea19: Goin tru d pages,i ben even tink sey that @Harbosede go fine,see as she wowo con dey form...na wao! Eniyansoro oooh Monkey e no fine bt him mummy like am |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by HARDDON: 11:05pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
feels swit! the subtle way they pass themselves across, with this shy smile the hesitation, fighting hard to hold back the tongue yet the body language gives them away. and when they finally find their tongues, they mumble some strange words.... like their hearts would just fall outa their cages! Fun to behold. then in my mind i be like ' now the predator has turned the prey " tuale to da big boss.... hehehe usually make it easy on em by pullin em ova and kissing the words outa their lips....awww awesome! but if i dont dig her person, i pull out ma pad and tab away,,,, and subtly move off mentally. dis happened one day, she excused her self, went to the rest room and wept bitterly( sorry J, just no attraction) |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Feedmemore(f): 11:09pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
BlackPikiN: You this guy! It's been a while, how have you been? |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by fairygeh(f): 11:09pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Creative mind: . Sorry brother, i wrote that for intellectuals and not loose-talkers. If your orison is inherently low to comply, contribute or analyse, why not concentrate on 2go alone. Nairaland is for more matured and articulate minds. I bet it's not for people who can't distinguish making one's stand known through comment and paper presentation. May God who gave you that big head teach you how to use it wisely. Amen. One love.Jesus christ of Oyo state.see yabbing 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Iaz93: 11:25pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Feed me more: |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by ceeceeco: 11:25pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
segzi cres:pride is a disease. It can deprieve u øf sø many tinz in life...take nøte! |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Feed me more: Nothing queen, I've just been chilling and enjoying what life has been throwing at me. And you? Hey, I'm sprung!!! |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Why's everyone trying to steal my feed_me_more? I paid her dowry already, go get ya own ya own! *Big Pun's voice* |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by MightyFortress: 11:27pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Wow! |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by ceeceeco: 11:28pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Harbosede02: Av neva asked n will neva ask a guy out,sey wetin??no matter aw much i might be into d guy,i wud neva tell im m intrested in im...pride is a disease, it can deprieve u øf sø many tins in life...take nøte! |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by 2legit2qwt: 11:29pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Feed me more, when are you gonna use your real picture? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Iaz93: 11:30pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
ShymX: Why's everyone trying to steal my feed_me_more? |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by RichesAD: 11:31pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
segzi cres:You'r right,pride wan kill her. |
Re: Ladies, Have You Ever Asked A Guy Out ? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Most ladies fil2 big2,odas tinkz itz weird...anywayz,SHE asked me out,gained my attention..nd WON my HEART(it was a moment wen i was tryin 2 choose btw her nd 2 others)...i felt xo HONORED dat day......stil remembrin dat AWESOME MOMENT 1 Like |
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