My coursemate, a girl, asked me out in the presence of my friends. I thought she was joking but it turned out she was damn serious! Can someone help me out?

I have reduceed the way I relate with her because I felt embrassed and disgusted (I don't think our girls are lacking moral upbringing). Worst of it is she not fine (nothing to gain). She is just like a virus infest your system and move ahead. I need help.

What is there to it.
Is it not just a matter of saying no thankyou and moving on.
But some people are so Vain they think "how dare she/he talk to me

Well you said it all  if you think she was joking,  hey i have similar thing like that, she really meant what she has told you and she took it in a joking aspect. just try and view the way she behaves to you now and you will get to know she aren't joking.

there is not bad in that, but mind you, you are playing with some emotion, put yourself in her shoe, she must have spent weeks if not month to rehas on how to tell you this just the way you will have sometimes plan to talk a girl out, so be careful relate to her in a friendly mannar say no and make sure you dont let her feel rejected in any case

what has fyne gat 2 do with diz, itz guyz like u that make such mistakes and i bet u don't look any beta

I 4 say, u r in Nigeria cuz in this part of the world, gurlzz do ask guyz out and if the feeling the mutual, wat is there 2 it? NUTHING, ambarrased cuz a gurl asked u out and cuz shez not fyne, u r ashamed cuz u grew up knowing dat gurl don't ask guyz out, dawg, time has changed and guyz being da only people asking out is a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT , datz it

Thank god he said no . she is better off that way .Talk of blessing in disguise

i bet u da only reason he said NO was cuz according to him, shez not even fyne

The real fine people know how to say no thankyou in a nice and polite way thats the funny thing.

it's nice,she lieks u
she didnt hide it inside herself,she show openly

Melifew:

My coursemate, a girl, asked me out in the presence of my friends. I thought she was joking but it turned out she was damn serious! Can someone help me out?

I have reduceed the way I relate with her because I felt embrassed and disgusted (I don't think our girls are lacking moral upbringing). Worst of it is she not fine (nothing to gain). She is just like a virus infest your system and move ahead. I need help.

What kind of help do you need?

Seems you've already made a jolly mess of it.

I feel personally outraged that you would refer to someone who thinks you're a nice person as a virus.

So, if the girl was nice looking as omotola or genny then you would change your course of action?

LOL Ano,

ahahahah,lol lo

Count your blessings and move on with your life, Personally, i won't overtly ask a guy out for the same reason.

Big Deal?

u called her a virus? Shame on u.

Just tell her no and move on, why make a drama off of it?

virus for being bold and confidence to go for what she want, i bet you ARE NOT that bold like her to approach the right girl for your self

I'm sorry but i'm gon really have to call u stupid, u should be appreciative that a girl find u nice or cute enough to ask u out but u had to open that big stupid mouth of your's and call her a virus and she even came to ask u in front of all your friends she is so brave even if u don't like her like that u are still suppose to appreciate that girl for that braveness and den politely find a way to say No to her with a good reason not some stupid ass reason like she ugly, what d f*ck is wrong with u because a girl ask u out now your head is all swollen this is d reason why some gurlz don't ask guys out it is because of guys like u the more i think about this sh*t d more i get mad. Not everybody in the world is pretty but from what u just wrote i can see that u are mentally challenged not that u are crazy but u are immature because if u are a man u are suppose to see more than a facial beauty and think about what is inside the heart. I'm not trying to force u to go out with someone u don't want to go with all i'm saying is u shouldn't be talking about this girl like a piece of trash u need to give her proops for what she did because u know that u are not man enough to do that!!! I don't really think i could do that either but it don't mean dat wen someone does it i got to call them a virus.

why da heck did u even post diz damn thing here? u have doen wat u wanna do so wat can we really help u 2 do? slap da gurl, abeg go siddon and i wouldn't be suppried dat u r just bragging 4 nuthing, next time, find sumthing good eough 4 me 2 waste time on dat is sumthing productive, dawynnnn

@melifew, i wish you could really right back and say something either good or bad i know we all have say somethings that will make you think right and if otherwise am sorry something is wrong up your head

YOU KNOW WHAT HOW I WISH YOU GUYS OUT THERE KNOW THE KIND OF GIRL I AM TALKING ABOUT BUT I DON'T WISH TO CONTINUE TO CASTIGATE HER HERE BUT JUST LIVE THE REST COS "KO LE YEYI"(AS IN YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND)

Is her blood not red.
Once when i was in school a girl came up to me, the color of her lipstick clashed with her skin colour and she was dressed in a very fancy (colorful) dress and she asked me if we could be friends.
I felt she looked funny and what would my friends say if i come up with her . But the back of my mind told me she most be very lonely.
Well i did not say no or yes but we just started talking. whats your name talk and so on . Then ok see you later.
Thats were it stayed when we jam we talk. nomatter  who is with me or not. And i think she still found friends.

Oh boy, i think you just damn crazy!

i think you should rather admire her courage.

About been ugly, dont be judgemental she might happen to be the best gal u will ever get. never think she is cheap. some other guyz might be after her and she is not giving a hhut about them.

if you dont want her, just be polite and respectfully turn her down without making her feel bad. if you want then accept her offer.

@Melifew

she asked you out, wasnt fyne and you said no, phew.

Question: What if she had the "fyne" quality

would you have said YES?

well for me thier is nothing bad in it it might be the girl am lookin forward to so i dont see any thing bad in goin out with your course mate no body know the right one , hehe

Worst of it is she not fine (nothing to gain).

now, thats funny! She's not fine?? lol

c'mon man, what year u think we are in, 40s? this day girls ask guys out and no yawa. 2 can play the game. is no big deal. real men are being asked out by real women, it's the new game, go wit the flow baby!

My Coursemate, A Girl, Asked Me Out Openly. Then give in to her privately!