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Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 3:12am On Jun 05, 2008 |
Hey, a friend of my really needs your advice. The new man in her life is totally EMOTIONAL!!! i mean it is rediculous. she wanted a guy who would express himself emotional but not a cry baby. So i was wondering, what is better having a guy who is totally emotional or a guy who is stern and keeps things to himself?? Thanks for your help |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Xerxes4(m): 3:16am On Jun 05, 2008 |
A man should be stern. Dang it. . . . .a cry baby kinda guy should wear skirt n bra. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Nobody: 3:28am On Jun 05, 2008 |
A cry baby--->hell no!!!!!! But he shouldn't be too stern either. Who wants a stubborn, dogmatic, obstinate man for a boyfriend? Certainly not me!!!!! |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by chiegemba(f): 3:31am On Jun 05, 2008 |
yeah a little emotional would be nice but not an emotional wreck. . . besides when am cryin i need someone 2 console me not it being d reverse |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by krama(m): 3:34am On Jun 05, 2008 |
Na wa for some questions ooooooo, is it only those factors you consider? |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Antidote1(f): 3:34am On Jun 05, 2008 |
~Xerxes~: REALLY? @topic I don't see anything wrong with a guy who cries now and then, We all know men cry a lot. They just don't do in around us ladies. Don't mind those who lie about not crying, |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Xerxes4(m): 3:36am On Jun 05, 2008 |
~Antidote~: U see nuthing wrong in a dude that cry? Blimey. . . . .who wants a sissy as a hubby? |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Antidote1(f): 3:38am On Jun 05, 2008 |
~Xerxes~: See me see trouble ooooooo, OK.I do .When he cries I will rub his head (more better if he's bald ) . That should make him feel better |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by RThESlyR: 3:39am On Jun 05, 2008 |
A Cry Baby?? In this age?? |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Xerxes4(m): 3:41am On Jun 05, 2008 |
~Antidote~: Now i know why u LOVE Nicholas Cage!!!! |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Antidote1(f): 3:46am On Jun 05, 2008 |
Just as I thought, Another loser-coward on the Prowl, Couldn't have choosen a more appropriate username, Kudos ewure, |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Xerxes4(m): 3:46am On Jun 05, 2008 |
Anutha interNUT on the loose!!!! |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Nobody: 4:17am On Jun 05, 2008 |
@post neither . . emotional guys makes me sick, literally. . . really disgusting stern guys are so annoying, like chillax |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 2:44am On Jun 06, 2008 |
i personally told my friend to leave him for a real man but what can i say she loves him |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 3:05am On Jun 06, 2008 |
®Th£ Sly®: well he is not necessarily a cry baby but you know he just gets real emotional about things that normally a woman would get emotional about. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Esss(m): 3:06am On Jun 06, 2008 |
dunno. a bit of both never hurts. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 3:09am On Jun 06, 2008 |
@ esss you are saying that you are an emotional guy |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by ariblaze(m): 3:19am On Jun 06, 2008 |
+++++ trying to picture this+++++++++ the guy crys then asks for tissue> |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Gabry(f): 3:55am On Jun 06, 2008 |
I personally think that in life, everything must be balance so the guy must be stern and emptional. Depending on the situation. Well,you don't want him to act up all stern when you are having a problem or someone died will you? And you wont want him to cry when in public right? So both criteria should be in a man. That applies to females as well by the way Oh and if your friend loves him, she should be able to accept him for who he is and accept his flauss otherwise, she could just tell him and explain to him in a nice way. But bare in mind, some people are just made emotional and they can't help themselves so it will take time. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 06, 2008 |
None of the extremes is good.He can be emotional (not a cry baby O!) when the time calls for it.If they loose a loved one he can be emotional in many ways without shedding a tear.And be stern when the situation calls for it too. No be when armed robber come house the man go dey cry like baby na the woman go wear jeans dey find escape route for the whole family.Tufiakwaah!! I feel I cannot cry before a woman.Thats my personal opinion o! |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 1:59pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
@dabriggs there is nothing wrong in crying before your woman. it shows that you trust her with your emotions. But in this case he juss cries for anything that goes wrong. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by RThESlyR: 2:03pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
onyinye2:Sorry but i think errthing is wrong. . . For a guy to be crying in front of his girl? ?. . . Thats very lame! |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 2:15pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
oka juss wait until you are down and in distress. and we will see you will have the last laugh. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by hixxx1(m): 2:54pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
onyinye2: Haba. What's your own naa. Go get your own bobo and leave your friend with hers. Who knows your bobo could end up being an homo and you will still accept him like that. Abeg o. Mind your business |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 3:00pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
whoa first of all how dare you. my friend came to me not the other way around. 2nd why would the guy im with be gay?? do you even hear yourself when you speak. guess not so sad to see ignorance in person. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by enque(f): 3:23pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
hixxx1: are u d guy in question? |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 3:26pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
how could i be the guy in question seriously lets use the brain god gave us |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by RThESlyR: 3:31pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
onyinye2:Down becos of a girl?. . . . .Pssssssssssssst u don't really know me. |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 3:32pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
oka you deny it now but the time will come |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by enque(f): 3:34pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
onyinye2:@ onyinye2-- i wasnt reffering to u, but to the guy whose response i quoted!, look how multifunctional ur own brain is!!! |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by onyinye2(f): 3:35pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
whatevers |
Re: Emotional Or Stern? Which Is Better? by RThESlyR: 3:42pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
onyinye2:Take it easy!!!!!!! No time is coming. |
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