I am dating a yorba man and we have not had sex.  I am waiting until our wedding night (15 days away) until we have sex.  He has said to me that once he has sex with me he will put something in there and will know if another man has been there.  What is this something and is this true or is he messing with my mind.

Also any tips for dealing with/loving/being with an yorba man?  He has been here in America for 4 years and prior to that in Italy for 7.

Thanks

I think he's just messing with your mind and BTW he does not trust you.
Why will you guys get married when there is no trust!!!

kile yan lese to ma te won lorun, i am proud to to be a yorube but trust me, i will not advise u to sleep with hm before marriage, but i will advise you to tell him if he really want that or real marriage

@poster,
he will put a round pole in a round hole
besides, he will know if you still have a tight pussy ;D

I know that he does not fully trust me.  We met for the purpose, thru a friend, just for papers.  But have been serisouly dating since we met.  He wants to have sex badly, as do I, but we have made a promise to wait for marriage.

Besides that I am not sure that his love that he states for me is true.  How good is a Yorba's mans word.  He has promised to never lie to me but I am not sure this is true.  I know that he treats me very well and is very romantic.  Althou all of this may be because of the papers.

Any tell tell signs i can look for in him to really figure out what is going on.  BTW the deal from the start was no sex before even laying eyes on him but after meeting, talking and dating things have changed for me.

Sista

Besides that I am not sure that his love that he states for me is true. How good is a Yorba's mans word. He has promised to never lie to me but I am not sure this is true. I know that he treats me very well and is very romantic. Althou all of this may be because of the papers.

Sweetie, the correct spelling is YORUBA.

Yoruba or no Yoruba . .all men are the same.
If he really loves u and wants to be with u . . he don't need to put anything "down there"

Thanks for the correct spelling. I took the spelling from another thread.

Thanks again.

anytime

@busyDiva: Omo, am laughing at your town people o They want to put something inside their babes pussy? Na wa o. This is a serious case of insecurity.    Diva, u no go reconsider me? As am not yoruba, I won't be put any 'totometer' in my partner's private part naa.

hixxx1:

@busyDiva: Omo, am laughing at your town people o They want to put something inside their babes pussy? Na wa o. This is a serious case of insecurity. Diva, u no go reconsider me? As am not yoruba, I won't be put any 'totometer' in my partner's private part naa.

U be winch?
how u take know say I be Yoruba?

enways, no man is worth that trouble o . . if he puts anything there, same goes for him o. . . its all love na!

Love ke? Its like poster's bride price is too much and her guy wants to secure his investment. T

The guy wants to avoid another round of Gbenga and Moji Obasanjo. Not after spending and sacrificing so much to get the poster to say 'I do'.

*examines case with all seriousness*

*conclusion*

He wants to put SECURITY for the good of the two of u, or maybe himself.

Simply put,

 MAGUN!!!!!

*translating to english*

@Easybaby; No mind me o. Na d lawyer in me dey talk.

this girl dey lie.

Mallam Shehu,

u again

Do you mean to say all Yoruba men lie or just the ones you have encountered?

sincity:

*examines case with all seriousness*

*conclusion*

He wants to put SECURITY for the good of the two of u, or maybe himself.

Simply put,

 MAGUN!!!!!

*translating to english*

For the first time, you talk true.  na MAGUN the guy wan put o (THUNDERBOLT). go and watch the film by Mainframe and you will understand better.  i dont think the guy loves you at all NOT TO TALK OF TRUSTING YOU.  FLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

*********speechless********

MY DEAR SISTA,

U SUPPOSE KNOW SAY YORUBA MEN ARE VERY CUNNY AND UNRELIABLE.BE CAREFUL

Seriously, why are you girl afraid of magun? E get as e be o. She una no fit hold body for una hubby?

Your questions are stupid.  What if someone asked you if all American men are liars, or if a Canadian man is trustworthy? 

The best way to prevent being lied to or used is by having self-respect and not letting people jerk you around.

How old are you?  Do you have no education?  Why on earth would you believe that he can put something inside you to know if you're a virgin? 

This guy sounds like bad news.  He is using you for papers and he sounds controlling.  I would run away fast.

But please, when he ruins your life, don't blame it on yorubas. Blame yourself for not being smarter.

charles316:

MY DEAR SISTA,

You SUPPOSE KNOW SAY YORUBA MEN ARE VERY CUNNY AND UNRELIABLE.BE CAREFUL

and who are u to judge or what makes u different from a yoruba man?

hixxx1:

Seriously, why are you girl afraid of magun? E get as e be o. She una no fit hold body for una hubby?

incase u don't know . . .they now have Magun for men too

infact, who teach yoruba men how to pick the women they will Bleep, it just piss me off when i see those mark on their face. ah, oyinbo don bring wetin no go finish,

amber_ella:

Your questions are stupid.  What if someone asked you if all American men are liars, or if a Canadian man is trustworthy?  

The best way to prevent being lied to or used is by having self-respect and not letting people jerk you around.

How old are you?  Do you have no education?  Why on earth would you believe that he can put something inside you to know if you're a virgin?  

This guy sounds like bad news.  He is using you for your papers and he sounds controlling.  I would run away fast.

@amber,
take am easy abeg.
besides . . where in Canada are u?

Sorry, I'm just being honest. It's better for her to hear the truth from a stranger than to learn the hard way.

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@amber,
take am easy abeg.
besides . . where in Canada are u?
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Still waiting for amber's response o

@busydiva
Magun for men that's goodnews.
that would sell well in Naija.
how do i get the magun for men?
easy way to become a millionaire.
Abeg i'm interested in magun for men.

I don't want to give any information on the Net. I have phobias of being discovered!

@bDiva: Magun for men is highly welcome. If for anything at least to give guys reasons to apply same on their babes. Naija guys are so committed to their relationships that I doubt if they will be afraid of magun. Can't say d same for babes. Not with all the temptations! With so many bobos roasting and hunting to bunk. Why won't hubbys use magun to hold their wiffy.