On a serious note, you are correct madamkoko. I cannot speak for other guys, I will speak for myself.  I cherish being in a relationship, there are many benefits in it inspite of the friction and arguments.  When I am single I roam a lot, but once I find someone that I am compatible with I become more focused at home, even if its just friendship and we are not married, I still devote the time to her.  If I am married to her she will never have to worry about me leaving or running the streets.  My problem is I am aquarius, it is hard to pin us down into a marriage. The girl must be very lucky that succeeds. Still, nothing compares to marriage, it is sweet and valuable.

@negro

wat has aquarius gat to do wt anything?

Trust me Jenny, most people are unaware of how their astrological chart is a big factor on their circumstances in life. I used to do online consultation for people, giving out astrological readings. I stopped,

@ 4 Him

I don't think you fit READ.

First of all, no where in my post do I bash married women

you're getting it mixed up. The average nigerian family raise their daughters to be independent, smart women first but do not fail to remind them that marriage is equally important. Are you trying to tell us that married women were raised to see their lives as unimportant and unfulfilling? ARe you saying women who are married with kids are not smart?

If you don't like marriage good, stop trying to make excuses why u think everyone else should toe your line. Marriage is the best thing 2 people can share.

Yes, Nigerian families raise thier daughters to independent. Yes, most Nigerian women are smart. Now, I don't know if marriage is as ëqually important as you state.  Its important but should not be the focus of a woman's life.

I never said that married women should see thier lives as unimportant and unfulfilling, I anyways, I'm tired.

if you marry someone you do not love, you are putting your self endanger for having an affair or getting a divorce. I understand because i am in college and choose to abstain from having a boyfriend. Not because i cant find one but i know when i am ready God will send me my husband

so like i said ,wat has aquarius gat to do wt anything,i want to know for real @negro

madamkoko:

@ 4 Him

I don't think you fit READ.

thank you ma. u fit borrow me glasses make i read am again.

madamkoko:

Yes, Nigerian families raise their daughters to independent. Yes, most Nigerian women are smart. Now, I don't know if marriage is as ëqually important as you state.  Its important but should not be the focus of a woman's life.

I never said that married women should see their lives as unimportant and unfulfilling, I anyways, I'm tired.

marriage should be the focus of a woman's life. Na the koko be that. Argue all u want.

@ negro where do you get your weed from bro?? cos that must be some really good shit.

4 Him:

marriage should be the focus of a woman's life. Na the koko be that. Argue all u want.

thank you sir.

marriage should be the focus of a woman's life. Na the koko be that. Argue all u want.

Hell No!!!!!! Unless it's also the focus of a man's life then I'll agree to that statement.

stillwater:



Hell No!!!!!! Unless it's also the focus of a man's life then I'll agree to that statement.

not necessarily. thats why IT IS A MANS WORLD>

@ Esss

hahahaha, No I don't watch Oprah nor do I watch Ellen.  

stillwater:

Hell No!!!!!! Unless it's also the focus of a man's life then I'll agree to that statement.

no be only hell no, add heaven yes join am. bush woman.
marriage is also the focus of a man's life, but since we are spoilt for choices maybe we take things too easy. women are the ones who have a clock ticking.

not necessarily. thats why IT IS A MANS WORLD>

According to James Brown, "But it ain't nothing without a WOMAN"

madamkoko:

According to James Brown, "But it ain't nothing without a WOMAN"

perhaps he meant something to stick his yekini into? 

LOL!!!

4him has said it all,a womans clock keeps ticking

And marriage should be a focus in a womans life,no woman wants to end up alone,forget all dis thrash they r all saying,every woman wants a man beside her,let them argue all they want,but its d simple truth

This double standard thing, I no get, I no understand am at all,

How come marriage is NOT important to men, but should be important to women ?

_{This law of supply and demand no fair ooh,}  chaiiiii

a marriage focuses on both a man and a woman. that is why it is called a "marriage" neither party should be but ahead of the other. personally i feel marriage is for anybody for any age. NO i am not supporting sugar daddies. cuz that is not even in the category of marriage.

no be only hell no, add heaven yes join am. bush woman.
marriage is also the focus of a man's life, but since we are spoilt for choices maybe we take things too easy. women are the ones who have a clock ticking.

Bush man

4 Him:

no be only hell no, add heaven yes join am. bush woman.
marriage is also the focus of a man's life, but since we are spoilt for choices maybe we take things too easy. women are the ones who have a clock ticking.

See the bottom foe the expiration date, cos the date of manufacture is hardly ever correct.

madamkoko:

According to James Brown, "But it ain't nothing without a WOMAN"

Keep telling yourself that. You just lost about 5 minutes reading this post.  

jennykadry:

4him has said it all,a womans clock keeps ticking

And marriage should be a focus in a womans life,no woman wants to end up alone,forget all this thrash they r all saying,every woman wants a man beside her,let them argue all they want,but its d simple truth

This is one of those moments when I wish I could hug you and give you a kiss. Please tell them the truth all women hate to hear.

jennykadry:

And marriage should be a focus in a womans life,no woman wants to end up alone,forget all this thrash they r all saying,every woman wants a man beside her,let them argue all they want,but its d simple truth

since when?
who certified this statement?
Every woman does not want a man, abeg! ever heard of lesbianism?
some women are berra off more successful when alone. . .sure you might need a man for a bootycall ( ) but it does not necessarily mean you need to or have to marry him.

@madamkoko
a man at 70 go fit still marry woman,and even impregnate her,but tell me, how is a womans life after menopause?

we can't continue comparing ourselves wt them men,men no get problem atall,na we women get problem

women age faster than men,our body systems goes down faster than that of men,time does not wait for a woman,that is y is better to act fast when the sun is out before its too late

And who said it was a man's world?
c'mon, wake up and smell the coffe

jennykadry:

@madamkoko
a man at 70 go fit still marry woman,and even impregnate her,but tell me, how is a womans life after menopause?

we can't continue comparing ourselves wt them men,men no get problem atall,na we women get problem

women age faster than men,our body systems goes down faster than that of men,time does not wait for a woman,that is y is better to act fast when the sun is out before its too late

yes yes yes. . yada yada. ,

not every woman wants to marry or have children

jennykadry:

@madamkoko
a man at 70 go fit still marry woman,and even impregnate her,but tell me, how is a womans life after menopause?

we can't continue comparing ourselves wt them men,men no get problem atall,na we women get problem

women age faster than men,our body systems goes down faster than that of men,time does not wait for a woman,that is y is better to act fast when the sun is out before its too late

U make sense, Jenny!!!
I am impressed.

jennykadry:

@madamkoko
a man at 70 go fit still marry woman,and even impregnate her,but tell me, how is a womans life after menopause?

we can't continue comparing ourselves wt them men,men no get problem atall,na we women get problem

women age faster than men,our body systems goes down faster than that of men,time does not wait for a woman,that is y is better to act fast when the sun is out before its too late

If you never expire yet, I fit come grab you now o!!        

@toyin

yes ive heard about lesbianism,but tell me how many lesbian couple have u seen that stayed married to d end?how many of them grow old and grey together?

a womans world is never complete wtout her husband

toyinrayo:

And who said it was a man's world?
c'mon, wake up and smell the coffe

e be like say na tea u dey smell since. if u dont yet know its a man's world then just ask Hillary Clinton.  

How come marriage is NOT important to men, but should be important to women ?

Does this answer your question??

''a man at 70 go fit still marry woman,and even impregnate her,but tell me, how is a womans life after menopause?''

Huh??

toyinrayo:

And who said it was a man's world?
c'mon, wake up and smell the coffe

I did.
Just smelt the coffee and it smell just like my favorite. Expresso, black with no cream or sugar.

Man's world my bloody foot!!!!!!!!!

@onyinye2

Not because i can't find one but i know when i am ready God will send me my husband

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Personally, I do not believe that God sends people husbands,  we all have choices and we choose our mates.