Okay so recently I visited my country Nigeria and had the best and worst time of my life, no thanks to mosquito, gossips, diarrhea, cough and catarrh and NEPA. I never knew that married women on skinny body fitting jeans are the controllers of their homes and can't take "orders" from their men as wearing skinny jeans equates to being in charge of the home . Well according to some people it is a crime for a woman under a man to wear such disgusting bottom wear. To make matters worse, the educated driver we hired in the east is completely against women over 30 wearing skinny jeans.

please note that these people have no issues with women wearing pants or free styled/cut jean, their issue is that skinny jean-stating that it is too tight and body fitting for a woman "under" a man to wear outside. I never knew a woman above 30 is not allowed rock skin tight jean again. Women and men in the house both married, single, asheriwos like dayokanu my brother should please help me out here, cos hubby has no issue whatsoever with skinny jean but obviously some men do, what do call it? Insecurity? I don't want to sound like a feminist but the men I me toned above are the reason why women push for feminism with their nonsense....under a man and taking orders line.

Do you think these people lack exposure or they are just insecure?

Jeans or leggings?

Jeggins

Jeans.

Come to think of it, if they hate jeans this much then leggins will be a taboo

jennykadry: Jeans.

Come to think of it, if they hate jeans this much then leggins will be a taboo

If my wife must wear skinny jeans, then she must wear a long top that will cover her butt completely.

Leggins? Nope, unless inside the house.

xynerise:
If my wife must wear skinny jeans, then she must wear a long top that will cover her butt completely.

Leggins? Nope, unless inside the house.

Insecure much? Or just scared/worried about other men eyeing her? When did married woman stop wearing leggins? Being married should not stop you from looking good. I don't support nudity and like you said, if worn with a long top, wearing leggins or Jeans shouldn't be a problem

What do you have against feminists?

Welcome to Naija

A married woman must not

Chew gum
Look too good
Laugh too much
Have friends
etc.

It is well

Firstly, Some are insecure

Secondly, the rest lack exposure.

Finally it is my feeling that skinnies don't suit everyone its not really about how old you are there are some clothes that are not age appropriate for over 30s but you cant just throw skinny jeans into that category -however, a lot of people who do wear them definitely shouldn't!I would take a trusted friend along for an honest opinion when buying a pair unless you are slim (they must be called skinny jeans for a reason?).

Skinny jeans go great with heels!Especially for those with short legs.
30-something or 20-something whatever you are wearing wear with confidence that's the most important thing.

jennykadry:

Insecure much? Or just scared/worried about other men eyeing her? When did married woman stop wearing leggins? Being married should not stop you from looking good. I don't support nudity and like you said, if worn with a long top, wearing leggins or Jeans shouldn't be a problem

Draw a thin line between insecurity/jealousy and Obscene dressing and causing others to sin

bukatyne: What do you have against feminists?

Nothing.

xynerise:
Draw a thin line between insecurity/jealousy and Obscene dressing and causing others to sin

According to what I heard, not wanting to cause others to sin is one of them reasons why celestial churches wear same all white. Even deeper life women are getting married by the day, no matter dull a woman dresses, there is always a mans blokos breathing fast whilst admiring her.

jennykadry: Nothing

I asked based on the bolded below

jennykadry: Okay so recently I visited my country Nigeria and had the best and worst time of my life, no thanks to mosquito, gossips, diarrhea, cough and catarrh and NEPA. I never knew that married women on skinny body fitting jeans are the controllers of their homes and can't take "orders" from their men as wearing skinny jeans equates to being in charge of the home . Well according to some people it is a crime for a woman under a man to wear such disgusting bottom wear. To make matters worse, the educated driver we hired in the east is completely against women over 30 wearing skinny jeans.

please note that these people have no issues with women wearing pants or free styled/cut jean, their issue is that skinny jean-stating that it is too tight and body fitting for a woman "under" a man to wear outside. I never knew a woman above 30 is not allowed rock skin tight jean again. Women and men in the house both married, single, asheriwos like dayokanu my brother should please help me out here, cos hubby has no issue whatsoever with skinny jean but obviously some men do, what do call it? Insecurity? I don't want to sound like a feminist but the men I me toned above are the reason why women push for feminism with their nonsense....under a man and taking orders line.

Do you think these people lack exposure or they are just insecure?

Jenny I can see you've been in Obodo oyinbo for too long, you've forgotten how things work around here.

how can you wear skinny jeans as a wife, mba nu nu . . . do you want every man to get a clear view of what your husband has bought and paid for in full for his eyes only? Tufiakwa!

These Igbo men are very insecure. Their wives must dress and behave in a certain restricted manner, or else people will think they can't control their wives.

Me sha, I still rock my jergens . . thank God for the kind of family I married into!

Each to his own. Personally, I dislike jeggins and leggins. If worn responsibly, there should be no raised eyebrows though.

bukatyne:

I asked based on the bolded below

I have nothing against feminist, if you use your tongue to count your teeth, you will get where I tried to come from with that line

jennykadry:

According to what I heard, not wanting to cause others to sin is one of them reasons why celestial churches wear same all white. Even deeper life women are getting married by the day, no matter dull a woman dresses, there is always a mans blokos breathing fast whilst admiring her.

You can attract normal men when you have a beautiful face or nice body, but you can attract both normal men and perverts when you dress like a w'hore(sorry to use the word''w'hore'')

No Qualms: Each to his own. Personally, I dislike jeggins and leggins. If worn responsibly, there should be no raised eyebrows though.

I think that's the point op is trying to make . .

It should be a personal decision not a restriction placed on someone cos she's married!

@Uju
My Oga will even help you buy the skin jeans and leggins for you. Which man is not proud to show off his wife and say to people ......"yea, that's my wife, the one wearing that sky blue skinny jean on 6inch heel" .

He even bought me one top before we left here, its a black chiffon like material with a portion of the upper back open. I wear a singlet Inside

xynerise:
You can attract normal men when you have a beautiful face or nice body, but you can attract both normal men and perverts when you dress like a w'hore(sorry to use the word''w'hore'')

All those women that got raped, did they all dress responsibly? There is something about men that I have noticed especially those with high libido, once that thing catch them, they will see a leper and call her the most beautiful woman on earth. The scales will only fall off their eyes when they are done

xynerise:
You can attract normal men when you have a beautiful face or nice body, but you can attract both normal men and perverts when you dress like a w'hore(sorry to use the word''w'hore'')

so I guess those child molesters are also 'attracted' by the way the kids are dressed?

A pervert will still be attracted even when u dress like a nun.

Now lets be rational.

Wearing Jeggins or whatever you call it is not a bad idea, but it depends on where you wear it to.

Can you wear it to you family house or to your mother-in-law?

If you wear a leggins and you are driving, its a different case. But if you are walking on the street with your husband, you think he will be proud to hear some guys whistling at the disturbing movement of your butt? Cmon! Lets tell the truth. No man will want another man to admire his wife cos of her obscene look.

jennykadry: @Uju
My Oga will even help you buy the skin jeans and leggins for you. Which man is not proud to show off his wife and say to people ......"yea, that's my wife, the one wearing that sky blue skinny jean on 6inch heel" .

He even bought me one top before we left here, its a black chiffon like material with a portion of the upper back open. I wear a singlet Inside

Your oga na oyinbo nah . . .

jennykadry:

I have nothing against feminist, if you use your tongue to count your teeth, you will get where I tried to come from with that line

I just did and still can't get it

xynerise: Now lets be rational.

Wearing Jeggins or whatever you call it is not a bad idea, but it depends on where you wear it to.

Can you wear it to you family house or to your mother-in-law?

If you wear a leggins and you are driving, its a different case. But if you are walking on the street with your husband, you think he will be proud to hear some guys whistling at the disturbing movement of your butt? Cmon! Lets tell the truth. No man will want another man to admire his wife cos of her obscene look.

First day I met my MIL I wore jean. yes I can wear leggins and go visit her. You don't even have to walk on the streets these days for men to whistle behind you, even in traffic with you sitting inside a car, some men still come to you and they can't even see what you are wearing.

I can count how many times I wear skirts or dresses in a year and that's usually in Nigeria for church service

bukatyne:

I just did and still can't get it

You will be fine, don't worry

jennykadry:

First day I met my MIL I wore jean. yes I can wear leggins and go visit her. You don't even have to walk on the streets these days for men to whistle behind you, even in traffic with you sitting inside a car, some men still come to you and they can't even see what you are wearing.

I can count how many times I wear skirts or dresses in a year and that's usually in Nigeria for church service

When men whistle behind you without seeing your butt, they whistle at the beauty of your face. You think say na every girl man dey whistle for?

Jenny, you dont know the effect of ladies with seducing butt have on men. Leggins makes a man who swore never to look at a woman's behind break his promise.

The problem is that both women with huge butts wear it

xynerise:
When men whistle behind you without seeing your butt, they whistle at the beauty of your face. You think say na every girl man dey whistle for?

Jenny, you dont know the effect of ladies with seducing butt have on men. Leggins makes a man who swore never to look at a woman's behind break his promise.

The problem is that both women with huge butts wear it

Lol, those with big butts deserve some loving too, haba. Some of us don't wear leggins to attract me, we wear them cos we feel comfy in them, I don't feel comfy in skirts and dresses and it sows when one see me. Give me jean anytime anyway and you have a very happy woman

jennykadry:

Lol, those with big butts deserve some loving too, haba. Some of us don't wear leggins to attract me, we wear them cos we feel comfy in them, I don't feel comfy in skirts and dresses and it sows when one see me. Give me jean anytime anyway and you have a very happy woman

My wife wears jeans more often than skirts but not leggins. Like I said earlier, she wears it with a long shirt.

I think leggins is cute, when worn with long top though

jennykadry: I think leggins is cute, when worn with long top though

Not just cute but best

jennykadry:

All those women that got raped, did they all dress responsibly? There is something about men that I have noticed especially those with high libido, once that thing catch them, they will see a leper and call her the most beautiful woman on earth. The scales will only fall off their eyes when they are done

Lmao!! Heheheheheh... A friend once told me that it doesn't matter if we thin, fat, tall, short, beautiful or ugly; us women are the same down there.

A lot of Nigerian men are conservative about how their women dress, but we have the minority that feel that their women should flaunt what they have. I agree with No Qualms that wearing skinny jeans should be worn responsibly no matter what age bracket one falls in. That one is married does not mean one should suddenly start wearing iro and buba in the name of marriage. Nigerian men are quite an insecure bunch.

^You no go understand