She found a condom in my luggage when i returned from a 1-week trip to Nigeria.
She's convinced that i'm cheating, and she's about to leave me. . . And i wont stop her! Why should I?

your girl is very smart . . but, u just answered your own question.

what was the condom doing in your luggage?
did u or did u not cheat on her?

Genuine:

She found a condom in my luggage when i returned from a 1-week trip to Nigeria.
She's convinced that i'm cheating, and she's about to leave me. . . And i wont stop her! Why should I?

U've answered the question na. . .

buzyDiva:

your girl is very smart . . but, u need to answer your own question first.

what was the condom doing in your luggage?
did u cheat on her?

Well, if she's very smart - then i'm very wise. . .  I will not answer the question but the condom could have been planted in my bag, i may have placed it there to see her reaction. . .  She doesnt even trust me so why should i stop her?
The other day, my younger sister called and she insulted her thinking she was my lover - simply because i told my sister "i love you"

hmmmmmmmmmm u lie

Genuine:

Well, if she's very smart - then i'm very wise. . .  I will not answer the question but the condom could have been planted in my bag, i[b] may have placed it there to see her reaction[/b]. . .  She doesnt even trust me so why should i stop her?

that one na story!!
trust ko, trust ni. . . why would u plant a condom in ur own bag to test her? watchu testing her for? If u ask me, it sounds absolutely stupid to do such a thing.

abeg the girl was very smart . . what if u came back with some kind of STDs or HIV . . she shld hug u and tell u good job?

u don't make no sense and I hope she leaves u ASAP!!

and u need to GROW UP!!

tope2000:

hmmmmmmmmmm u lie

lol. . .abi o

liar! liar!! pantz on fire

Well i do hope she leaves me as well, cos i wont be with someone who doesnt trust me!
This is the thing with our girls, the few of u that have responded have stood with one voice and said i was wrong and i must have cheated, unfortunately this is how you people react. . .
The guys are silent and watching, but i want to ask u all this question: How will u prove that i cheated?
If i were truly the player, do u think i'd be careless enough to leave condoms where she can find them?
And finally, what do i stand to gain or lose if she leaves me?

The thing that bugs me is that u said you would tell her how the condom got into your bag and that to me also means you are cheating and i must say you are living up to your name at all.

tope2000:

The thing that bugs me is that u said you would tell her how the condom got into your bag and that to me also means you are cheating and i must say you are living up to your name at all.

How does telling her (exlaining himself) amounts to cheating? if i was a girl i'd rather my b/f have condoms in his bag rather than bring stories of unwanted pregnancy/STD to moi.

jay bee:

How does telling her (exlaining himself) amounts to cheating? if i was a girl i'd rather my b/f have condoms in his bag rather than bring stories of unwanted pregnancy/STD to moi.

good thing u ain't a gurl . . a guys comes back from a trip with condoms in his bag and
Pleaseeeeeee pple . . think!

@poster,
U haven't exactly answered what the condon was doing in ur bag . . were u really testing her? did u use with someone and forgot it in your bag? do u guys use condoms when having sex and u had bought that for both or u?
ur story ain't straight.

and why would u wanna test ur gurl . . don't u also trust her?
u guys are really so full of ursef . . cos with u . . u really don't see anything wrong in what u did.

what if he bought 'em condoms so he can use it 4 passionate love-making when he gets home?

convince her you bought it to hammer her! ;d

jay bee:

what if he bought 'em condoms so he can use it 4 passionate love-making when he gets home?

Biko!!! jay bee don't even give me that oooooooooo, that line of sentence has been worn out after being used continuously by you guys.

jay bee:

what if he bought 'em condoms so he can use it 4 passionate love-making when he gets home?

is that how u roll?
u were thinking bout hammering her all thru the journey that u decided to buy condoms from naija to hammer her when u get to yankee or jands or wherever . . ??

@post
guy free her,if she jst found condom and she's paranoid,show her the exit door ,shes obviously supicious of u,and because u tell ur sis u love her she starts wialing,abeg fire her,

unless shes constantly found condoms on u,or uve been cheating on her b4 , if thats the case ur guilty na only u sabi d truth
gat this feeling ur tired of the girl and want her to run by herself!!

buzyDiva:

is that how u roll?
u were thinking bout hammering her all through the journey that u decided to buy condoms from naija to hammer her when u get to yankee or jands or wherever . . ??

Yes, is that how you roll jay?

buzyDiva:

good thing u ain't a girl . . a guys comes back from a trip with condoms in his bag and
Pleaseeeeeee people . . think!

@poster,
You haven't exactly answered what the condon was doing in your bag . . were u really testing her? did u use with someone and forgot it in your bag? do u guys use condoms when having sex and u had bought that for both or u?
your story ain't straight.

and why would u want to test your girl . . don't u also trust her?
u guys are really so full of ursef . . because with u . . u really don't see anything wrong in what u did.

I purposely made it a pack of gold circle so she'd know it came from naija, i purposely opened it up and took out 2 out of the four - i still have the 2 stashed up somewhere waiting to shock her when we break up.
I didnt cheat, i don't cheat, its a different thing if i was single and decided to play with many girls, but when i'm into a relationship, it stays like a relationship.
I did what i did because she's been looking for a scandal, she does things like scan my phones, my desktop an phone both have bluetooth and i programmed them to exchange info automatically whenever the phone is close enough to connect, so all my text messages download to my phone. . .  she is always pondering there, if i get a call when with her she insists on knowing who that is, i never monitor her like this. She insists on embarrassing me with this her jealousy all the time - and don't even tell me its love because its choking my throat!

buzyDiva:

is that how u roll?
u were thinking bout hammering her all through the journey that u decided to buy condoms from naija to hammer her when u get to yankee or jands or wherever . . ??

tope2000:

Yes, is that how you roll jay?

could have bought the condoms on his way home now. I normally park at the airport when i travel so a trip to boots will def help towards unwanted pregnancy.

Plus i wanna think i am a lot smarter to be caught out like that. Even if i get caught out trust me der r plenty of explanations in da rule book!

Oh, so there is rule book now!!!!!! so i am guessing only the guys know about this book.

@ poster

She is leaving and you won't stop her. How old are you? The reason is so obvious!

I think i'll even be a better person without her cos i've endured this close marking for over a yr now just to make her understand that i can be trusted but mehhnnnn, any small thing - wahala, any small thing - scandal, to the extent of my own younger sister becoming my babe!
I tire oh!!

i no no for am oh
but we girls can also make our own rule book
abi no be so ?

shylladear:

i no no for am oh
but we girls can also make our own rule book
abi no be so ?

i am creating dat shit 2[rule book]

why is it guys of nowadays act like bloody females? Bloody homosexuals I tell you.

Care to ask her what happened in her past relationship? Perhaps she was cheated on before or maybe something bad happened that caused her to have severe trust issues. Instead of you to talk about it with her you are busy whining on the net instead and making matters worse with retarded tests

TOH:

why is it guys of nowadays act like bloody females? Bloody homosexuals I tell you.

Care to ask her what happened in her past relationship? Perhaps she was cheated on before or maybe something bad happened that caused her to have severe trust issues. Instead of you to talk about it with her you are busy whining on the net instead and making matters worse with retarded tests

God bless you my dear

tope2000:

i am creating that shit 2[rule book]

Game is meant to be sold not to be told

wateva

try and put more effort in convincing her that u are for real maybe u havent tryed enogh
and it will be bad if u let her go just like that.

and what if she was testing u too?

pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee . . . u pple need to grow up!.
testing ur gurl by buying condoms from naija, open it, took some of it out . . just to test her.
what point are u trynna prove?

like someone said . . maybe u were already tired of her and needs an excuse for a break up.

poster what da hell r u testing her for?there are other ways of testing a girl,but definitely not with condom haba,if you're not cheating on her i wonder what a condom is doing in ya bag,drop that testing story abeg,don't tell me u went to a shop and bought a pack of condom all in the name of testing your girl that is joblessness and imaturity my brother