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Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by bong4(m): 3:02pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
tjskii: Ibadan ke...come to Ile Ife. Life expectancy is over 90 years average. Peaceful and very serene.You can walk from point to point, no area boy. Even Police will be hailing both of you. If you want to leave long, come to Osun State or better still go to Calabar 2 Likes |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by DonaldGenes(m): 3:04pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Nigerian Uncles be like "Chi u're nw a big gal oh turn around jex luk at ur frnt n back see chichi of yesterday oh oya come n sit on my lap" |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by FILEBE(m): 3:05pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Op. Thank you for the topic jare. It's about time we read something interesting jare. Tired of reading about Stowaway tins and endtime tins. Infact i'm willing to report anyone who pops in here to say Endtime Tins. |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by lertee(f): 3:10pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Very wonderful points..thanks OP |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by lertee(f): 3:12pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Donalð Genes: Nigerian Uncles be likeIt is quite unfortunate,this ishow child molestations starts. |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by checkdate(m): 3:14pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
I LOVE NAIRALAND |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by drnairalov: 3:36pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Donalð Genes: Nigerian Uncles be like loool i am getting popular...sweardown i own nd createdthis quote on my twitter account @9jawhisperer ...nau am seing this everywhre on BBM facebook nd now nairaland....with different remixes how i wish icud sue 4 piracy *crying i shud be making money choi!! |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by dsaynt: 3:52pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
drnairalov: My wife scored a free Kick against me with Mikel OBI while playing FIFA 13...i broke up with her...aint no way she learnt how to do that if she wasnt taken lessons from another man *sadface Hahahahahahahaaha! too funny. Abeg the woman get beta skills pass u. Good bonding activity sha. Lol |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by drnairalov: 4:05pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
dsaynt: tnx *happyface |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by ladygogo: 4:09pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
taking notes oh. |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by ladygogo: 4:13pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
debrief08: THIS!! i dont know how nigerians never get tired of weddings and going to all sorts of events every weekend. i seriously dont know how they do it. 1 Like |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by ladygogo: 4:20pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
orgasticdance: the men i see doing the things in your list are not men in the mold of murray bruce, donald trump, fola adeola, psquare, wizkid, late senator chuba okadigbo, govnor fashola, or even the most able mechanic in ketu. alpha males who for the most part drip with bloodthirsty ambition. no time. we'll send the cheques instead Do you know them one on one? What makes you think they dont bond with their respective families? And you think the cheques will solve all your earthly problems? |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Abbey4life: 4:44pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
tjskii: My sister, I beg let them continue to stay in lagos. Their coming to Ibadan would in a way congest our darling IB city please. We are getting the best of fun here dear. |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by damiso(f): 4:57pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
crystalballs: Naija Men do all and more than these with the wrong woman, not with their wives. I don't like generalising but this is true for SOME Naija men : .Sad but true I remember in my job hunting days after NYSC, someone sent me to one big honcho in one of this new generation banks.Its job we went for na another thing he dey talk.Thank God I was not omo ojuorolari but the next thing was do you have a passport? I said yes he said Ok I can cut the week short next week lets go to SA for the weekend we leave on Thursday and come back on Sunday.This is someone who later told me (he became like a big bros after I refused to date him) that he does not have time to go on summer vacations with the family, so its just his wife and kids that travel, all his trips were solo with handbags am sure.He was always like my wahala is too much but me I used to tell him God is watching you.So sometimes this people can make time for side runs but not their wives. 2 Likes |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Plumkin(f): 5:03pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
In no specific order and under the assumption that you're both in love: Stare into each other's eyes Don't forget the kissy kissy Shower together Play fight Dance Fall asleep in each other's arms Learn something new together Try to let some things go, so long it doesn't lead to resentment Try not to get too clingy Honesty is premium |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by fijiano202(m): 5:31pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Honestly am not married but with my girlfriend i do most of this things like the movie part,i dont really like watching 2hrs movie,am more into series,so when shes around i do my best to watch her kinda of movie and she sometimes tell me we should watch a movie i like so i wont get bored,we sometimes take a long occasional walk to fun spot to buy pepper soup or suya,buying them is not the fun part but the gist and catch up will have while going and coming,sometimes when going to her place i buy wine or ice cream or something i know she likes and maybe suprise her with what i notice she wants,what i came to understand abt relationship is trying some new as a couple is always fun and always brigthen ur relationship |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Nobody: 5:38pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
For couples and singles in a relationship, while playing ludo or card games, u cld spice it up by placing bets... Steam it up by playing multiple times with the loser of each round taking off a piece of cloth on his/her body! I remember playing dis game several times with my 1st gf! It was awesome! And for guys, try not to over win! When she's down to panties or bras, try and lose a game or two intentionally before winning! It will spice up the event! 1 Like |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Fhemmmy: 5:41pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
wise_many2k: For couples and singles in a relationship, while playing ludo or card games, u cld spice it up by placing bets... Steam it up by playing multiple times with the loser of each round taking off a piece of cloth on his/her body! I remember playing dis game several times with my 1st gf! It was awesome! And for guys, try not to over win! When she's down to panties or bras, try and lose a game or two intentionally before winning! It will spice up the event! I love that one |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by femmefatale: 5:55pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
orgasticdance: the men i see doing the things in your list are not men in the mold of murray bruce, donald trump, fola adeola, psquare, wizkid, late senator chuba okadigbo, govnor fashola, or even the most able mechanic in ketu. alpha males who for the most part drip with bloodthirsty ambition. no time. we'll send the cheques insteadYou won't be surprised to know that those aforementioned men still find time out of their very busy schedule to do some of dos things with their women. 2 Likes |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by vainfairy: 5:59pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
chaircover: Debrief, thank you for your encouragement sweetie. I had it all planned out. A beautiful hotel with first class amenities, and with heaps of activities programmed for the whole weekend including swimming competitions, quiz nights, dancing competitions, karaoke, guest speakers, breakfast in bed, swimming pool party and lots & lots more. . . just for the couples to have fun, unwind and bond, but people were so negative about it. Vainfairy: Pls do revisit dat idea & make it work! I can boldly tell u dat u wont eva regret making it work. besides, u'd b a real life n' marriage saver,u just dnt knw it yet! I also av sumtin relating to ur idea on d cards, but its nt a lagos gateaway! When u start hearing abt it,knw its me!! 1 Like |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Olysmile(f): 6:29pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Gd informatn debrief, i luv to unwind it refreshes love btw husy n wify. |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Daresh(f): 6:33pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
I always like to try new things. My husband calls me good time girl, but mehn I have to enjoy my life not just exist. We go to dealdey.com a lot to get inspiration on what to do. From go-karting, to boat cruise, I just bought stage play tickets for both of us. He will wear shoe and we spend time together. The other day I vexed and bought ticket to calabar after begging him to come e no gree. Next thing I know, he is buying his own to come along. Its just necessary to make time out to spend with your spouse. I just dont get the one of work work work, no time to hang. We do Tuesday movie well well, free drink and popcorn on top N1000 ticket. We stroll out to buy suya after putting the babies to sleep. Just sha try, make the effort to be together and you would enjoy it. 2 Likes |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Nobody: 7:31pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
duffie: Wow!!! I'm single but it's very useful...I'm always scared about the 'boredom phase' during marriage.. So you are still single @ ur age and even not ashamed to say it openly? Ur mum married @19 and you 36 still single. Nne Duffie why? |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Nobody: 8:13pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
RedBenson: Are you okay Do I know you ? 2 Likes |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by coolest01(m): 9:55pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
adexsimply: FAINTS!!hehehehe, he wasn't programmed to do so cos he doesn't do it..lmao 1 Like |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Mrsmansson(f): 10:24pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Madam debrief loves life jare.but you know eh when a man is no longer interested in his wife,he really wont accept the fun bonding time.some of them prefer to go look for their girl friends for programmed sex in a quicky(motel)or sit in beer parlours |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by MicSmith: 10:36pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Nice ideas oh...... But there is one very important thing that must be mentioned. Physical appearance! If it was so important while you were single, it should be more important when you are married. Life itself is a routine. E.g(Wake up, bath, work/school/sleep, home, tv/laptop/video game, sex/soapy/porn, sleep, wake up.....) But nobody is complaining. We love our monotonous lives. SEX is the most potent bonding activity for couples. More sex, varied locations (car, office, kitchen etc). Doing things together is also good idea (cooking, bathing, dishes, cleaning, praying, gossiping, swimming etc). Date and marry your best friend and you won't have to read this thread |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by frankzone: 6:38am On Sep 07, 2013 |
Chillisauce: Is this for a typical Nigerian .It's either half-truths or u just lied |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by HawtMummie(f): 7:03am On Sep 07, 2013 |
You just have to keep spicing up things in ur marriage. Looking good is the first step. When man or woman looks good, they feel good, then they want to showcase themselves . Get a personal trainer. Even if its morning jogs, it'l help in shapening "fallen" contours. Date yourselves once again. For women, stop nagging. Stop being quarrelsome. Its a huge turn-off. Men, chillax, invest a little more time with ur wives, u'l be amazed @d attitude change. |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by coolest01(m): 8:00am On Sep 07, 2013 |
greatwaters: When we're bored, we just beat each other uphehehe |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Rejoice5000(f): 9:05am On Sep 07, 2013 |
Chillisauce: Is this for a typical Nigerian .hahahahahahahahaha una no go kill me with laugh. stray bullet ad bottle break on ones head.funny post. |
Re: Fun- Bonding Activities For Couples by Rejoice5000(f): 9:07am On Sep 07, 2013 |
[quote author=bellong] Depends on what you want from life and family. It can only be difficult for people who believe money is everything. One thing I have learnt in life is contentment with whatever I have. Once I have food and basic needs, I am happy. I left a well paid job for a lesser one and to a conducive environment. I did this because I don't want to end up becoming a visiting husband/dad. The old job will surely turn me into one. I am happy raising a family that will not add problem to the society. Find time to bond with the family, money can only enhance comfort but it can't give peace especially when people do not know when to rest and relax..[/quote] SECONDED |
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