duffie: Wow!!! I'm single but it's very useful...I'm always scared about the 'boredom phase' during marriage..

debrief08: Bless you jor, how did I forget Ludo, card and other indoor games.
Be a good cheat with chess, Ludo and whot.
For Ludo, learn how to push your newly out seed into the home zone with sytle.
For WHOT learn to hide the bad cards.

Don't say na me teach you the day you get up and cards come tumbling down oh.

wise_many2k: For couples and singles in a relationship, while playing ludo or card games, u cld spice it up by placing bets... Steam it up by playing multiple times with the loser of each round taking off a piece of cloth on his/her body! I remember playing dis game several times with my 1st gf! It was awesome! And for guys, try not to over win! When she's down to panties or bras, try and lose a game or two intentionally before winning! It will spice up the event!

davidylan: Not married yet but here are the fun activities with "the woman" that i have found to be very rewarding...

1. Road trips - the fun actually starts with planning each other's calenders to fit a trip in. Packing clothes, stocking the car with odds and ends like water bottles, fruits, maps...

2. Watching movies

3. Going to comedy shows

debrief08: One sad thing I have noticed is that most times when we get married have a few kids fun and bonding ends for the Nigerian couple.

Social activities are restricted to attending Church, weddings and namings.

The wife is caught up in trying to balance a career and a home and the husband is stressed from work and helping out and spends most of his alone time watching TV or if he is outgoing with friends.

The wife also spends free time on her own shows and with friends. Their only time together is in the bedroom which slowly turns boring and routine.

I was there and hubby and I worked out some fun bonding activities that we do together sometimes with the kids:

1. Evening stroll: this helps us manage our weight, talk, catch up, play love, hold hands and just be friends. We do this on less stressful weekdays after an early dinner, walk down somewhere if we need to get something rather than drive.
We get home refreshed, smiling and take a bath sleep very well.

2. Picnics: doesn't cost much, sometimes we just take books, read and lie on each other in a park. Mostly lazy saturdays when Grandparents have the kids. We make lunch pick up some wine and go to a park, find a quite corner and spend the day. Sometimes we both take day offs during the week and then the parks are virtually empty. Its great.

3. Watch a movie: our favorite sport. We take turns in selecting the movies as our choices differ, I may not like his choice but I watch and vice versa, we make out in the cinema ( we sit up back) and we cheer shamelessly and loudly at the movie.

4. Play video games: His sport, I learned to play and we play even though he is a master

5. Salon: Once in a while he comes with me to the salon, makes fun of what we do, makes the other ladies laugh, gets pizza or snacks for everyone, I feel happy, he gets rewarded big time

6. Spa: sometimes we go get massages together especially after a stressful week.
Its fun and relaxing.

7. Mechanics: Believe it or not spending a day at the mecahincs can be fun. We take our meals and a drink, get some for the mechanics, we gist, eat, check out the work, go home shower and rest.

There are a lot more but as I remember I will post more.
Try out one of these this weekend if you don't already.
Stay in love.
Best wishes

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Miscellanous:

Lame. Very lame. This woman will soon leave u. She will get bored if this is all u ve to offer with sex.step up ur game.

Miscellanous:

Lame. Very lame. This woman will soon leave u. She will get bored if this is all u ve to offer with sex.step up ur game.

debrief08: Ah CC how did I forget Karoeke, we love that.

Abeg go ahead, Nigerians can always complain and find faults but market it well them go buy.

Besides is it not easier to spend fun time and money bonding than to go and spend on theraphy settling issues that will be avoided by spending quality lovey time

tjskii:

Hahaha ure so funny,dts y I kip tellin u lagosians to come to ibadan,blve me ur life will never remain d same,minimal traffic,lovely scenery,work closes latest 7pm,ibadan is the dream

tjskii:

Hahaha ure so funny,dts y I kip tellin u lagosians to come to ibadan,blve me ur life will never remain d same,minimal traffic,lovely scenery,work closes latest 7pm,ibadan is the dream

chaircover:

Please stay in Lagos o!
Im still fighting Tjskii sef. I dont know why she is inviting people o!
IB, the only city you can still buy N20 pepper

chaircover:

Please stay in Lagos o!
Im still fighting Tjskii sef. I dont know why she is inviting people o!
IB, the only city you can still buy N20 pepper

davidylan:

Lame by your own standards? Perhaps you would be better off commenting on things you ACTUALLY have an idea about.

chaircover:

Oya come be be but you must promise to behave

We may even bump into you while sopping in soprite

chaircover:

Oya come be be but you must promise to behave

We may even bump into you while sopping in soprite

jidegirl12: Pls stay put for your lashidi oh and leave our rural Ibadan alone oh

Very peaceful and quite.

chaircover:

LOL . . . you are welcome

bring your cusin sair with you when you come o!.

chaircover:

LOL . . . you are welcome

bring your cusin sair with you when you come o!.