How does life as married couples begin?

It begins the moment after the wedding bells have rung, the vows have been said, and the rings have been exchanged. Moments after this session signals the wedding is over and you both have in one way or another become husband and wife.

From my observation, lots of things happen after this stage, ranging from discussion of where to spend the honey moon, number of kids to have, what their names will be and how they will be brought up.

But does it really end here?

Not at all, it goes as far as the husband bridging wife's link of communicating to the outside "bad boys" as well as the wife shutting out every known or unknown principalities also known as "the other females" etc... Couples spend months and years chasing this ghost issues whilst the bedrock to the marriage is somehow ignored.

In our world today, a man gets up to marry mostly when he is financially OK or comfortable... that's understandable. Whilst the ladies most of which are working class seems to be a little comfortable with same regards before saying goodbye to spinsterhood.

In a matter of equality, both parties come together as one with some amount of financial willpower (no matter how little)

It's often been said, "no money, no love" in as much as I don't totally agree with this saying, I strongly do agree to the fact that with some sort of financial backbone, that certain marital problems could be avoided.

This brings me now to the ONE THING COUPLES AVOID AFTER MARRIAGE.

And that is "Combining Finances After Marriage"

How many married couples does it today?

They just pretend it's not important. Wife banks her cash to herself while husband spends his and in silence wondering if the wife had any money before marriage at all. These thoughts can lead a man to behave strangely at certain points in a marriage which in another way makes the wife to imagine if her husband is even man enough to cater for her.

What a world of silent hypocrisy!

Isn't it important that married couples discus combining finances after marriage? Or at least talk about it?

Money can be a relationship breaker.

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