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Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:03pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Wu Zetian: Too bad I have no girls to teach,may be you do the teaching if you eventually get them Miss self sufficiency. If anyone needs help here,you do , being Miss self sufficiency is also not what your daughters life should revolve around.Are you trying to say that your so called self sufficient women can't be found in bullsh1t union??Love can never be the only factor, neither can your self sufficiency and age.I can see that your mentality is that of getting married to divorce tomorrow,thats why you are preparing for marriage like you are going for war,hopefully you won't also teach your daughters #preparing for marriage-combat 101# 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Ngokafor(f): 9:04pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
..*picks up mic*...for goodness sake can we all grow up?..what on earth is the bickering and insults for?!!. Whats so difficult about dropping opinions and moving the ef on?!...chochocho since morning haba!...poor op has apparantly taken cover from all the unexpected verbal missiles here..gosh!..*drops mic*... 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:08pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
You'll still find some uncultured loose mouthed vultures spewing trash out of their sorry self. Mrs I did it at 23. how I wish the husband can log on here and see what their mother in-law claimed she moulded Pure clay sand moulding with no fittings 8 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by DollyParton1(f): 9:18pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Dayum!!! The married ones are aggressive. 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by jumbotron: 9:22pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Dolly-Parton: Hahahaha, I fear! Ladies, please. Throwing insults is just not even it. Please we should all learn to share views without attacking each other. The thread is so messy now. It is also embarrassing that we as adults can spew insults at ourselves like this. One person needs to be the bigger person and kill this nonsense. Either make nice or ignore insults and help the OP. This thread is not about anyone else but her...all the back and forth is just noise. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:22pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Isn't it funny that it is automatically assumed that I am middle-aged?? Lol I could detect the "market woman" mentality from a mile away 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by DollyParton1(f): 9:23pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
jumbotron: OP, I am a young married woman. I love my husband and I thank God I was able to finish school, work while being a wife and mother. My husband was super supportive. I see where the young married ladies are coming from but I will advice you, you know your story and your husband. Remove pressure from him and society and consider a few things. Are YOU on your own willing to walk down this path? Make sacrifices and put your needs aside for the greater good of your new family. Bear with your husband getting grumpy about your education taking center stage, because he has to take a back seat for a little. Afterall, you might as well do the education thing with all excellence. Some of these unhappy women you see nowadays are products of rushed unions. We need to get out of this mentality of: He will leave and you will be lonely later, or time no dey o. God bless you plenty!!! You nailed it sqaurely! |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:27pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
jumbotron: I be lyk say u're new arnd here. Just sit back and relax, enjoy the flow, the mods wld soon come and do their job. |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by jumbotron: 9:30pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
[quote author=alutacontinua] Ok, I'll do just that. |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Konnektions146(m): 9:34pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Wu Zetian: Isn't it funny that it is automatically assumed that I am middle-aged?? LolSholly abeg leave dem before dey term yur points "rude". She is just not ready to digest the fact that we differ from her own opinion, i wonder whats going on in her home........#NotMeanToBeRude# I can smell frustration. 7 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:36pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Keep wondering, don't concentrate on wondering on what is going on in your life ,go back and read yourself lashing out like a motor park tout. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:42pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Konnektions146:LoL, I'm done with her. Ignore her response, we just have to be the mature ones 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Nawa oh See drinking of panadol for another person's headache. |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by jumzzy448: 9:44pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
@ byvan, pls i'll advice you stop replying these people. No need wasting your time and strength on them. 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:49pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
@Jumzzy, Trust me,am tidying the school uniforms while at it, sorry ,I give up, i won't respond to them anymore. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 9:51pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
It was fun while it lasted, ciao!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by jumzzy448: 10:04pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
byvan: @Jumzzy, Trust me,am tidying the school uniforms while at it, sorry I give up, i won't respond to them anymore.Thanks so much. That shows so much maturity and class. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by jumzzy448: 10:06pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Dolly-Parton:To your bad rubbish I guess...mtchewww 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 10:13pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Which mods? It's only certain posters some mods follow around stalking their posts o. There can be nuclear war going on in other threads and they will jejely ignore. They have been insulting themselves for like 6 days straight on the igbo traditional wedding thread and the mod hasn't branched there yet. Lmao @ this thread. Oh how have the 'mighty' fallen. Bwahaha!! 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by JOYCEOUS(f): 10:16pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Women sabi quarell no b small. |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by JOYCEOUS(f): 10:20pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
ileobatojo: N who's the 'mighty' that has fallen? |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by thatchic: 10:36pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
@Byvan the association of “mrs I did at 23” is in support of dropping this subject. Marriage has become so twisted for so many. People date in college irrespective of age. Some want to take it to the next level (without belle and desperation or with belle ).why knock it because you didn’t try it. It can’t be your way or the highway. YOLO so “do you”. (1) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruth_Bader_Ginsburg this woman was married with a child in law school (and yes she took her baby to class, IVY LEAGUE, no less) and still become a supreme court judge. (2) Oprah Winfrey did her thing with no husband or kid. (3) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marissa_Mayer had her career set before getting married and having a kid. So the world has enough space for everyone. Why I go fear to tell my parents that I am ready to get married to a gorgeous, smart hard working man (3 years older than me, no be sugar daddy). My marriage is not hell on earth; it is stable, loving, trusting, and supportive and I am glad to have found my partner early. If it happens for you at a different time it is all good. Off topic: people need therapy and Jesus/Allah/whatever you believe in. Spewing so much hate and anger on a faceless forum!!!!!!. I believe in staying in your lane and the topic clearly states “getting married as an undergraduate”. Let those who have lived it, tell it (The good, the bad and the ugly). I don’t go trolling on the thread below because I have nothing of value to add it. https://www.nairaland.com/1164806/single-nairaland 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 11:12pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Hahahahaha Ya! stay in your lane alright....teacher don't teach me nonsense, experience is the best teacher...if not for the useless ASUU strike, ideally a 23year old lady should be dress shopping already, IMO why wait and sleep with all men in town cause you wanna be 'out there' and eventually become a bitter and frustrated left over If mine brings a responsible boy or girl from a respectable family home at 23 , why not, let her pass on the love of her life because As for the long epistle from one poster who married young and had a 'beautiful' marriage and 100% hubby support during her time but wouldn't advice her own kids and sister to do same if they have same shot , I find that conclusion without a valid reason very flaky .... All I have to say to that is; eeshhh. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by armyofone(m): 12:20am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Now your post cracked me up, ileobatojo: 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Revolva(m): 2:08am On Sep 26, 2013 |
mamalette: Am 23. Got admission to school quite late. Am in 200 level presently. My boify is stable financially and hez been asking that we get married soonest. However, he stays in lag while I school outside lag. Am worried, how wld he cope while am away? And is it advisable that I get married while in school? Thanks! wetin be unaown n marriage ..its never the way to hapiness..oga at 23 u never finish school sef na marriage..go n learn more but life...ok....ohh because u see free money....women....na wa 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by Nobody: 2:44am On Sep 26, 2013 |
armyofone: Now your post cracked me up, |
Re: Getting Married As An Undergraduate by sonitadion(f): 4:00am On Sep 26, 2013 |
I remember when I announced to 'friends' that I was getting married. Some of them dey vex, proper binu saying "why would u get married now? You are too young" and all those bullcrap. Now, 70percent of them are envying me. 29percent are angry I didn't invite them for my wedding (even after I don do my 1yr wedding anniversary). Some say dey wan still flex small (no problem). 1percent think they wouldn't be able to stand the stress of marriage wt school, (which is very understandable). Inside that 70percent, 50percent were bold enough to tell me dem go like marry now if dey see who will marry them,some say make introduce them to my husband frnds (god forbid lol).... That 29percent, dem go dey der dey vex, I go born 3children leave them, it's my first daughter that would be their chief bridesmaid when they are marrying at 40 - dey vex after dey don insult my decision finish.... So my dear, if ur guy is understanding, go for it. I wouldn't advice you to hold off on the child bearing till u finish school- make God bless you as he wan take bless you. Mk e no bi say after person don go the school finish, the person would be going from one crusade to another looking for "fruit of the womb". Oh btw, I was the first of my classmates in uni that got married. After I did, 3 others followed so now, we many for class 4 Likes |
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